Well this girl i really like i have liked for about a year i asked her out to a group thing to the movies. well she accepted then cancelled a few days before because of a camping trip (which i know is true thats not the point.) Then i asked her out again and she accepted and cancelled the day before cause she was grounded.(not completely sure of). About a week after i decided to ask her if she wanted to hang out at the mall/movies sometime during the weekend.
Here is the part! she said she doesn't feel like hanging out and will call me when she is free. I think she is avoiding me what do you think??? We are 15 if this helps. any other advice PLEASE
2007-07-10 22:58:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should have gotten the hint when she canceled the two other times. sorry but she isnt interested in you and if she was should have made those previous dates and had no excuses. sorry but dear it is about time you move on from this chick!!!
2007-07-10 23:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be avoiding you, but it could be because she's really shy! or she might genuinely not feel like hanging out at that time, it doesnt necessarily mean that its because of you. i'd wait to see if she calls. dont try and pester her about anything because that'll make her more nervous. i'm 16 by the way, and a girl and i've been through something like that..
hope that helps :)
Fi x
2007-07-10 23:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by fiona t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry, honey, she may be avoiding you, but there is no way to be sure, so dont give up! she may feel pressured. give her some space for a while and see if she calls you. if not, try becoming better friend with her. if she doesnt know you very weel, try talking to her online more, talking to her in school and other such things before asking her out again.
good luck!
2007-07-10 23:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should have a talk with her and ask her how she feels and that you suspected that she was avoiding you because anytime that you had a date, she always cancled before the date. and if she is avoiding you ask her why and also ask her if there is anything you can do to keep her from avoiding you.
2007-07-10 23:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by rhoda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes just shy of actually being on the date. Just carry on being nice to her but not in a pushy way to let her know there is no pressure and when shes ready she'll come to you
Hope this helps ^_^
2007-07-10 23:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she might have just been having a bad day, but it sounds like she's not to into hanging out...sorry :( I know this probably wont appeal to you, but confront her and tell her how you feel. You dont have to but maybe this will make her see how much you like her.
2007-07-10 23:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by pirategirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space and let her call you when she is ready. But by no means sit around and wait for the call, see your other friends and have fun in the mean time.
If she calls she does, if she does'nt don't sweat it.
By then someone new may have turned your head
2007-07-10 23:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by *Lee*D* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey mate, I really think she's not that keen, sorry to say. I think she cares for you or she wouldn't bother in tryin to save your feelings, but it does sound like she is avoiding you. Maybe you need to move on?
2007-07-10 23:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lula Belle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her sya more fishies in the sea. she cancelled once you can understand but does it all the time no good. Give others a chance remember its her lose not yours.
2007-07-10 23:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by gert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess.. u should not ask her to go out or something like that anymore.......
She is not interestd in you........
May be there will be any other girl who shows inerest in you.. why dont u wait for the right girl
:-))
2007-07-10 23:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋