Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

hey say that being tanned makes you look thinner, but Im five nine and 125 pounds. I dont want to look too skinny.

2007-07-05 06:32:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I try my hardest to do what he wants me to do and be who he says he wants. He has had dozens of women in his life and I have only been with four men in 13 years, so he has MUCH more experience than I do. We have different values and different views on everything, especially raising children and religion. He is constantly looking for ways to cut me down and blame me for the household issues. He often ignores our daughter and calls her a mistake. He says he will be a better father when she is two and three and older instead of a baby like she is now. One of his ex wives says he treated their kids the same way, that's just who he is. He always tells me he wants this or wants that but when I try to do what he wants he finds someway to make me feel like its wrong. He used to say he wanted to marry me but now all he says is that I make him crazy. We only make love once or twice a month now instead of the two or three times weekly that it used to be. I love him but I don't know what to do.

2007-07-05 06:32:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 06:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a lot of nice employed intelligent single guys. There not overweight or slobs eithers. Wile so many woman are married to abusive, selfish jerks.

2007-07-05 06:31:01 · 20 answers · asked by wisemancumth 5 in Singles & Dating

29, not married, 15 year relationship, 3 kids...... confused

2007-07-05 06:30:17 · 24 answers · asked by 30 going on 40 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married soon and want to get my bridesmaids a gift thanking them for being in the wedding but I don't know what to get them. Any suggestions?

2007-07-05 06:29:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-05 06:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by HopeH 4 in Friends

I've asked about pointless fights and the like, and it appears men are supposed to listen better. With my ex-wife, I did listen very well; I'm a great listener in general. What I had a problem with was hypocritical accusations, like "The way you ask to go out with your friends is uncaring," or "I thought we were going to have a day off together." She was much more uncaring than me when she would tell me that she's going out with her friends or when she was called into work. There were numerous scenarios like this, and I couldn't help but speak up and tell her she's being a hypocrite. I see this as a very common thread between men and women, and I don't see how listening better to hypocritical and/or pointless accusations is helpful. Is it just that I was with a particularly hypocritical woman or what?

2007-07-05 06:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 37 hubby is 39 so time getting on as we started late but known each other a long time. I have always wanted 4 kids he would have been happy with one.

He says he cant handle the ones we have never mind any more and get stressed easy. He is in the Army and away quite a lot. I am a childminder and dont find it that hard. I want all my kids to have the same dad and really love my husband but I really want another baby.

Do I get pregnant and have a big mistake (which Id rather not do) or have the 3 he is happy with and always feel I missed out on it?

I really want the four but want to be honest. He has a 20 grand custom harley and a new car so does not go without his wants.

please help me if you have been in a simliar situation

Can I just say I have PCOS and know we are very lucky to have them especially as so many cant have kids so I know they are special every day!

much appreciated

2007-07-05 06:28:09 · 21 answers · asked by claredannyd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any good honeymoon package on the beach under 2 grand. I'm wanting like white sand and clear water... pref with meals included. Ideas welcome!

2007-07-05 06:24:16 · 13 answers · asked by Kristen H 1 in Weddings

How did you figure it out?

2007-07-05 06:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Alice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left 6 months ago. We have two young children. We did fight often over finances and his lack of wanting to work a full time job. One night I asked him about a girl and he got mad and left. He kept threatening divorce so I finally went ahead and filed to give him what he wants. Oh and by the way he was cheating on me with that girl. Two months later he confessed and she had dumped him for her ex. I love my husband and I understand people make mistakes. Our divorce is almost final just waiting on the papers. As soon as he left he went and got a full time job and still has his part time as well. Why couldn't he do that when we were married? It seems like all he wants to do now is hang out with his friends. He doesn't even seem to care too much about the kids. He just takes them because it is court ordered and his friends love my kids especially some new girl or lady. What do I do to get over him or get him back?

2007-07-05 06:18:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well i'm 19 and have been married for 6 months. I started having sex with my husband a year before we got married but we had dated a year before that. Anyway he has been the only one i have been sexually active with. No one knows but i have never had an orgasm. I don't know if thats normall or if maybe i'm doing something wrong. I just want to kno that thats normall and that i don't have to get an orgasm and its ok. Does every women get one? Or are there some like me that don't ? Please help and tell me what could it be. I do enjoy sex and its great and i have tried different things and never gotten one.
Thanks so much!!!
xoxoxox

2007-07-05 06:18:10 · 23 answers · asked by ADRIANA 2 in Weddings

What are some remedies other than divorce for being married too young?

This way you can fix the "mistake" without losing everything that you have built on a shaky foundation.

2007-07-05 06:17:26 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is that ok like?? Would my bf be pissed off with it or start cheating because he didnt have it with me?? or is it kind of necessary?? i dont want to end up Having it before marraige incase of pregnancy! to be sure! im 15 & hes 17, but id say we'd get married afetr 5 YEARS! THATS WHY PLZZZ ANSWER!!

2007-07-05 06:15:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love cruises. Cruises to anywhere and I'd have my husband with me. Can't imagine going without him.

Just curious. If you could be ANYWHERE, where would you be and would you take your spouse?

2007-07-05 06:15:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have a few very close friends that wont be able to attend our wedding this fall because they will be deployed to Iraq. He is prior military also and we would like to do something to honor our friends and their service either at the ceremony or the reception. Any ideas??

2007-07-05 06:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by legends_chick 3 in Weddings

My ex and I broke up about a month ago, we were together for about 17 months. But now it's like we didnt even break up, we still go out. He still takes me to family events and such. So at this point I don't know where we stand. And I don't know if I should just stop seeing him.

2007-07-05 06:10:24 · 10 answers · asked by dlg1028 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in love with someone who has very bad hygiene. I am a very clean person...takes baths daily, brush my teeth and wash my face every day. In the begining I didn't know about this persons problem. He doesn't brush his teeth and doesn't takes baths everyday like I do. How can I tell this person he needs to wash his azz and brush those golden nuggets in his mouth without hurting his feelings?

PLEASE, SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!!!

2007-07-05 06:08:09 · 14 answers · asked by Moorehowse 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

http://www.bridaldiamond.com/jewelry/Diamond_bands/detail.cfm?mid=4273&subcat_id=68

Is it too much diamond for a man's ring or is it nice?

2007-07-05 06:07:40 · 23 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Weddings

i'm 16 and my b/f is 18. his mom is always at our house, she brings up the subject of no sex b4 marriage, and i try my hardest not to bust out laughing. should we tell her about it, so i can get it off my back, or just keep it a secret so she doesn't think i'm a slut?

2007-07-05 06:06:09 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy and I dated for almost two years. The break-up was really ugly and its been 6 months since its happened. I cheated on him but then appologized and wished him well in his life. I left him alone but he stills spreads rumors about me after all this time. Recently he came to my work and wrote a a piece of paper...."When am I going to get my history lesson?" He tells everyone that I cant get over the past but i have. He is the one that cant....What should I do.? Should i just ignore his inmaturity once again or should i go of?? I just dont understand why he cant leave me alone. He even had a new girlfriend with him when he passed the message to me...

2007-07-05 06:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

i snuck out of the house to hang out with a friend a few nights ago. he took me to his place and we both watch a horror movie on his laptop on his bed. during the movie he got all close to me and we were..cuddling? i guess you can say. and after the movie..it happend. we..had sex.? the problem is, im scared im a rebound. he just broke up with his girlfriend not long ago. & before things actually happend, i asked him if i was a rebound or if this was going to be a one night stand. and he told me "i honestly dont know whats going to happen...we dont have to if you dont want to.." i've liked this guy since the beginning of the last school year. and we finally hooked up & stuff. i still really like this guy alot. i just dont know what to do since im scared im a rebound. he knows i like him. all day everyday since, i was thinking about what happend. i dont know what to do now..

2007-07-05 06:00:48 · 19 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 05:58:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Sure, I had an affair, but it's because my spouse ___" (fill in the blank with any old BS) or I love my wife but she just won't love me back.. I've tried everything.. Every now and then, I'd like to see some honesty: "Yeah, I screwed up all right, I slept around on my husband/wife and I deserve whatever I get for it."

2007-07-05 05:58:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As a Christian I need clean ideas for a fun night with my friend who is getting married. So far what i have is a lingerie party where everyone needs to bring the bride to be something cute to wear for her honey moon... but we also need ideas on games and stuff.. Its going to be a slumber party with facials and stuff... but what other cute ideas can we do... to keep the fun alive???

2007-07-05 05:58:03 · 12 answers · asked by leenystar2003 2 in Weddings

We've been together for a little more than a year. Still very happy with each other, and young enough for it to not be a sex drive issue. but neither of us has been really interested in sex lately we'd rather cuddle or just spend time together. I'm thinking it might be stress since her family has recently informed her that they don't want her dating me or even talking to me anymore. any ideas would be great....and of course, any ideas on dealing with it. thanks =D

2007-07-05 05:56:20 · 17 answers · asked by bluefyrefusion 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 05:55:02 · 34 answers · asked by marymari 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents love my fiancee, but they don't necessarily think I should get married to him right now. They say its the fact that I'm too young (19, turning 20) and I have no goals in mind. Also the fact that he's in the Navy and he's going to move in a month. I had wanted to move with him, but they won't let me.

Only thing is; I'm in college, I pay bills, I get groceries for my family, and I'm getting myself a car. I'm financially responsible and such, but they bring up I'm not responsible enough.

HELP!

2007-07-05 05:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by darkangelz01 2 in Family

I just want him to relize what is in front of him before its to late.

2007-07-05 05:51:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating