Family & Relationships - 10 July 2007

Our relationships was about 4 weeks when we first slept together. I had gone to visit him, & things led to another and we started kissing. It lasts so long & got so heated that i agreed to sleep with him although i'd told him i wanted sex delayed till i was emotionally ready for it. After wards, i lamented about my lack of restrain, & worried he'd lose respect for me. he told me it didn't matter to him if i slept with him or not, that it wouldn't change what he thinks of me. But the next time he came to my place & was going to stay the night, i saw that he'd brought along 2 condoms. I feel he was lying when he said it doesn't matter to him abt sex. & am angry he's not making any effort to abstain from it. What do you guys think?

2007-07-10 02:19:49 · 39 answers · asked by Hmmm 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 02:18:18 · 17 answers · asked by sami 1 in Singles & Dating

#1) I girl that wheres maskara, eyeliner, & eyeshadow.
Or do you like them beter with-out make up??

#2) Do you like a girl with a harty apitaite or a girl that doesn't eat much??

2007-07-10 02:17:04 · 17 answers · asked by ღ̣♥ E && A ♥ღ̣ 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 42 and he is 51 and we have been dating for 9 months. he wants to THINK about us living together when we have been dating at least 2 years. we both have children who get on well together, so that is not a problem. because we live far away from each other we only see each other once a week, the rest of the week i feel alone and like a single person and i dont want to be. any thoughts??

2007-07-10 02:15:41 · 22 answers · asked by teddi 1 in Singles & Dating

how many ppl hate it when someone is talkin tough on the net tryin to make you shite your pants??

2007-07-10 02:13:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Older sister helped me out with lending me money 2 years ago, with the terms of I will pay you when I have it. We just recently got into the older sister / younger brother power struggle, when I put my foot down, and told her she is responsible for herself, and I am responsible for myself (Boundaries). Obviously when you put up a boundary to someone who is aggressive controlling, she felt the only card she could play was to demand payment of the money she loaned me. So my question is, what is the correct response back to her when she is emailing me "When am I getting my money??????", when I feel like she is doing this more to make herself feel better, that I lent you money, you owe me now buddy.

2007-07-10 02:12:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

who likes basshunter.

it's a swedish music group.



if you've never heard of them listen to dota or boten anna and then answer



im hoping to turn some people on to some great music from over seas!


http://www.basshunter.se/

2007-07-10 02:12:40 · 1 answers · asked by teenage average 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean disorders like Asperger's Syndrome. Would you prefer them to date someone who is normal socially?

2007-07-10 02:12:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A little background on the situation my mother was married at 21 had me at 24 got divorced at 26, never had a close relationship with my biological father. My mom remarried when I was 7, and my step-father has raised me and been more of a father than anyone could expect, my mother was never able to have kids after me, so it has been the three of us for twenty years now. Now my step father has moved out and she is so heartbroken, he told my mother it was a mid life crisis situation and he doesn't make friends easy so the thought of him seeing some one else was so far fetched, well my mom found emails because she figured something was going on and sure enough an old girlfriend from highschool who lives hundred of miles away. I don't know what to do for my mom she is my best friend, it hurts that he left but it hurts more to see my mom cry. Our roles are reversed right now and I just want to make it better. And advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated.

2007-07-10 02:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by ARoberts 1 in Family

I have dated a girl now for about 4 months. We live at our own places and haven't moved in yet. We keep some clothes at eachother's place & a few essentials. I kept finding alot of my clothes in the wash basket but i couldn't remember wearing them or they had been put away in the wrong place.

I left her alone for an hour while i went out to get some take out and when I cam hme she had dressed herself in my boxer shorts and socks, she had my work shirt on with no bra and bizarrely a carrot between her legs. she was stomping around and swearing about football and workers from Poland taking her job. She was totally embarassed when i came into the bedroom and we haven't spoken about it since.

I can't figure her out as to why she did this and the whole experience has put me right off carrots.

2007-07-10 02:06:29 · 55 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

I made out with this guy I met at a party Saturday night. He was basically glued to me all night. He asked for my number and hasnt called yet. We both we just buzzed not drunk and he even said he remembered seeing me at our towns carnival a few weeks before...Do you think he will call and how long till I assume he has no interest?

2007-07-10 02:05:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm planning mine and my lovely boyfriend of 5 years a wedding for july 2009 , i'm not really sure about anything , colors , themes ,etc... soo i would love help , please!. i know its a long time away but i love to be planned in advance , so help is much wanted...............please

2007-07-10 02:02:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

seriously. how do two people get married and ive literally their souls to eachother, then in a year, are worst enemies??
how does it happen for no reason?

2007-07-10 01:53:18 · 13 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help I think he dont love me anymore!!?
I been with my boyfriend for 3 years on our second child, we have are ups and downs and well im tired of our downs, i want to just be happy with him, so ill be nice with him and try to rekindle withhim, but no matter what i do its not good enough, he will still find a way to tell me awful words what can i do to save this relationship, what can i do to have him love me once again???

2007-07-10 01:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by flaca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married but separated for 2 years. Can I open up a bank account in my maiden name? I wish to pay money into it from a savings policy that is in my maiden name.

2007-07-10 01:49:03 · 18 answers · asked by Mandy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been dating this guy for about 4 days. I think its too early for us to get physical..What do u think?

2007-07-10 01:45:21 · 24 answers · asked by livelaughluv 2 in Singles & Dating

Do women really still enjoy making love even if they don't have the Big "O"? Trying to think about it from the male perspective... if we didn't, well, it wouldn't be nearly as enjoyable, so why do women say it doesn't matter if they do or not? Can somebody be honest with me? :-)

2007-07-10 01:39:47 · 19 answers · asked by Joe 6 in Singles & Dating

hi everyone, my partener and i want to be married b4 our baby arrives, as i dont want a baby out of wedlock, how do i get a marriage liecence? (sorry for any mistakes, i cant spell propely)

2007-07-10 01:39:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You lied to someone you truely cared about.. But when you lied to them you were just acquaintances;3 years later your still caring out that lie? Would you tell them the truth or keep lieing forever.... Would you tell them if you new it would ruin everything you have?

2007-07-10 01:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by It's Whatever 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

to make matters worse you know you are financially dependant on your husband and you have a baby to take care.

2007-07-10 01:38:12 · 12 answers · asked by palfinder 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Wassssaappp IM A GOOFY GOOBER YEAH

2007-07-10 01:37:58 · 13 answers · asked by ๑۩۞۩๑Jake๑۩۞۩๑ 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, I volunteer at a hospital and I didn't feel like going today, but my parents are strict with me going there. So today, i got dressed, said goodbye to mom and parked down the street and waited for my mom to leave to work. As soon as she left she saw my car (i think) and passed by it. I haven't talked with her yet but what is a good excuse. And trust me my parents will be pissed if they find out I skipped

2007-07-10 01:37:19 · 12 answers · asked by Goffffaaa 2 in Family

Im going to have my Wedding Reception at my house in April, what are some good foods to make for it, being Im going to be eating and helping to make the food I want it to be good, so HELP me out PLEASE. What should I make??

2007-07-10 01:36:59 · 14 answers · asked by Nathan&Aubries Mommy 3 in Weddings

for the first time in over 3 months.. we had gone to different schools... so it was hard to see her... (i love her like i've never loved any1 else... but we both agreed with eachother not to be anything more bcs of our friendship).. but anyways today was the first day of driving school... and she is taking it with me... so... well... today, the meaning beautiful in my world has been redefined... if i loved her before... man i cherish her right now... in my world she stands out as a person of light and life and love... she has changed so much since i saw her last... including her body... it's not lust trust me... man i love her like i've never loved anyone... but now i don't know what to do... we've already been through a tough ordeal with me telling her that i liked her... i just don't know what to do... i feel like i need to have a chance wih her somday... when we were talking... she usually doesn't make eye contact... but man.. there was one point in the conversation when she looked

2007-07-10 01:36:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMG!! I can't believe this HAHAHAHAAAAA I just had a look on husbands laptop I was there for other reasons BUT discovered that he HAS 10 PARIS HILTON PORN VIDS!!!! most of the VIDS ITS OF HER WALKING AROUND NAKED OR HE BF TOUCHING HER ALL OVER ETC. he's got to be JOKING come on!!!!!!!!!! NOT PARIS HILTON LOL im pissed off of course I NEVER knew he watches S**T like that!! he's at work now but he comes back I want to ask him about it. What would you do honestly?? I thought he was an ANGEL! but turns out im so WRONG! HAHAHAAA

2007-07-10 01:34:05 · 20 answers · asked by Tina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i found out yesterday that my female friend is bi. i am against bi, lesbian, and gay people because of my morals and my religion. i upset her because i didn't accept her and i felt uncomfortable around her. i even started crying because i didn't want to lose a friend of 10 years. i am 13 and she is 14. is she just trying to find out her sexuality? was i wrong for being shocked? what do i do? all answers appreciated.

2007-07-10 01:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-10 01:26:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She left with our 13mth old baby boy to our capital city & I'm left with our 2 older boys under 5. We got along great in our marriage like best friends & I still love her but she reckoned that I didn't trust her with the housemate in which she admitted 2 me she had feelings 4 him & him her. I gave her a choice whether she wanted 2 stay with me & the boys or not & I kicked him out because I felt threatened by him, she decided to follow. She's done this kind of thing to me before we were married in which she eventually found out what the other guy was like & realised that she still loved & had feelings 4 me & she came back. Is this a pattern? Does anyone think she will come back or is it better 4 me just 2 let her go this time? After our breakups, she has been bitchy towards me. Has anyone left their partner twice & came back 2 them 4 good because they made a mistake of leaving the first 2 times?

2007-07-10 01:24:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married over 3 yrs, have a 2yr old daughter of our own. My husband has a 6 yr old daughter from a previous & short marriage. She started having problems after her 5th bday and it has continued to get worse. We have joint custody
(she is w/ us half the week every week) My husband works versy long hours(sales!) so I am w/ her the most. She is good for the most part but is continuously rude, talking back and disrespectful. She was in trouble alot in kindergarten and was refered to the school counseler for group session during the school year. She is now in counseling one on one b/c of some troubling things she has said. My husband and I constantly disagreeingand argue over this, I feel he disregards and brushes off her bad behavior, and he feels I have gotten to strict now that she is having problems. Any advice or thoughts? Thanks so much!

2007-07-10 01:18:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bf has started asking me about my sex life with my ex fiance. He wanted to know everything from the worst thing he did to me and the sexiest and vice versa. Then he wanted me to show him what I did to my ex. WTF????For someone who told me he never wanted to hear me mention my ex's name again to this. What the hell is going on, why does he need to know this and then he asks me who I thought was better?

2007-07-10 01:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating