2007-07-10 02:18:18 · 17 answers · asked by sami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well we have been meeting for about 2 weeks and have told me hes fallen for me!!
we have already had sex i no its bad!
he texts me saying he miss's me and can't wait to see me e.t.c
2007-07-10 02:25:46 · update #1
he also leaves his phone in the car when we are at his place!!
but has asked me to go to a family party on sunday im so confussed!!
2007-07-10 02:27:18 · update #2
When they don't try to pressure you into having sex.
And if you don't want to have sex and they still hang around and still seem interested, then they probably do like you for you.
If they only wanted sex and realize that you won't give it to them, they'll move on FAST! They won't stick around for a long time.
2007-07-10 02:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do they treat you when you are not in bed? Are they a friend, are they there for you? do you do things together, besides have sex? how do you feel about things. If you are asking this question you probably are getting the feeling that you might be just a booty call
Honey follow your woman's intuition and smell the reality. If you think you are just being used for sex, you most likely are being just used for sex. Think about the things that make you feel this way and you will find out why you feel this way that is because inside you already know the answer to your question, you just want to hear someone say what you suspect.
YES he is lying, Yes he is using you,Yes you should stop having sex with him and Yes you should dump him Fast
2007-07-10 09:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll wait for the sex and not seem like they want it. If that ship has already sailed and you've already rolled around in bed, then see how long they'll wait for more. And do casual stuff: movies, dinner, etc.
2007-07-10 09:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by DN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to go places with you and hang out without having sex all the time.
2007-07-10 09:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does s/he talk about most? Does s/he seem interested i nhearing what you have to say, or is s/he just more interested in getting down to business. If someone really likes you, they want to know you as much as they can, & usually they delay sex!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-10 09:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to know the same thing. I had a guy to totaly used me for sex. I was disgusted
2007-07-10 09:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥iloveyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that person will wait for the moment when the other is ready. when the person will want to know you for who you are, and feel confident that the sex will come in due time. it takes patience.
2007-07-10 09:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Tony E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you'll never know til it's too late. I learned from experience. Does he take you out in public and to things you should be at his side at? Or, do you stay home while he goes? If he takes you, your probably in.
2007-07-10 09:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by ndnquah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a man you're talking about, then it's sex. Trust me. That's the harsh reality. Accept it and you'll not be so puzzled in life.
2007-07-10 09:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully you know the person well enough to tell, but this is not always true. I guess you take a chance.
2007-07-10 09:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋