Family & Relationships - 10 July 2007

i want all your blessing and wishes..have a good day everyone.... :)

2007-07-10 23:53:49 · 37 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Friends

2007-07-10 23:52:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 23:47:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

month but her Godfather's Mum died suddenly last week and was buried on Saturday though. As he had to take bereavement leave as holidays in order to get paid he cannot get the time off he originally scheduled for the christening.

More than that though, last week when he was worrying over it I said not to. That given the circumstances it would not be a problem to put it back a couple of months to a better time - thinking that after just losing his Mum having such a contrasting event is just inappropriate.

Anyway - now my family are up in arms about it. I seem to have offended everyone by choosing to postpone the event for these reasons.

No specific invitations were sent. No-one else has to work a Sunday and thus take time off. Not one of my family offered or was going to help with the likes of organising or decorating the house/buffet/cost etc so I feel really bemused as to why they are so angry.

They are not even religious!

Anyway - my Mum's exact words were that life

2007-07-10 23:46:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we have a ton in common but is online just to wierd.

2007-07-10 23:43:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My twin brother constantly cheats and I ALWAYS try to tell his "girlfriends" but they almost never believe me. The onlyat i remember that did believe me was a slut so she didn't care, anyway After they find out they come blubbering to me asking "Why didn't I believe you?" and all that crap. It's getting so annoying I'm thinking of just telling them to shut the hell up and deal with it.

2007-07-10 23:41:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have played soccer with this girl for 3 years and over that time we have became very close friends. Anyway at the begining of the year her best friend, who also played soccer shifted states. She was really upset and every since then she changed. When i first met her she was one of the loudest people ever, she laughed at everything, always smiled and was alway having fun. But ever since her freind left she doesn't speak unless she is spoken to and never wants to hang out i swear i havn't ssen her smile or laugh yet. Even her game has gone down, she once use to be the best player and now costs us the game I have spoken to her about it, about 3 months ago she just shrugged amd said nothings wrong. But latley i am getting really worried because everytime she eats she vomites, she has lost heas of wieght and has suspisous scares on her wrist and thighs. I think she is hurting herself in several ways and i just want her to be okay but i if i said anything i would feel like i am interfering

2007-07-10 23:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

please help. i met this guy at 'informal' work the other day for the first time.i dont know what it is but we got along really really well. he seems outgoing, friendly, asking if i was alright jus once coz i prob loked stressed! he ruffled my hair, rubbed my arm.kept coming in to talk to me.he also asked me if i would like to do extra work after work-which i would be happy to do seeing as it is something that i would be really interested in. when i was finished work.. he was siitin at his desk and he had his swival chair totally turned towards me(i was lookin away@the time but when i turned to face him) so he must have been staring at me.coz when i turned towards him he was in same position n smiling. it wasnt a dirty smile it seemed more like i really like you-(unsure whether as friend as more) he texted me next day and and text started with "hi honey.(rst of text) is he just messin and been real friendly or does he like me? this happened all in one day.. hes bout 10yrs older then me.

2007-07-10 23:40:14 · 6 answers · asked by jaffacakesaresogood 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 23:36:58 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 23:36:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

right so, me and my gf have never actually spoken to eaxh other.... till the other day... i followed her around for about 6 hours, then i went up to her and asked her how she was, she said ''leave me alone you crazy man!''. I said ''but baby i love you, your my gf''

She then went off on some rant saying that she hasto at least have seen me b4 to b my gf!!!! what the hell! i see her evry day when i follow her home!!

Is she crazy or just playing mind games?

2007-07-10 23:33:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this is totally not the best way to find a chat friend but... I want someone who can keep me enthralled and entertained and listen to my problems for the time being...

2007-07-10 23:29:50 · 6 answers · asked by asuka.arukiwa 1 in Friends

JUST WANTED 2 GET U R ATTENTION
I ran into this guy from at least 10 yrs ago , we lived in the same neighborhood, he is 42 i am 32, we chatted for a while caught each other up he told me i still look good really taking care of ur self he asked 4 my #, he said he was going to call later on in the week, call him if he dosent call me 1st. Does the rule still apply that i should wait 4 him to call me first??!?!?!?!

2007-07-10 23:27:30 · 13 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 23:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok so I am 15 and going to be 16 at the end of August. Shortly after I turn 16, I will get a driver's license which will without a doubt significantly improve my social life. But now I am out of school since it is summer. I am not attending summer school. I can't get a job for multiple reasons: 1. Its hard to get a job when your under 16 2. I have no means of transportation because I dont have a license yet 3. I cant be out on the streets often because I live in a bad neighborhood. So all I do all day is sleep and watch tv and eat. I barely talk to people on the phone anymore. I dont go out because I dont know many people that drive and everyone is having a life and having fun without me and they dont care. I feel like a low life. I spend most of the day on the computer trying to sell things on Ebay (I sold my guitar for 200 bucks) and stay up all night. What can I do to fix this?? I dont want to be a low life!

2007-07-10 23:10:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to get revenge on my little sister who is 12 years old without getting in trouble, i am looking for something that would embarrass her big time, hurt her mentally and physically, annoy her and make her angry and scared…don’t give me craps like living well, go to church or revenge is not the right answer and things like that

2007-07-10 23:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by chr!st!ne 1 in Family

I need answers

2007-07-10 23:02:01 · 7 answers · asked by varunbg 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a hypothetical question. In this case, the boy tries not to/doesn't really like the girl, but he kind of does like her and he still would like to take her out just as friends and without trying anything fresh on her. He just wants to spend some time with her without her cheating on her boyfriend.

2007-07-10 23:01:45 · 9 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Singles & Dating

That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.


That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.


That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.


That you can keep going long after you can't. I've learned- that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.


That either you control your attitude or it controls you.


That regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.


That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.


That money is a lousy way of keeping score.


That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.


That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.


That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.


That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.


That just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.


That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.


That your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.


That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.


That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.


That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.


That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.


That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.


That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret, It could change your life forever.


That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.


That your life can be changed in a matter of minutes, by people who don't even know you.


That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.


That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.


That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

2007-07-10 22:58:41 · 2 answers · asked by Sangy . 4 in Friends

Well this girl i really like i have liked for about a year i asked her out to a group thing to the movies. well she accepted then cancelled a few days before because of a camping trip (which i know is true thats not the point.) Then i asked her out again and she accepted and cancelled the day before cause she was grounded.(not completely sure of). About a week after i decided to ask her if she wanted to hang out at the mall/movies sometime during the weekend.

Here is the part! she said she doesn't feel like hanging out and will call me when she is free. I think she is avoiding me what do you think??? We are 15 if this helps. any other advice PLEASE

2007-07-10 22:58:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to play hard to get without being mean about it? how do i keep them interested without driving them away?

2007-07-10 22:55:18 · 13 answers · asked by hey buddy! 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone think that it is possible for a child to act normally in child parent relationship that is being abused. My boyfriend was molested as a child and i think it was by his father. Some of the things that he said in the past kind of had me curious. MY gut instinct, as a woman, tells me something is not right between him and his daughter that he is raising by himself. Here is the complicated part, the kid act like she loves her father and acts like a normal kid, but my instinct wont let this one go. Can a child act in this manner and at the same time be introduced emotional and/or sexual abuse

2007-07-10 22:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she wants 2 move 2 san jose but i don't i want 2 stay in sac but i could move 2 moutain rach with my mom & dad but i really want 2 stay in sac what should i do! plz help me! i'm so very lost!

2007-07-10 22:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by ~*L0c@*~ 2 in Family

why would they hide their escapades then when u confront them and ask for a break up , they would beg u to stay..grrrr

2007-07-10 22:16:51 · 16 answers · asked by oh 1 in Singles & Dating

They are acting very childish. They can't cooperate at all and making fuss of such small things. I don't know what i could do to make this better. The former class teacher stopped being our class teacher because of that. What are my options now?

If i want to move class, would it be a good idea. And what would i have to do? (like letters to someone)

2007-07-10 22:11:49 · 7 answers · asked by farisashraf 2 in Friends

2007-07-10 22:07:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

basically something happened with me in her(i told her i hate her)because of something she did)and she was hurt and cried alot..later we made up and explained to eachother why we acted the way we acted but later she acts funny with me and does things she dont usually do....she kept acting funny wit me(for ex...say i love you ..but wen i come over she act different......and she still has sex wit me)just doing very confusing things to me......so i decide to leave her alone for a lil bit and she comes back and i ask why she keep playing and im not doing this any more...she says "ok this time im serious im not gonna play anymore"..then she stoped and then one day i guess she got mad because i was at my freinds house and i did not tell her girls came there....long story short....she broke up wit me and started talking to another kid from school on aol. and went to his house and i guess had sex and sucked his d*ck..and talked sh*t about me to him.i dont understand.what makes a girl do this?

2007-07-10 22:07:17 · 5 answers · asked by BangerZ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it because they get excited by the touch of a woman? Nerves? Lack of concentration? Does it take effort to last longer?

2007-07-10 22:05:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, heres the situation.
I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, Im am 17, he is 22. For the first 6 months we never argued, but now we seem to argue quite a lot. I fall out with him mainly when he has too much to drink, or when he has opinions which I don't agree with. On a night out, I am afraid he will get too drunk, but he would never do anything to hurt me.

We have seen a lot less of each other recently, as he has a new job, where he works shifts, and I have had my A-level exams to do, which had to tkae priority, and he understood that.

But now, we are still arguing quite a lot, and im not sure what to do about the relationship. In 2 months I am leaving to go to university, would this put even more strain on the relationship?

He loves me more than anything, and says he will do anything to help and support me. But I am not in love with him anymore. I have been very honest about this. Should i stay and work at the relationship? Or make a new start?

Help me please.

2007-07-10 21:59:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im trying to think off a really romantic thing something besides a resturaunt any ideas?

2007-07-10 21:55:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings