My parents love my fiancee, but they don't necessarily think I should get married to him right now. They say its the fact that I'm too young (19, turning 20) and I have no goals in mind. Also the fact that he's in the Navy and he's going to move in a month. I had wanted to move with him, but they won't let me.
Only thing is; I'm in college, I pay bills, I get groceries for my family, and I'm getting myself a car. I'm financially responsible and such, but they bring up I'm not responsible enough.
HELP!
2007-07-05 05:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by darkangelz01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're an adult, you take care of yourself, you pay your own bills, and you're old enough to make your own decisions.
People have gotten married younger than 19 and it has worked out just fine. If you feel like this is the man for you and you really want to spend the rest of your life with him, then go for it.
good luck.
2007-07-05 06:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Yogi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure ur parents only hav ur best interests at heart, they know u better than most,
Although ur age is not the issue here.
Besides, their not saying dont marry this man, their just saying not right now. If u both love each other that much waiting a while wont b a problem, it also gives u the chance 2 prove 2 ur parents how ready u r 2 b married. If its meant 2 b, it will happen, its all good & well being financially responsible, but r u emotionally responsible, marriage is not a joke...its easy 2 get caught up in the "honey moon period".
Take ur time, ur parents love u gurl...
2007-07-05 06:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by ice . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to tell you to marry him or not because I dont know either one of you but the fact is your a responsible adult now. If your parents are holding you back then obviously you are not ready to get married because you are still tied to the umbilical cord. Once you truly feel independent enough to make your own decisions then you will be ready to marry.
2007-07-05 06:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not relying on your family for financial support, then you don't need their permission to ruin your life.
2007-07-05 06:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your old enough to do what you want to do, i don't see any problem in your age
2007-07-05 05:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋