2007-07-10 18:43:58 · 33 answers · asked by dokkenfan5000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a nice blind, deaf , and stupid girl.
i feel so helpful right now
2007-07-10 18:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by visualize cool name here 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Relax - you're only 14. Find some hobby or activity you can put your heart and soul into and forget thinking about getting a girlfriend. Once you get totally into some other really positive activity such as a sport or something that requires a high commitment level and effort - you usually find what you're looking for - when you're not looking for it - and the zits don't matter that much as long as you're generally clean. Also, 10 years from now - will happen in a flash - and when you get there - everything changes and all the girls who thought you were disgusting will be looking up your number - and finding that it's too late because you'll find someone who is better than this teenage high school nonsense where they judge you by counting the zits on your face. It can't hurt to see a doctor - they can perscribe meds that can help. I hear Proactiv does wonders! But don't worry if your case is persistent as long as you're doing something to take care of it and your face is obviously clean and you smell decent from taking a daily shower - then you're doing the right things.
2007-07-10 18:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about getting help for your acne. There are plenty of acne treatments on the market today. You must wash your face often, and use the treatment regularly, and you will get rid of this problem. Look up acne treatments on the web, or contact a dermatologist. Concentrate on helping your acne right now, and it will pay off later. Don't give up. I have never known anyone that had acne that could not find a girlfriend eventually.
2007-07-10 18:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with a dermatologist who will prescribe to you an effective regimen that you will follow to the letter so you can clear your skin (this is the 21st century...you do not have to have acne anymore).
Or just mesmerize a girl in a nightclub or any place with so little lighting, she will be in love with you and your great personality, before she sees you the next day in daylight and horror...and still she will like you because you made her laugh and you're such a nice guy and you think she's the most beautiful thing you ever saw in your entire life...
2007-07-10 18:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Howard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm...14 huh? Well... Acne is something that I struggled with when was 12 (early puberty!) I dealt with people at my school calling me names like "pepperoni face" and things of that nature... Try ProActiv...(lemme know if that helps)...Or maybe if it bothers you that much ask your Mom to take you to a dermatoligist...
As for the girls... I know you prolly see people dating all around you and you want to have a special someone too.. It's hard..I've been there done that... Guys in school didnt excactly find me to be attractive at the time. It's hard to be feel attractive with a zit factory on your face. Try not to be in a hurry to jump into a relationship... Work on you right now...and when the time is right you'll meet that special someone. Trust me... Good luck and have patience...
2007-07-10 18:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Connie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Watch what you eat. Avoid greasy foods and stay away from chocolate.
2) Drink lots of water
3) Ask your parents to take you to a dermatologist, they can recommend some good stuff for you. If its not possible, try ordering that Proactive acne kit.
4) If girls dont like you for who you are then you are probably looking for the wrong girl. The girl who you are meant to be with will love you for who you are--I promise.
2007-07-10 18:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets acne, I mean its normal, whether its moderate, sever, blazzy blah. Well I know that acne can really be embarrasing when it comes to getting a lil shorty, you are a boy right? Anyways drink plenty of water, change your diet, and use neutrogena , that really works for any type of acne problem. It gets all the dirt out of your pores... oh man... you gotta love it man.. but right now you know love yourself for who you are internally because once your skin gets clear and the girls start wanting you... you'll see the big impact.
2007-07-10 18:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by SHARON P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure to wash your face every night and morning.. its a pain in the *** but hey its SOO worth it! i use just reg anibacterial soap and my face is clear! dont use lotion, it will make the skin oily so dnt use it but just try the reg hand soap (make sure it says anti bacterial) and after 2 weeks i bet your skin will def clear up.. and another thing dnt rush fate, or fate will rush you.. maybe you dnt have a gf right now because in a month or 2 you could meet a girl and you guys could realy like eachother but you miss the oppurtunity of meeting her because you are somwhere else with someone another girl you dnt really like .. itl happen.. and most kids your age have acne just a group of the lucky ******* that dnt =] lol ya you no what i mean
and for the ppl to say to lower his standerds,, what are you kidding? why then he wouldnt really like her whats the point..
homie just go for the girl you want.. for right now at 14 to some extent you dnt have to worry bout the insides as much as the outsides you no have fun while you can with the young and beautiful =]
2007-07-10 18:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by ::EllesMommy:: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend had acne and i have been with him for over 2 years. Acne is not your problem. Just get to know girls for friends without trying to get a girlfriend. If you try to hard you won't get one. Become friends and once they get to see your great personality they'll stop seeing your acne.
2007-07-10 18:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you should:
A: Wait until you are older and your acne clears up.
B: Find a way to clear it up now.
C: Find a girl who doesn't care how your face looks and cares about you as a person.
When I'm unsure about an answer and it is a multiple choice question I usually choose C because it's usually right...hint hint.
2007-07-10 18:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some acne medicine, and wait a few years. You are only 14 you are still very very young. And then when you are 18 and drop dead goregous, you shun all the girls who teased you. :) just a tip.
2007-07-10 18:46:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋