Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

I always get the looks but thats it. Im not ugly, but you always see really tall guys with tiny women.

2007-07-05 07:04:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whats usalli the longest a guy can go, before he comes???

2007-07-05 07:03:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a divorced mom, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years. I am ready to get remarried to him, but he is stalling on asking me.
He has told me countless times that he wants to marry me, and we live our lives and plan for the future as if we are married.
I love him very much, and want to be with him as his wife.
How long is too long to wait for him to ask me?
I think the old saying that "why buy the cow when the milk is free" saying might be true.

What do you think?

2007-07-05 07:02:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We watched "The Secret of MY Success" yesterday with Michael J. Fox from 1987. As kids we watched this movie often.

It is interesting to me to see the women in that movie that were considered to be some of the most beautiful women at that time. In today's society, they would just be considered average attractive women. And I'm not just talking about hair and clothing styles. I'm talking body and facial features, movements, attitude.

These women had average bodies, even the promiscuous wife of the boss. Slim, average breasts, nice bodies. Certainly not what we would see today, big breasted, big butted, looooong thin legged women with striking features.

In real life now, men who have been around for the last 20 years, have your own preferences changed? Do you prefer one look over the other? Do you know what I'm talking about or am I rambling?

2007-07-05 07:00:25 · 17 answers · asked by Stephanie J 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now, and were both each others first. we also havent had our first kiss yet. i really dont know what to do and so does he. any suggestions??????

2007-07-05 06:57:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

fake breast. He is 38 and Im 26. He said he didnt really like it, but thats just how they came. Except one girl who did was a stripper and did it for the job. He said he didnt want her to get them and it was weird. So now of course I have a complex cause Im not huge and I want him to be satisfied (no im not getting implants) he says he likes mine over fake **** any day. So men, do you all like fake ones or real ones?

2007-07-05 06:53:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 06:53:38 · 4 answers · asked by John D 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 06:53:37 · 2 answers · asked by noel012001 1 in Weddings

I really like this girl and I have for quite a while... we've been talking alot recently on the phone and on the internet and I think she likes me too (she said she liked me before she went out with her boyfriend and she flirts a bit)... I dont think her and her boyfriend are right for each other at all.. he bosses her about a bit and is very clingy and you can tell from some of the things she says that she doesnt like it... We've been planning to get together but lately I've been wondering if this is fair on him completely? We haven't said we're going to do anything but she's keeping it a secret etc. Plus we are all quite young so it's nothing hugely serious going on... Her boyfriend also has a major grudge on me, the dirty looks and "stay away from her" type you know... Anyways what do you think?
Jake

2007-07-05 06:52:56 · 18 answers · asked by Luke 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to get a great book that can help with my marriage... i need to but a sex positions book.. where can i get it & which one should i get????

HELP PLEASE!!!

2007-07-05 06:51:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Even if i just did before we were intimate, i was told by some people that this is because he is hitting my G spot, and if i relax it will feel really good, but the feeling is so strong its hard to relax (or maybe i'm just scared i'm gonna pee on him) if this is the case how can i relax and make the fealing go away, or what is it if not?

2007-07-05 06:49:47 · 1 answers · asked by champaign200221 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

almost every guy or person usually just cares about the ooks. what happened to getting to know somebody, the deeper meaning of things. where has it gone? i need an explanation.

2007-07-05 06:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by The giraffe that passed gas 4 in Singles & Dating

Talked to a girl online and when we met, I was late by 45 minutes because I live about an hour away from her, and I called her on the way out of town because I had forgotten to get gas. She was cool about it, and said no problem. Then, when I walked into the restaurant, I told her that she didn't look at all like her pictures, like I thought she did, and she said what do you mean? I said it's not in a bad way, it's actually better, and she told me that she thought I looked different but better.

But, the evening went straight downhill from there, and she didn't say much even though we had hit it off so well on the phone. I kept asking her if she was upset about the picture comment, and she said it just surprised her and made her think that I wasn't attracted to her since that was the first thing I said to her. She said she thought I was just saying that she looked better to be nice and save face, and that I was bullshitting. Then we went for a walk and then she was asking me if I was ready to go, and I just told her that I wanted to be friends. She said, See, I knew that you really weren't attracted, what is it about me you find so unattractive? Then she told me she thought it was wierd that my sister in law was still in contact with my exwife who cheated on me, and I have lousy taste in women. Why would she act like this?

2007-07-05 06:47:02 · 20 answers · asked by googlegirly 1 in Singles & Dating

my 21 year old bf broke up with me because of my dad and told me to wait till i was 18 because we can be together without ur dad's consent but i don't want to get back with him because he has hurt me more than 20 times and i took him back more than once and now he is trying to get me and my bf to breakup now so he can get back with me by telling my bf i am cheating on him when i aint but now my x won't leave me alone

2007-07-05 06:46:52 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Singles & Dating

sometimes when me and my hubby are doing it I would like him to touch me on the outside while he is in the inside, you get a great O that way, I would be happy to do it myself too but it seems like it hurts his ego or something???what do guys think of that??

2007-07-05 06:46:07 · 17 answers · asked by debbie v 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a 4.0 honors college student, graduating at age 20. i've always been the smart girl, the innocent girl. ive lived up to this role.

but i also like to think im pretty. i'm 5'6 112 pounds, dark brown hair, tan... i usually hide it behind a ponytail, sweatshirt, and a book. but i looked in front of the mirror and put on make up and got all "dolled up", and.. i'm pretty.

I want to start taking pole dancing classes. It's a beautiful art; it takes strength, beauty, and grace. But my friends and boyfriend don't support this. Why not? HOw can I convince them?

2007-07-05 06:45:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married and I know lady who is divorced. I have 4 kids and she has 3. We are having a sexual relation for the last 6 months. Today, while we were in the train, she had some ininnocent look with a guy. I didn't like that. I told her later that I didn't like that. I was polite and didn't try to hurt her when telling her that. I told her if she is going to do that, she'd better do it when am not with her. She told me that I don't have the right to say that and I shouldn't express such feelings casue we are not married or engaged or committed.
Do you think that I don't have the right to say how I feel? I know that it is an awkward situation that am married. However, this is the situation.

2007-07-05 06:44:59 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

(if you talk to them right?)

2007-07-05 06:44:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been taking care of my friend's son aged 14 for the past 10 years coz his mom (single mother) was working somewhere in Europe and come back to see him only once in every 2 years so I was like a mom to him. I am single, live in a studio and shared the same bed with him ever since he was a baby. I used to wear very lightly, sometimes naked to bed as I don't have a air conditioner but having a blanket covering myself.
Recently for the past 2 months he would creep under my blanket and cuddle himself against me like I was a bolster with one of his hand holding my breast and I could feel his erected penis between my buttocks whenever my back faces him. I can't ask him to sleep else where coz there is only one bed. Is he doing this on purpose or is he having wet dreams? I don't mind it if he is really sound asleep.
Moreover he don't feel shy taking baths without closing the door and change in front of me. I've told him many times but he don't seem to listen. What should I do?

2007-07-05 06:43:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-05 06:41:13 · 6 answers · asked by mary therese g 1 in Singles & Dating

My niece is getting married this month and has never drunk liquior so I'm trying to find games for us all to do that doesn't involve liquior.. ( I am the maid of honor and there is only 3yrs diff. then she and I)I live in town and the party will be at my house.. Any good Ideas for nine girls to do?

2007-07-05 06:41:00 · 9 answers · asked by Americasgirl 3 in Weddings

My brother is turning eight and i don't know what to get him for his birthday!!!??? Could somebody please help me in finding a great gift idea!!! Thanks~Ya'll are the best!!

2007-07-05 06:40:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-05 06:37:34 · 7 answers · asked by Fanny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 06:37:11 · 9 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 in Singles & Dating

My brother has become a avid liar this past year, he hides everything from his parents and me. He used to never tell an untruth and now I don't know what to belive from him. I guess he must be picking this up from his friends at school. I have caught him in many lies but he doesn't even seem to care. what to do?

2007-07-05 06:36:55 · 13 answers · asked by NY Lady 5 in Family

2007-07-05 06:36:17 · 12 answers · asked by kitkat 2 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday for 4th of July we had a small get together at my place of both families. My 17 year old sister invited her boyfriend without asking either one of us and my husband asked him to leave (no one else likes this boyfriend except my mom). The boyfriend asked why and my husband told him he was not invited. So the boyfriend left and my mom and grandmother started arguing with my husband about how rude he was for asking him to leave. Knowing my husband very well it went better than I thought it would have (my husband has a record for violence and other assault cases)- I think he took care of it in a calm manner. Now my mom and grandma said they would never over to my place again. Do you think my husband was wrong? Should I apologize to my mom and sister?

2007-07-05 06:35:57 · 13 answers · asked by Prissy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my kids are a girl(6) and a boy(4). wife is cheating or atleast in love with some one i know, she doesn't know that i know, all she tells me is that she doesn't love me and doesn't care about trying to make it work. I have old telephone bills that show how many calls, how long, and how many text messages have been sent to this person. i saw a text calling her "mami" and "i love you". those are the clues i have and i'm desperate because i gave her everything. she didn't even finish high school and now with my help and support she was going to finish and get a career.
I live in a 3 unit home, my parents live in one and i live in the other. my kids love their grand parents and i know my kids are better if they live with me and have their grand parents close by. if she leaves with them, they'll live and deal with strange people. and i don't want them to see their mom with other men. they are just too young. what do i do?

2007-07-05 06:34:27 · 10 answers · asked by jj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I was getting married, I think I'd be pretty fair with the bridesmaids and matron of honor. I'd say "as long as your dresses are the same shade/color and whatnot, wear your hair either up or down or with curls/styles, nails can have color or not,etc." Some brides strictly have it set in stone that so and so cannot wear this or that. Not me. How would you be?

2007-07-05 06:34:20 · 25 answers · asked by YinxSphinxmen 4 in Weddings

look me and my boyfriend have a kid together but we broke up 5 years ago but we just got back together im living with him know but how do i get him to marry me?i love my boyfriend he loves me to but he hasnt ask me to marry him!

2007-07-05 06:33:41 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings