Family & Relationships - 7 July 2007

my husband has signed up to them to talk to other women. what should i do?
also my 8 yr old son was the one who told me about the websites that he was on.

2007-07-07 23:58:37 · 10 answers · asked by jo p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-07 23:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by Toves 1 in Singles & Dating

having a baby before marriage is more intelligence than who are not >

2007-07-07 23:32:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do most men stare at women's breast? I too have thought many times not to see as it hurts them if they are really a good person, but automatically eyes goes there. Can you tell how to avoid seeing their breasts and talking only seeing their face.

2007-07-07 23:29:54 · 18 answers · asked by leochnn 1 in Singles & Dating

His daughter is 12 and he has only seen her once when she was about 6 months old. We are married and have 3 children. She has recently been in touch and he has had her for the past 10 weeks all weekend. The problem is she is nasty to me and our children and breaks their toys on purpose (my sons nitendo ds along with other things). She also calls my children BLACKIES this is very upsetting for our children. My children are 1/4 black and look more white than their dad. I am half black. My husband and told her off loads about this but it falls on deaf ears, he has even told her she wont be able to come anymore if she carries on. I have know had enough and dont want this child in my home anymore, why should my children suffer this abusive in thier home. I told my husband i dont mind him seeing her but from know on she does not come to our house and she is not to be around me and our children. He said he would rather cut off contact with her than see her on his own any comments?

2007-07-07 23:24:24 · 8 answers · asked by nicole w 1 in Family

2007-07-07 23:07:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've being born into the older generation of a traditional Asian family. When the topic about sex comes to mind, my parents always viewed it as a very controversial topic or even a taboo to talk about! But I'm very open about sex and not ashamed to talk about it openly!
I've being caught several times masturbating in my bedroom and even the toilet despite locking the doors! My parents would often suspect I was masturbating if I kept the doors locked for a long time, therefore, they would open the doors with their spare keys to check out what I was doing! Once caught masturbating, they would be really 'pissed'! I would argue with them that masturbation is perfectly normal and it would be fine as long as one is not addicted to it! But they wouldn't listen and said I should not get involved in sexual activities until I get married even masturbation!
I would often take it as they were violating my pirvacy!
Family relationship is worsening because they knew I did masturbation! Help!

2007-07-07 23:06:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

theres this guy i know i used 2 like and im pretty sure i still like him i just cant tell for sure, his girlfriend whos my friends too just broke up with him but before that when ever i read things on his profile about how much he loves her and how beautiful she is i always got really jealous and sad because that wasnt me. im ALWAYS thinking about him literally. i have a boyfriends though.

now in confused though because he just told me that she broke up with him and i feel so bad for him because i know how much he likes her.


do i like him or just as friends?

2007-07-07 22:59:56 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsey 2 in Friends

Let me describe myself to u, Well one of my main problems is that I’m just very shy and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m a funny guy actually and I’ve heard many times from my friends(girls) that I’m very cute and they told me they really don’t see why I can’t find a girlfriend. Can I have some advise plz?

2007-07-07 22:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got drunk a a party and ended up getting hot and heavy with a guy (not my BF) and on thing lead to another and he pull it out and I jacked it for him. I only did it because I got it hard for him and I didn't want to leave him like that...not because I love him or anything

2007-07-07 22:34:58 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am friends with a guy and i think he likes me too, he's short but not as short as me, maybe 5cm taller than me (i am short too) and if we went for a night out somewhere, should i not wear heels? My sis says its ok as long as their not my killer heels or platforms. He hasn't said it but i can tell he is upset with being too short for women but it's not a problem for me.

2007-07-07 22:24:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have 2 kids already.....
It may look pretty stupid to wear a white dress,
and there are not real tax benefits to a marriage....I love him but is marriage necessary?? I mean It's not that big of a deal anymore...but we're considering...I don't know what to do i LOVE him and being married sounds nice but really I do well as a single mom on paper.....I already have the engagement ring

2007-07-07 21:59:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Bro wants to know if he his too young to date a girl he really likes. Im 13 so i cant realy give good advice. But he is 12 and she is 11. I think he would like to see a scary movie with her.

2007-07-07 21:20:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 18 years old and i have scoliosis, i was dating a girl who i thought was perfect for me, Everything was going perfect but then she left me to go back to yuciapa which is 20 min away to live with her perents again and now she hates me. and now when i talk to people they think im poor white trash

2007-07-07 21:19:35 · 2 answers · asked by pimp status 1 in Singles & Dating

asked her out yesterday she said yes and we chose movies. Btw, can u guys gimme advice on how to make it go well. We r both 17 btw

2007-07-07 21:19:05 · 7 answers · asked by GANGSTA 2 in Singles & Dating

Basically have my son's mother flake out on me, I have contacted an attorney, but she has sinced moved and changed jobs, etc...what I want to know is this. I had a friend pull her credit, and everything is still the same, except she changed her address to a PO Box, where they have her listed as working is not accurate. I am trying to locate her current address and workplace as I am having her served with papers for custody of our son. For clarification, I am ot a stalker, I am not an abuser, I am not crazy, I am trying to find out info on how I can get this woman's CURRENT address and wrokplace without using her credit report as it is not accurate. I have her social security, and I also know her ill father that lives with her gets his dissability to the same address, where ever that may be...ANYWAY, thanks for the info and please keep the comments to the point and non judgemental, it is possible for women to go crazy based on their past, that is the case here...THANKS! and HELP!!!!!

2007-07-07 21:16:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When i was in 7th grade i became very close friends with a girl and we have been very close since then, She has all ways just said that we were "Just Friends" and its killing me!! I have watched her go through 2 different relationships the last 2 years and both were horrible not only for me to watch but also for her. both boyfriends treated her horribly and i just dont know what i can do to show her how much i really care. I really like this girl, but i just dont know what to do! me and her are very close, i mean we go see movies together and hang out. I have had a crush on her since we first met. but im afraid that im stuck in the "Friend zone" but i love this person so dearly that i would rather have her in my life as a friend then not at all, and im afraid if i try to become closer then just friends then i will loose a very close friend. so somebody PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2007-07-07 21:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay so i was really in love with this boy and we were together for a year and a half and i never had a real boyfriend before before i was with him and so i got alot cuter over the months i was with him and boys started payin me lots of attention and stuff but then my dad milested me so i had to move away from were he lived but we were still together and spent the night over each others house and stuff....but anyways i was being really ridiculous and immature and whoreish so i cheated on him because i was confused and i had no control over myself...and he took me back the first two times but now he doesnt even want to talk to me and hes being really mean and i dont blame him but i really miss him i miss everything we had...we were so in love and i want him back badly but i know hes scared that i am going to hurt him again but i know now that there is no other guy out there for me but him we were meant to be so please will you help me give me some ways on how to get him back.. :[

2007-07-07 21:09:33 · 16 answers · asked by hope 1 in Singles & Dating

im in love with a 22 year old wemon who works at the vans shoe store in the inland center mall,
her husband is in the military and she has a child,iom 16 years old,should i still keep dating her with her?

2007-07-07 21:03:46 · 39 answers · asked by pimp status 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In December of 2006 I met someone online through a friend. She, however, does not live in my state. We instantly hit it off and began talking for hours on end. She would call me during her lunch break, send me text messages saying she was thinking of me, flirting with one another, mailing me cards to show her love, telling me she loved me and vice versa, etc... Well I was supposed to visit her on several occasions but could not due to work issues and health problems/surgery. Now, in the past month, she has had to 'move back a bit b/c she was getting stressed about things that were not happening.' No more phone calls (she expects me to call her all the time), no more texts messages, no more mail, etc... I still call her and leave messages and such. She says that she 'ran out of minutes and text minutes on her phone'. She also says that I don't call her anymore and that I don't seem interested. She says I'm 'stringing her along'. Help! What do I do. She says to 'Prove It'.

2007-07-07 21:02:39 · 8 answers · asked by xHollywoodx 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who I have known for 6 years or so, and I realized I loved her more than a friend about 4 years ago. She was Seeing someone at the time so I never said anything and just wanted her to be happy. Now she lives about 14 hours away from me and she has been single for awhile, and she told me that she loves me. She is in School and I work 2 jobs here. what should I do about this? (if you are a smart *** then dont answer, helpfull answers are appreciated) thanks

2007-07-07 21:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son says to me that when people get drunk they normally speak the truth and say things that they wouldnt have the bottle lol! to say when they are sober! Do you think the is some truth in this?

2007-07-07 20:52:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-07 20:49:47 · 18 answers · asked by getatasteofmy.451975 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it a waste of time to go through these singles sites to find a date? For example, E-harmony, cupid.com.

2007-07-07 20:48:30 · 13 answers · asked by Aaron D 2 in Singles & Dating

I received an email from a coworkers wife that pretty much accused me of trying to steal her man. I have sent him forwards i thought were funny and he had commented about them etc...i have talked to him a few times via email and that is it, nothing i felt flirtatious however this woman has threatened me by saying that she will go to my superior if i continue to have contact with her husband. I do not plan to send him any more emails at all and as far as contact it has and always be at work. I believe you never crap where you eat and would never think of an affair especially with a married man. But i don't know what to do about this, she sent it under his email, claims he left it up and she accidently came across them. She admitted he cheated on his1st wife and she has trust issues. But i am upset about the accusations and the threat against my job. What should i do just let it go & do not email again or should i talk to him. I have enough other problems right now.

2007-07-07 20:47:02 · 20 answers · asked by concerned 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I my husband works a lot, he works at a warehouse as a driver and is out a lot. I have a feeling that he might be cheating but I want to catch him. Just now I was talking to him and asked him if he had anything to eat before he got home, he said yes , pizza at lancaster rd. I found a reciept laying on the floor next to the couch with yesterdays date for pizza at the mall. I asked him again and he smiled and said lancaster, i asked ..are u sure? he sas why? i say because i found a receipt. he then explains he didnt want to say at the mall because i wouldve gotten mad which isnt true, i never complain about anything. Now I am more suspicious and dont know what to do...help please.. any opinions?

2007-07-07 20:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by cruz o 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old and i would really like to have sex but no one ever seems to like me so now i think it will never happen.I get teased by adults for it too and i don't just want to sleep with anyone. I feel like i'm going to be like the 40 year old virgin. someone please. will i end up dying a virgin?

2007-07-07 20:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I m 21.All my friends are tall and smart.They have good personalities.They always make me feel insulted.They even say that it wont be possible for me to get a good match who will marry mee.All my family members like parents, cousins and my sis and bro have good heights and everybody make fun of mine...
I m neither good in studies nor sports not even i know something different.It seems as if i m simply wasting my parent's money.They are always very worried about me
what should i do..??sometimes feel like killing self
i am 5" (30,26,32)

2007-07-07 20:42:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-07 20:41:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When my b/f and I met we were both virgins. After about three months into the relationship we decided to have sex. We've been together for almost 3 years now and we've never broken up and we live an hour apart so when i get to see him which is pretty often since its the summer he always wants to have sex and if i dont want to he gets really mad at me and it seems like thats the only thing we ever fight about. is this normal? what do i do?

2007-07-07 20:40:08 · 16 answers · asked by Amby07 1 in Singles & Dating