(2) A faithful man who allows his spouse to cheat?
Which do u prefer to have as a spouse? And why?
2007-07-10 18:48:17 · 13 answers · asked by pesticide 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If these were the only options, I'd prefer no spouse at all. Cheating shouldn't be part of the equation.
2007-07-10 19:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a big fat neither. Those are two sides of the same coin. I would never want my spouse to think its cool to go out and cheat and I should stay at home being all dumb to it. Nor do I want him to sit there and hold the door open to would be lovers. I say in both situations the dude and the woman need to both grow some back bone for real. Because for a man to do that or a woman to allow that to happen is totally out of their minds for damn sure. I mean this is what is wrong with the world today. Nobody wants to work on their real issues they rather let their partner run them over while they cry to others about it. I say you shouldn't be crying when your heart is breaking over your own stupidity.
2007-07-11 01:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get married if you want to cheat. This is not acceptable and should not even be an option. This is another example of people treating marriage like it is disposable.
Ive been married 17 years. It is not an option for me or my husband. And he feels the same way. It is flat out wrong. And you open up to many STD's ect., if you have kids this sure makes a good example. It is ok to screw around even when your married.
2007-07-11 01:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by desertlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a woman I would have to pick B) A faithful man who allows me to cheat. I wouldn't dream of cheating on him, but if I had to make a choice...
2007-07-11 01:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want either spouse....i really wouldn't prefer to cheat or to let my man cheat....as for who's worse, that's a hard one...i can't choose they are both awful....
2007-07-11 01:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I guess i wouldnt want either one but i have male friends, Marines, who deploy and cheat on their wives some of the wives accept it, but God forbid their wife cheat they 'd dump her, no second thought. For me i guess i would feel guilty returning to bed after cheating but if he cheated i could sleep next to him anyway so i couldnt choose either one but i guess since cheating is a selfish act i rather be the cheater
2007-07-11 03:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A, sin is a sin, and a sin and a sin again. Prefer to
have a spouse that does not cheat, and we do
not cheat since our 20yrs of marriage.
2007-07-11 02:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is obviously worse, because it's a very hurtful and horrible thing to do to someone. Putting up with it is just dumb, though.
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2007-07-11 02:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by xeyelinerwh0rex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither!! What kind of Marriage is that?? I don't see those choices in the Marriage vows. Only an abusive controlling person who doesn't take a marriage seriously would think or want it that way.
2007-07-11 01:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets jus say i no how you feel i think both is wrong because when u marry its a bond that should never be broken and once that person breaks that bond its nothing to fall back on ...so i say neither great
2007-07-11 01:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by mslady_witalot_oflove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋