I really like this girl but im kinda nervous to talk to her on the phone. I talked to her once on the phone... and the conversation lasted a grand total of five minutes and it was extremely awkward...I couldnt think of anything to say. In person...im fine, but on the phone, i freeze. Generally i dont talk much on the phone, but I was wondering how I can make the conversation longer and more enjoyable?
2007-07-10 18:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first - relax yourself and have in your own mind an idea of what you want to talk about and share with her, once you have that pick up your phone and speak with her, then remember to ask her the questions that will teach you about her, how she thinks, and what her opinions are - she will enjoy being listened to just about as much as hearing what you think - good luck
2007-07-10 19:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Cher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I'm just like you. In fact, now I tell people I have a phobia of talking on the phone to avoid phone conversations sometimes. But anyway...to help lighten the moment for you, why don't you try talking about something your passionate about and really in to. For instance, if you want to debate about global warming, sometimes you'll get so in to it, you'll forget to be nervous.
2007-07-10 18:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Bats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you Love this girl and it is True
You need not worry for your lacking on telephonic manners when true friendship love is there , your friend will understand and accept you shortcommings
One thing is that r u ready to listen about this from Her who is intimate with you or from strangers like us who give only lip service.
When you are married to this girl and suppose same trouble you face will you ask Her or others.
Share your weaknesses also with her ,confide in her and believe she will accept you more and whole heartedly . as you are depending on her , seek her advice too.
This will pave the way of trust and cooperation
give a try
2007-07-10 18:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jhentee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One important thing is to always be optimistic. When I talk to quiet, boring, negative guys it gets awkward and I just want the conversation to end. But when they're upbeat and positive it puts me in a good mood and makes me want to talk more; and it lightens up the mood. Don't be afraid to say whatever is on your mind.
2007-07-10 18:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. Also, thinking of yourself as a 'full gangsta' isn't going to help your case. Be yourself, treat them with respect, talk to them like they're a person not an object.
2016-05-19 03:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh alot. That always helps. I'm sure she feels the same way you do, perhaps it helps her hide hers because she knows your so nervous. Ask her questions and allow her to talk about herself, and BE INTERESTED in all that she says. Thats a magic potion.
2007-07-10 18:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by cindy h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions in a way that doesn't end with a yes or no and keep doing that, casually interjecting your own ideas, stories and opinions. Women like it if you seem interested in them, not just yourself.
2007-07-10 18:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX.....We're human just like you, we have interests just like you, and I bet if you just relax, think of her as a good friend more than anything else, you'll find it much easier to talk to her. Best wishes..
2007-07-10 18:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by firefly_eyes75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's okay. When time comes you'll know what to say.
2007-07-10 18:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help you buddy, i dont talk to girls, i dont got time for them.
2007-07-10 18:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by yellowa55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋