what do i do or say when my brother and my younger brother dont talk?

Question

which is fine but my younger brother is going into the academy for correctional officer anyways my older brother says to me and tells someone else oh he wont make it etc it hurts me that they havent talked but now hes saying **** like that iam going through deppression as it is with other things help

Answer 1

Do something so that your two brothers should talk. Tell your older brother that he must not judge your younger brother abilities. Each person has it's own abilities it's the matter they make on it to become more better or successful.

Answer 2

i guess thats hard. i too dont talk much with my brother especially on things we dissagree on becuase the arguments will just be heated and starts digging past hurts.

I guess when someone is hurt we build a wall between those who hurt us. until we break down the walls (become non-hostile) then we become ready to talk.

any way take some time. have them work on something they can agree on and should be non-political or make them have fun like having your family going to a fair or eating out (no compition or topics like that).

well now we talk with my brother and still have different views on almost everything, i think this is good. what amazes me now is that we are both Christians and both in the ministry but attends different church. :))

Answer 3

hand silence