I have a good normal reputation. Even my best friend thinks I've done all the normal things people my age do. But...I've never made out. I'm so excited for my boyfriend to get back from a trip in a couple of weeks..and that's when more physical things will happen...but i dont want him to be able to tell i've never made out before. What can i do to practice or get good so he won't be able to tell?? Is it really easy to tell who has done it before and who hasn't?? And don't say try it with someone else..no cheating, or coming clean. I can't tell the truth. Please help!!
2007-07-10 14:37:20 · 9 answers · asked by jenny m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He might be happy that you are inexperienced. He might like knowing you haven't put the lip-lock on every dude in town.
2007-07-10 14:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all the possible things to worry about, being an experienced kisser should be at the bottom of list. Boys kiss you because consciously and/or subconsciously they are hoping it leads to sex. Whether you are a good kisser or an experienced kisser never crosses their mind.
As far as I know, there is no way to tell an experienced kisser from an inexperienced kissee if the inexperienced kisser does not freeze up or pull away.
If he kisses you on your lips, just relax. You can open you mouth (lips) slightly or not. It doesn't matter. Just don't keep your lips tightly closed in case he want to force his tongue in your mouth. If your lips are closed but relaxed he can force his tongue into your mouth or you will open your lips slightly to accommodate his tongue.
Just relax and let the guy do all the work. You can hug back if you wish just like you hug anyone else such as parents, friend, or a child. Just don't freeze up and/or withdraw and he will believe that you are an experienced kisser.
2007-07-18 13:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 16, don't mess up your life by getting into kissing. Kissing is just going to lead to more things. If you are over 16 watch some old Doris Day movies. Kissing was very romantic back then and the girl stayed good. Make sure you stay good and go to college and make something of yourself before you tie yourself down. Then you will have a happy life. Prince Charming doesn't come until after you turn 20, and then you will have to be selective.
2007-07-10 14:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jane M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Don't worry. Stay calm and let your emotions and body respond naturally. Don't get so uptight about it. There is no need to cause undo stress. When the time is right, it will happen and you will do fine. Go with your instincts. I hope you are older than my 16 yr old because I can't even form any thoughts in my head about this whole concept with my oldest or my younger two girls.
2007-07-16 09:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by roloswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm not going to say don't worrie about because maybe to you its a big deal!!! and you not telling him because it sounds i guess embarresing sounds normalle because all of my friend think that.
I've made out with alot of guys and i could never tell if they have or haven't made out before....some were just pretty bad kissers...
Its hard to explane but you can message me at sweet_cherrys13@yahoo.com and i can help you out.
2007-07-18 14:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if u go around kissing u can get mono. So save kissing for someone real special.....like the guy you may marry someday. The first kiss is always the most important one to young ppl. I would suggest you just wait until ur honey comes home and have him teach u. trust me, He'll like that any way.
2007-07-18 13:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Laura F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion to you is to easily pop out and tell your boyfriend the actuality it may desire to be difficult in spite of the undeniable fact that it may help tell him your no longer the final kisser interior the international and ask him to coach you and lil stuff like which could make a couples relationship enhanced because of the fact he can coach you issues and you will coach him issues it may desire to sound loopy yet believe me that could truly make your relationship lots enhanced cuz if he loves you like you be attentive to he does he would be prepared to coach you and you'd be prepared to learn.sturdy success!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2016-10-01 08:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by herne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it so much. He might not be so experienced as you think he is either.
2007-07-18 09:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by amy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry so much!just wait till he gets here and pucker up!
2007-07-18 05:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋