Family & Relationships - 10 July 2007

me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and 8 months and i got him these on pacsun.com :

A DC WALLET - 20. 50 $
A DC T SHIRT BLACK - 20 $

AND I STILL HAVE THESE TO GIVE HIM :
bake his favorite food ( either brownies or cookies )
give him a heart on a string i made him
a card either i make or buy
a full body massage
AND LOTS OF HUGS AND KISSES

is all this stuff good enough FOR HIS 16TH B - DAY?

2007-07-10 15:44:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the worst she treats you?

All these girls say that want " a good guy that takes care of me " but if you are nice, and their Mother likes you and stuff, they leave you for a slimball..

But..if you try to get rid of them, and act like a jerk...they pledge their love to only you.

Nice guys- you can learn something here.

2007-07-10 15:44:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy that is kind of a player. we have a bad past with him cheating on me. now he wants to makeout "as friends". should i? it would be my first kiss.

2007-07-10 15:44:23 · 8 answers · asked by miss congeniality 3 in Singles & Dating

Thank God I paid attention to the older crowd of girls I ran with, they looked out for me and scolded me. I learned from them that even though they slept with men, and they were real pretty, that even they couldn't keep a man. So I just said to myself, hey if you can't get a man even when you sleep with them, then why sleep with them at all? So therefore I have never had sex in my life, but of course, neither I nor them have a man. So if guys don't like either group, how does a girl get a man then?

2007-07-10 15:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our wedding is in October and our colors are sage green and chocolate brown. We are incorporating pears a lot in our reception (because the green works well with our colors). For example, we are filling big tall vases with pears and floral arrangement on top.

These are the favors that I want and they can actually make the chocolate drizzle sage green and chocolate brown to match our colors! Is it weird to have apple favors when we are incorporating pears so much in the reception?

http://s202.photobucket.com/albums/aa284/msettina/?action=view¤t=CarmelApple.jpg

2007-07-10 15:41:38 · 17 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

well we brook up 1 year ago because he was a lying cheating bastard then i met the love of my life 4 month later he was everything i dreamed off call me all the time just to hear my voice were getting married in one week yayyyyy us, anyways my ex found my web account and try to contact me i mean he was avoiding me after we brooked up one day i said hello just bcause he was with a bunch of my friends didnt wanna be rude he did not answer and tried to run lol anyway i didnt answer hes message, how do i give this devil a one way ticket to hell never contact me no more.

2007-07-10 15:40:16 · 1 answers · asked by alourdes p 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true if you marry a woman with kids, and you have kids with this woman later in the marriage, and you want a divorce. Can she take you to child support court for the other children that she came into the marriage with?

2007-07-10 15:39:58 · 27 answers · asked by finess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the maid of honor in two upcoming weddings. I bought both girls something fairly inexpensive for their showers that I attended. I want to get them each something more personal and special closer to their weddings. Not anything outrageously expensive either. Any suggestions as to what to get my brides?

2007-07-10 15:39:51 · 9 answers · asked by rayneyblu 2 in Weddings

im 15 and my mom is a drunk. i live with her. my parents are divorced. i have two brothers. we hate it when my mom drinks. she is not a good mom. i tried talking to her and that didnt help. so anyways i spend a lot of time with my grandma who is 56. my mom gets jealous when i hang out with my grandma because she feels that i like her better. i kinda do. so i talked to her. i said "can i go with grandma?" she said " today is not the day to be going anywhere." i said "but i have to." she said "why?" i said " i miss her. whenever i try to depend on you, you act like a lunitic." she walked away and said "oh starla!" she was crying as she walked to her room. i followed her. she faced the wall and wouldnt face me. " im sorry." I said. "so i guess im a bad mother?" she said crying. "no your not, you need to stop drinking." i said. then she went on and on about how i shouldnt be spending so much time with my grandma. help! i miss grandma not my mother! i hate her!

2007-07-10 15:39:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm not sure if my friend is interested in me or not? It's especially weird since we're both seeing someone. Yet... well, she does all these things... ex: cracking open pistachios and feeding me, stares at me constantly whenever we hang out, always telling me that she loves me (in a j/k manner, i hope), and fixes my shirt? Um... do normal friends do that?

2007-07-10 15:37:38 · 7 answers · asked by Team_Balla 3 in Singles & Dating

I have married for three months ,and a couple week ago i had a sex with a web friend ,she is very beautiful ,and after we communicaton one week i take she to a hotel and ****** her , but i feel guilty to my wife ,plz help me !

2007-07-10 15:35:07 · 16 answers · asked by tiger 1 in Singles & Dating

his ex girlfriend and him are realli close...we just hooked up recently and im not going to be one of those crazi psycho gfs who calls him a cheater n checks everything on him...but hes still realli close to her and i know she still has feelings for him...alot. and i know he still feels something for her. i dont expect him to git over her in a day...but they still hang out.. tonight they went to a movie.
im just a little jealous bc they've been through alot more than me and him have.. should i worry??
should i tell him??? what???

2007-07-10 15:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by babyphattie09 1 in Singles & Dating

he text going to bed & she said goodnight sweet dreams & he said u to think of me in or on.when i asked about it he said it was a set up to see if i was going thru his phone.i really want out,but he has left to go oversea.how would i handle?i am tired of his cheating & he makes it clear he won't leave me.he has friends & family coming by to go thru house to see if someone is there & to see what i am doing.

2007-07-10 15:24:00 · 36 answers · asked by Teresa R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where should i take my wife for our honeymoon... I love her a LOT and i want her to remember this forever. It needs to be extra romantic b/c both of us are virgins *wink wink*. Any ideas?

2007-07-10 15:08:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i was married. we split up a few months ago. i had two kids from a previous marriage, she had one. her daughter's father wasn't in the picture and we had her all the time. my kids came over two days a week. at the beginning of our marriage we went back and forth about another kid. then she said no she wanted to spend time with me after the kids grew up. since i'm 40, i thought that was a good idea. after a while she changed her mind but we were fighting like cats and dogs. she really got verbally abusive and i thought to myself there is no way i'm having a kid if their mother is like this. it runs in her family to be verbally abusive. she quit taking birth control and got pregnant, then immediately wanted an abortion. it was a complete 180 from her. was i wrong not to try to talk her out of the abortion? it just wasn't right the woman had a lot of emotion problems and cused and verbally abused everything in sight.

2007-07-10 15:05:12 · 7 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which is fine but my younger brother is going into the academy for correctional officer anyways my older brother says to me and tells someone else oh he wont make it etc it hurts me that they havent talked but now hes saying **** like that iam going through deppression as it is with other things help and how do i handle it or say to him so we dont stop talking

2007-07-10 15:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

which is fine but my younger brother is going into the academy for correctional officer anyways my older brother says to me and tells someone else oh he wont make it etc it hurts me that they havent talked but now hes saying **** like that iam going through deppression as it is with other things help

2007-07-10 14:59:54 · 3 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

I'm looking for a great wedding reception place but i don;t know of any websites for new york area.. not nyc but like westchester new york.

2007-07-10 14:58:01 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa W 2 in Weddings

Ive been so shy for a long time that i seem to avoid people that know me everywhere i go.. Im tired of the avoidance but i fear not knowing what to say to people when i come across them in stores and other places.. I have to stop this behavior.. its too much work to keep doing this.

2007-07-10 14:57:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm a girl in my early 20's and i'm discovering that i'm growing up differently than my girl friends. While everyone's getting their A S S drunk and going out to clubs, I just want to keep it simple...stay home, watch a movie, go eat somwhere with a friend..besides, monoey is TIGHT and i don't wanna spend it on anything i won't really need. Being with the girls sometimes gives me drama...all they do is gossip and i'm sooo over it..no offense, but i really don't care for other people's personal life but my own and my loved ones.

I feel that I can't fully "party hearty" 'til i i feel like i'm doing constructuve in my life...i think like a guy...my goal or "mentality" in life is to "hunt" and my hunt is to getting that degree and a nice career - that's when i'll party

i don't go clubbin but i'm a fun girl full of self respect and yes, i like sports and video games...

is this unattractive?

2007-07-10 14:56:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, i never knwe my father. My mother never talks about him or anything, neither does anyone else in my family. My mother always told me that i just don't have a father, i was young at the time so didn't "know" things if you know what i mean by that. But now that i am old enough i do know what it takes to create a child. She hasn't said anything about it or anything, and i'm afraid to ask her about it. Is there any other way to find out? I don't know his name or anything, nothing at all. Is there anything that is easy? Like i stated, i'm afriad to ask her, and i don't feel like a blood test or whatever they are. I'm afriad to ask anyone in my family but my sister, but she doesn't even know who he is, she just knows that we have the same father and that's it. I'm starting to feel as if i was adopted or something, and i just don't know what to do, help me out here, please?

2007-07-10 14:55:02 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Hated Teenager♥ 3 in Family

I am a 32 yr old single father. I currently have 20% time share with my 8 year old daughter per court order. In reality though I have my daughter just about everyday. I currently pay about $549/mo. in child support. Jana, my daughter's mother, is recently unemployed again, works under the table as a stripper for cash, and neglects both her kids(the 2yr old is not mine biologically but I have raised her since birth and she no no one else as dad except me). Everytime I make a police report due to contempt of court order it seems that I get punished by Jana. Jana will not let me have contact with Alicia-our daughter. I don't know where to turn for help or who to contact to begin an investigation. I want custody of both children to help these kids grow up normal and with constant stability. Any information that helps me obtain custody of my little girls will be forever appreciated. Thank you.

2007-07-10 14:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by Noel C 1 in Family

My BIL, back at Christmas, made a sexual comment to me. I was leaving the inlaws house because my back was hurting, and I wanted to lie down and rest in my OWN bed. So as I was exiting, huby was upset and I told him..in private or so I thought...that if he wanted to have sex later, I needed to rest. BIL says, "I'm glad someone is doing it, my wife thinks it is only for procreation." Then he leans over & asks, "How many times do you?" I was like,"WHAT?"
Well, hubby & I was in bed having a little fun tonight ..when he calls & says, "I guess all that F*****G at Christmas paid off, but I am still not getting any. BTW, are you and hubby still..you know."
I guess I got mad, & told him "Yeah, like 10- 50 times a month...like it is any of your damned business!"

Yes, I am 28 weeks pregnant and he says." Can I have some T & A ?"

And I hung up...did I do the right thing? I have to face him
over the next 2 weeks!
Help me!

2007-07-10 14:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

A woman and I have been doing a lot of flirting at work... I'm black, she's white. I've been trying to hook up with her but she's resisted my advances so far. Lately though, she's hinted that she might be interested in hooking up.Then, the other day, she admitted that one of the main reasons she's considering it is because she's never been with a black man before and she's curious. Part of me finds that a little offensive. However, another part of me really, really wants to hook up with this woman, no matter what her motives may be. Is her admission offensive, or should I give her credit for simply being honest, and go ahead and do what I gotta do?

2007-07-10 14:45:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have bought my wife a $34000 ring... Is that rediculous. Dont say you'll be in debt because i can afford it but is it rediculous?

2007-07-10 14:42:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i just feel so alone sometimes and i was just thinking if there are other girls like me i would have someone to talk to.

2007-07-10 14:42:07 · 3 answers · asked by DarkGodessAmbrosia 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so how do you...
1. Know what type of ring she would like?
2. Know her ring size?
3. Propose? Public or private?

2007-07-10 14:40:23 · 17 answers · asked by philby 3 in Weddings

I have a good normal reputation. Even my best friend thinks I've done all the normal things people my age do. But...I've never made out. I'm so excited for my boyfriend to get back from a trip in a couple of weeks..and that's when more physical things will happen...but i dont want him to be able to tell i've never made out before. What can i do to practice or get good so he won't be able to tell?? Is it really easy to tell who has done it before and who hasn't?? And don't say try it with someone else..no cheating, or coming clean. I can't tell the truth. Please help!!

2007-07-10 14:37:20 · 9 answers · asked by jenny m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate to argue and do all I can to keep the communication lines open in our marriage. We get along very well 90% of the time. But when my husband blows up on me about something he calls me names like "you crazy b*tc*" etc

I can't seem to get him to understand how hurtful it is to hear him say those things to me.

Do you say things like that to your spouse when you are mad? do you really mean it?

2007-07-10 14:36:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a pretty girl but for some reason after a first date the guys i am into dont call me back even though they said they would call..and the ones i am definitely not into like the ugly ones or the ones i dont like do call me and annoy me.why do guys do that?why do they say they will call and then dont?..even though they seemed so interested in me on our date..

2007-07-10 14:32:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating