sometimes when me and my hubby are doing it I would like him to touch me on the outside while he is in the inside, you get a great O that way, I would be happy to do it myself too but it seems like it hurts his ego or something???what do guys think of that??
2007-07-05 06:46:07 · 17 answers · asked by debbie v 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HMMM Debbie D,I know just what you are talking about.The EGO maniac does not know what he is missing,it has nothing to do with him.Does he not realize how much you rock when you do that?He is a damn fool.There is another way to get the same result.In the future when he is on top of you,you should shift your boby lower so that your head will be somewhere under his chin.this will force his 'flash light' to press against your hmhm.that way his up and down motion will produce the same glorious effect. Don't allow him to do the touching,he is too stiff to know how to touch gently.If he continues to be a cave man just find time when he is not around to take your warm baths. Good luck and plz send feed back
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2016-09-29 03:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're intimate with someone you should be able to tell them what you'd like and what you don't like. It seems you either have poor communications or you worry to much about his ego. Quite frankly I can't see how an ego can be damaged if you ask for some digital clitoral stimuli.
2007-07-05 06:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem with it. I used to have a g/f that would do that and occasionally even penetrate herself while I was inside her. I found it to be a great sensation and an incredible turn-on.
Edited for additional information: Have him get in push-up position so he can watch, that is what my g/f used to do. Men are visual and this will just increase the physical sensation.
2007-07-05 06:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by s1lvermidnight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't hurt his ego! Just try it and see what his reaction is. My hubby loves it when I do that...so just take a chance and try it out.
2007-07-05 07:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it won't hurt his ego. If you want him to touch you, just tell him. I tell my hubby what I want different and he just roles with the flow.
2007-07-05 06:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, some guys are like that. It's silly.
did you ask him?
it's just variation, not that you are dependant on that, so why is he taking it personally?
Ask him how it would feel if you only gave him an orgasm through his prostate without touching his member. That's about the same thing!
2007-07-05 06:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i love to and do all the time,no it wont hurt his ego.. It will boost it when he sees how you react to it
2007-07-05 07:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband prefers it, it doesn't hurt their ego it get's them more excited.
2007-07-05 06:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by I'm Here 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and take over. I think he would be much happier that you were satisfied rather than being left wanting.
2007-07-05 06:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kristy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋