I really like this girl and I have for quite a while... we've been talking alot recently on the phone and on the internet and I think she likes me too (she said she liked me before she went out with her boyfriend and she flirts a bit)... I dont think her and her boyfriend are right for each other at all.. he bosses her about a bit and is very clingy and you can tell from some of the things she says that she doesnt like it... We've been planning to get together but lately I've been wondering if this is fair on him completely? We haven't said we're going to do anything but she's keeping it a secret etc. Plus we are all quite young so it's nothing hugely serious going on... Her boyfriend also has a major grudge on me, the dirty looks and "stay away from her" type you know... Anyways what do you think?
Jake
2007-07-05 06:52:56 · 18 answers · asked by Luke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
meet her
find out what her intentions are
let the GIRL tell YOU how she feels
dont do anythin stupid, and say its up to her who she chooses
..but if she breaks it off with her bf, give it a while before you go public.
DONT get in a relationship with her before she is single. You dont want to get in more tight corners than you are already in
..thats all i have to say...
2007-07-05 07:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by robinjayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically it is wrong, and you would not want her to do that to you. Think of it like this, if he is so bad why has she not broken up with him? Does she still like him, is she insecure? You need to think about this, if she likes you so much and her boyfriend so little why wont she break up with him? If she liked you while she is in a relationship maybe she cannot commit. Has she personally told you the bad things her boyfriend does or have you witnessed it personally. You just need to understand that karma comes around and what glitters is not always gold.
2007-07-05 13:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by can j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It is never right to cheat!
I did date a couple of other girls when I was dating the one that became my wife.
However, I was COMPLETELY up-front that we were merely dating, and that I was just getting out from a long-term relationship. I also asked her if she was OK with that, and she was.
By the time I had gone on a date with a third girl, I simply couldn't get my best friend out of my mind, so I married her.
2007-07-05 14:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Chris C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to be a woman and tell him she doesn't want to be with him anymore (if that is the case). maybe you are the punching bag here. you shouldn't even want to be involved with a woman that will sneak around on her man ...that is her mentality and will eventually do you the same way. get a woman with morals and values and doesn't already have a man. frankly you are a loser, you can't find a woman besides her? no, cheating is always wrong and anyone should have the balls to tell a person they don't want to be with them. if they don't then they must want to stay, simple as that. you are being played my good friend.
2007-07-05 13:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to be friends. But i don`t think you should get serious with this girl. Because if she really liked you she would break up with and go out with you. She is using you to make boyfriend jealious, so be careful.
2007-07-05 13:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by ranger33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 26 and my ex is 33. I cheated after 3 years of hell. I was beat and strangled in those 3 years. Then I found a guy who rocks my world and YES I cheated...Iam withhim to this day.
So yup...sometimes fates is funny.
2007-07-05 13:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It isnt ok to cheat. Even if they say stuff like "Yeah I will leave him/her" they wont. wait until she is officially single before you do anything. And the lady who said it is, was wrong. she shouldve left that man a long time ago. She couldve got hurt worse if he ever found out.
2007-07-05 14:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never ok to cheat and also not ok to break someone else up.
I say if she is happy being with someone that treats her the way he does she is probably not the right girl for you. Also what would stop her from cheating on you - would you be able to trust her?
really think this one through
2007-07-05 13:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by Animal Helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NEVER right to cheat. If a girl is unhappy with another person then they have to leave them to find someone else. Not cheat on their boyfriend no matter how big of an a.s.s they are.
2007-07-05 13:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs to break up with her boyfriend. If she's not happy with him she should move on and if it's you she wants to date then she should. Why would you want to date a girl who is cheating on her boyfriend? She'll do the same to you especially if she gets away with it.
2007-07-05 13:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋