I had a crush on this girl. She didn't want to start anything. I said I was cool with it and moved on sort of - she wanted to be friends and I am cool with that.
Trouble is that it seems that she doesn't want anything at all by the way that she acts most days. Then on a handful of other days she is really chatty and wants to be around me, wants to know what I'm up to etc.
As I said, I'm cool about just being friends but when I say hi to a friend I like to get a response. Not the cold shoulder. I always answer her but she ignores me some times.
It wasn't like this before and I just wish it could go back to normal.
Any advice on how to fix this up? Just quickly it's been over a month since I asked her out and to me it seems like plenty of time to move on.
2007-07-10 17:38:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's confused - She doesn't know if her feelings are changing or if it is the fact she knows that you have feelings for her
1. give her space
2. Asked does she want talk
2007-07-10 17:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what's up. If you keep getting the yo-yo treatment, then stop trying to be her friend. She sounds like she is a bit controlling and a little bit of a bleep. I would tell her that you feel that she is hot and cold and you just want to know if she really wants to be your friend or just someone when she is bored.
2007-07-11 00:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by ohmom2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if she is giving you the silent treatment she is not a true friend. Give her a taste of her own medicine! This doesn't mean you have to be nasty or ignore her. just dont go out of your way! Be confident in your self, she will come around!
2007-07-11 00:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really stable and level headed. She on the other hand sounds bipolar. She is not worthy of you or your friendship. She should not play with your feelings and think that is okay. Normalcy is not in her cards. Let her grow up and keep your distance in the meantime.
2007-07-11 00:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by nurse68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened after my best girl friend went out with my best friend. about 3 months of no talking then out of the blue after she broke up with him she wanted to be best friends again, and now we're better friends than ever before. soo i'd say just ride it out and if she doesn't come to you, go to her out of the blue and say you want to be friends again.
2007-07-11 00:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by thenumberoneincluelessness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she doesn't talk you'll hold your breath until she does. If she cares if you live or die she may considering losing the mute game.
2007-07-11 00:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE HER TOO AND MOVE ON. FIND A NEW LOVE AND U WILL FORGET ABOUT HER. TRUST ME U WILL FORGET HER.
2007-07-11 00:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by CONFUSED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time not to long
2007-07-11 00:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her and go date ten other girls.
2007-07-11 00:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋