Family & Relationships - 10 July 2007

what is the time frame of the divorce if there is no dispute over any money or other material items? clean cut divorce?

2007-07-10 19:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-10 19:00:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i met my ex-girlfriend 4 years ago in a chatroom and eversince we started talking we both clicked. The day we met for the first time i asked her out while playing mini-golf and i kissed her. We went out for 3 months but i was facing some issues while we were going out. I was depressed because before we went out i was doing drugs and I stopped because i fell in love with her. I wented us to be happy so i did that not thinking i was going to become depressed. During the last 3 weeks we went out i became really aggressive and i became mad for anything if she spent time with her friends. so she left me 3 years 9months ago. I still was stupid to put her through a lot of stress after we broke up. I nearly killed myself for her. Eversince that day i been trying to get back with her. I love the girl with all my heart i believe she is the one. So i planned something out for next sat i was oging to pick her up early in the morning and i was going to take her out to get some breakfast then

2007-07-10 18:58:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK its a old boyfriend from like 10yrs ago we kept in touch til about 7yrs ago then jus lost touch we didnt end on bad terms. Ive been thinkin about him latley and want to know how he is i know where he lives and address no phone number, should i mail him a letter or go there. I dont know if hes married now or in relationship and if he is i dont want to cause any problems so do you think i should jus write him and put my number and see if he calls?

2007-07-10 18:57:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alex is my boyfriend, we met once and can only talk thru internet and rarely on phone, and we havnt been able to contact much lately. but i love him anyway and he loves me. then my friend Amanda asked me out(im BI)I said yes, i was tired then realised i cant cheat on alex, and she told me that i should dump him or just cheat anyway cuz long distance is stupid. Alex really cares about me and we hav survived fights, amanda is close by, never does well in relationships, from wat i seen. Amanda says i can date both cuz im BI and thats ok, and if he says no i should dump him.(i dont like that idea she said at all!) I like her alot, but alex...i dunno. its complicated to state my feelings but wen im with him..i feel different ya know? but u see i really like em both and i really wanna at least giv it a try with amanda, but this all feels so wrong cheating and all. i dunno wat to do. im running out of characters to type with (yahoo limits you) so ill end here. please help me!!!!

2007-07-10 18:55:36 · 3 answers · asked by lady_nebica 3 in Singles & Dating

Alright, when your wanting to marry your girlfriend or any women then are you supposed to talk to her dad first about marrying her? Is it a "have to do"? Or is it somethin that would be good to do and be a "Manly" thing to do?

2007-07-10 18:50:08 · 34 answers · asked by kennedym15 2 in Marriage & Divorce

(2) A faithful man who allows his spouse to cheat?

Which do u prefer to have as a spouse? And why?

2007-07-10 18:48:17 · 13 answers · asked by pesticide 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been staying together for about 3 months now. It was never planned...one day I went there to spend the night at his house and never quite made it back home (I stay with my parents). This past week, he's been making comments about him needing space...and why don't I come to his house 4 days out the week instead of staying everyday. Now, I know what that looks like...so of course, I got my stuff and went back to my parents. But now the guy calls me every night...like 10ish 11ish and expects me to drive over there. Like he wants me to be there...but not stay there. My parents prefer me to stay in one place...rather than bounce back and forth because it looks bad, you know? I mean, should I just leave this guy alone or what?

2007-07-10 18:47:32 · 18 answers · asked by angela k 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl but im kinda nervous to talk to her on the phone. I talked to her once on the phone... and the conversation lasted a grand total of five minutes and it was extremely awkward...I couldnt think of anything to say. In person...im fine, but on the phone, i freeze. Generally i dont talk much on the phone, but I was wondering how I can make the conversation longer and more enjoyable?

2007-07-10 18:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 3rd cousin is 27. She just got married to a 22 year old (the younger 1 is the groom). What do you think the chance is that it will last?

2007-07-10 18:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by Wyatt F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well i met my ex-girlfriend 4 years ago in a chatroom and eversince we started talking we both clicked. The day we met for the first time i asked her out while playing mini-golf and i kissed her. We went out for 3 months but i was facing some issues while we were going out. I was depressed because before we went out i was doing drugs and I stopped because i fell in love with her. I wented us to be happy so i did that not thinking i was going to become depressed. During the last 3 weeks we went out i became really aggressive and i became mad for anything if she spent time with her friends. so she left me 3 years 9months ago. I still was stupid to put her through a lot of stress after we broke up. I nearly killed myself for her. Eversince that day i been trying to get back with her. I love the girl with all my heart i believe she is the one. So i planned something out for next sat i was oging to pick her up early in the morning and i was going to take her out to get some breakfast then

2007-07-10 18:46:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 18:43:58 · 33 answers · asked by dokkenfan5000 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my crush ( he also has a crush on me) went to the moives and ever sense then we been talking on the phone we even talked for 2 hours and today he told me that we could hang out but i had something to do so then he aksed me what i was doing tommorow so we could hang out. Were this be classifed under are we seeing each other or are we just friends kind of thing?

2007-07-10 18:40:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 18:35:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-10 18:28:47 · 7 answers · asked by amit kumar singh 1 in Singles & Dating

He is my friend and we are really close. I have a crush on him though. Anyways his parents are coming to school for his birthday, and he say he will introduce me to them. It may be something quick, but I want to make a good impression, especially taking into account that I might pursue a relationship with him in the future. But who knows. However, I will reallly like his parents to have a good opinion of me.

2007-07-10 18:25:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I live with my mom and step dad while going through a divorce. Today, I gave my son an extra treat in addition to the treat he had after dinner. Yes I know kids arent supposed to eat that much junk but I dont normally give him that much. When my stepdad found out, he yelled at me in front of my son and said he already had a treat. I just feel that it was wrong.

2007-07-10 18:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 22 and I love my family so much but they treat me like a punching bag, I want to move but I'm afraid to leave because in some twisted way I feel like they need me and I need them. My mother and father drink a lot and accuse me of being on drugs(which I have never done) or complaining because I get frustrated with them and have emotional break downs(this is something my mother does all the time but shes completely stone when it comes to someone elses feelings) So I guess my question is do I have a problem or do my parents? and when I try to talk to them they don't listen how can I reason with them about they're drinking without them getting defensive and screaming at me?

2007-07-10 18:20:31 · 17 answers · asked by AB+++++++ 2 in Family

Happily married mother of 3. My husband is my best friend and a rock star in the sack. I would never do anything to screw that up, but I have had a very chemical reaction to someone at work. I have no intention of doing ANYTHING, but if this person made a pass at me I'm not sure I could resist. I'm actually pretty freaked out by this. Is this normal human nature or is my marriage not so happy?

2007-07-10 18:14:28 · 17 answers · asked by maynsqz2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My father passed away when I was 6 and I do not have anyone to walk me down the aisle. Many people have suggested having my mother walk me down the aisle but I want her to be able to experience seeing me walk down the aisle rather then walking with me.

BUT....I am honestly kind of scared to walk by myself...I just keep thinking "What it I fall". I know it is silly, but it is just a fear I have. What do you think about having my groom walk with me, or maybe him meeting me half way and walking my to the alter? I just wanted to get your thoughts...

2007-07-10 18:13:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-10 18:08:01 · 18 answers · asked by dave777 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I'm a guy. I can get sensitive. Within the past week, my girlfriend of eight months broke up with me. She told me that just recently she's lost feelings for me. She also says that she thinks she likes some other kid. What is confusing is, she hooked up with somebody last summer and she hated him. She said she regretted it and she would never talk to him again. Now, the guy she has a date arranged with is the guy's best friend, and she and him are talking again. I stayed home from work Monay sobbing it all out, and ended up having to sit in the back room yesterday just because I couldnt keep a tear out of my eye. I'm up for a good half an hour each night so far thinking about everything we did, and how fast it went away. I really don't know what to do, and need some suggestions. I'm not that stereotypical beer-drinking party guy, and only met her because we went to school together. I just don't know what to do from here.

2007-07-10 17:50:22 · 20 answers · asked by sfef_a1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 17:41:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a crush on this girl. She didn't want to start anything. I said I was cool with it and moved on sort of - she wanted to be friends and I am cool with that.

Trouble is that it seems that she doesn't want anything at all by the way that she acts most days. Then on a handful of other days she is really chatty and wants to be around me, wants to know what I'm up to etc.

As I said, I'm cool about just being friends but when I say hi to a friend I like to get a response. Not the cold shoulder. I always answer her but she ignores me some times.

It wasn't like this before and I just wish it could go back to normal.

Any advice on how to fix this up? Just quickly it's been over a month since I asked her out and to me it seems like plenty of time to move on.

2007-07-10 17:38:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some cute, cool ideas, we don't live near a beach so nothing like that... creative!!!!

2007-07-10 17:35:36 · 4 answers · asked by h_palsy 2 in Weddings

i think its wrong i think parents should support you not the other way around

2007-07-10 17:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A month ago my step grandma elected me to help her with two younger cousins of mine when they visit. She always has them out here every summer and this time she told me I'd help her take them to a theme park, to the movies, and swimming. Not that I really mind doing any of these things, but the fact she didn't ask has gotten to me. Her son, my step father, couldn't believe she didn't ask. She also hasn't said thank you for the things I've already done. (I'm midweek with it). This weekend I'm in a wedding and the bride has asked me to do last minute things with her and help her out. I really like doing this sort of thing and she's feeling overwhelmed. I'm the only one not working much this week so she asked me to come to her mercy. I told her yes, forgetting about my prior "agreement" to my step grandma. Now I feel horrible about not being able to help the bride after stating I would. My step grandma can definitely handle the girls alone. They are 6 and 8. How do I get out of this?

2007-07-10 17:29:04 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany 3 in Family

I have a crush on a guy that is in a band. My dad knows him and his father. I have never spoken to him. He always makes eye contact every time I see him, my dad also said that the guy couldn’t keep his eyes off me the whole night. Whenever he is on his break from the band I can never get away from the people that I am with to go near the area that he is in. I know that he is single.

Do you think it is wrong for me to go up to him and talk to him?

What should I say?

(I'm 24)

2007-07-10 17:27:01 · 12 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

you think of cheating?

2007-07-10 17:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so i met this guy on the internet.. and we started talking...
We talk every day . Well he flirts with me too..
we talk about almost everything and anything.
I think that i like him.. ( a lot)

Yesterday he said that he has started liking me..after that he said
"now i love you"... Was he serious?
then i said that you have not even seen me.. so, he said that he dint care about my looks cause he liked me

well i think that he is the perfect guy for me
i have seen his picture too.. and i like him now...

do you think that he is interested?

2007-07-10 17:24:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating