me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now, and were both each others first. we also havent had our first kiss yet. i really dont know what to do and so does he. any suggestions??????
2007-07-05 06:57:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it ok to make out the first time? where should i put my hands? is tongue ok?
2007-07-05 07:07:46 · update #1
Well if you're ready to kiss him, go for it! Go out on a date somewhere special and lean in and do it. The more you think about it, the more nervous you'll be.
2007-07-05 07:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by SmileyFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once the time is right, someone needs to just go for it. Lean in making eye contact. Start out slow, and just flow with each other. Kissing comes naturally, and each one is a little different in its own way. You should close your eyes, but that will probably come natural to you as well. Just make contact with your lips and move them in a way that is comfortable to you.
Make sure you have good breath, and it's best when your lips are a little wet, not too much, but not desert-dry either. Also, don't cake on the lip gloss or lipstick unless you want your bf to wear it too!
You don't have to do anything fancy at first, but once you do it more, you can start to incorporate your tongue if you want, and kiss longer (i.e.-making out) You can move on to kissing around the ear, nibbling on his lip a little, etc. Just ask each other if you're not sure what the other person wants in a kiss. You'll do fine! Have fun! :)
2007-07-05 14:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by -♥-lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find a place where you can always go back to. Just in case later in life you wana ask her to marry you, you can ask her in the same place where you first kissed. haaha Well Find a nice private place then sit and talk to her and tell her how much you love her and think about her all the time. So then when you are ready move in closer like you want to press your heart up against hers. Look into her eyes and go in for the kill. Dont go no 90% then her 10% thats bull.. Your a man go about 150% tounge included. This better be your best kiss youll ever make because that will determine if she ever wants to kiss you again. If it is a lousy first kiss then she wont wana kiss anymore. so make it good, make it hot, and make it last!! LOL Good luck! Holla
2007-07-05 17:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Faded Funk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Breath freshner, practice with a pillow (no joke) don't jam your tongue down his throat take it slow and since you both are doing it the first time neither of you know better any way enjoy it, just do not take it too far your still young enjoy kissing for a long time, congrats!
2007-07-05 14:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by can j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pucker up and go for it. It'll happen naturally. The first time I kissed a guy I bit his lip! At least you two are doing it for the first time together.
2007-07-05 14:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I had my first kiss I just had to get over my worries and do it. It will turn out fine. Just push yourself if thats what you really want. Then just go with the flow.
2007-07-05 14:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kiss_Kiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since neither of you have been kissed before, you don't have to worry about him thinking you're not a good kisser, cuz he won't know any better. don't think about it, just let it come when it comes. don't force it, otherwise it'll ruin it. do whatever feels right, and don't worry about anything.
2007-07-05 14:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody knows, thats why everybody kisses diffrent, just do what feels right, best part is he has nothing to judge you against so he will be ok
2007-07-05 14:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have kissed 3 or 4 different guys. go to this site, it helped me a lot.
http://festivals.iloveindia.com/valentines-day/first-kiss.html
2007-07-05 14:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by ROXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it, if neither of you know what you are doing you can learn from each other
2007-07-05 14:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋