for the first time in over 3 months.. we had gone to different schools... so it was hard to see her... (i love her like i've never loved any1 else... but we both agreed with eachother not to be anything more bcs of our friendship).. but anyways today was the first day of driving school... and she is taking it with me... so... well... today, the meaning beautiful in my world has been redefined... if i loved her before... man i cherish her right now... in my world she stands out as a person of light and life and love... she has changed so much since i saw her last... including her body... it's not lust trust me... man i love her like i've never loved anyone... but now i don't know what to do... we've already been through a tough ordeal with me telling her that i liked her... i just don't know what to do... i feel like i need to have a chance wih her somday... when we were talking... she usually doesn't make eye contact... but man.. there was one point in the conversation when she looked
2007-07-10 01:36:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
right into my eyes and i looked right into hers... and what i saw in her eyes just made me love her.. she sat there looking into them for 5 seconds that seemed to mean an eternity... her pupils got so big that i could see her world inside her eyes as she looked at me.. that moment was wonderful... but idk what to do now! I mean, im ganna see her again tomorrow and at least 8 more times this summer.. plus we are going to the same school next fall... what should i do please?!? I am in love with her... (and i am one of the most mature guys you will find.. trust me.. when i say her body changed.. i mean that out of respect.. not pervertedness...) thank you everyone.. please no immature comments plz :)
2007-07-10 01:36:45 · update #1
Welll, since you will be going to the same school in the fall, just keep being a good friend, and hopefully someday, she will see more than friendship in your eyes. Maybe, when you are ready to date, you will find something fun to do and ask her to go with you. Let it go naturally from there.
2007-07-10 01:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to write all that down again and give it to her because that was the sweetest and sincerest stuff I ever read.
And then I would add that you know it is her desire to just be friends so you are working on that sincerely because you respect her feelings. But if you never tell her - JUST LIKE YOU SAID IT IN THE QUESTION - she will never know how deep your feelings are and then, you will never wonder what would have happened if you told her. The truth is always good.
P.S. Keep those eyes off that body, try comparing her heart to her body and see which one is more receptive to you then you will know your answer - because you being in the hormone butt kicking age you must know you could be overwhelmed by that.
2007-07-10 08:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by samedi48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I REALLY like the way you describe evrth!
You really sound like you ARE IN LOVE!
She is a lucky girl, you rarely hear a guy say those words!
Well my dear, you just DON'T GIVE UP! Ask her out. Go out with her and make her happy. Don't behave like you're too pitchy. Just look her in the eyes and in a soft voice tell her that she is beautiful!
She will get the point. If you keep seeing her, and giving her some mature nice looks she will be interested on you too. But please don't let her know that you are deeply in love with her bcz she will get advantage of that. Behave a bit indifferently sometimes, you know what I mean.
I really wish it works out for you and that you enjoy the love of your love!
Best of luck!
2007-07-10 08:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by atrabel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just a lust thing. Lusting is wanting something that you cannot have. In this case - her!
You need to cool off! Start out as friends, and take things slow. This "love" is like a firecracker - it's hot, it's fast, but eventually, it goes off with a BANG - and then no more!
Slow it down! All good relationships begin with friendship.
2007-07-10 08:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude we have all been there. Few of us do the right thing. But trust me, if you have already told her how you feel and she gave you the "our friendship" line, than you have to assume for the moment that nothing has changed.
The best thing you can do is flirt with her, see if she responses. If not, you know the answer.
2007-07-10 08:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T SCREW IT UP, look guys have one chance usually, ONE chance. So here it goes 1. Don't pawn all over her, Yea I know you love her, but that doesn't change the rules of the game. Keep making eye contact, talk to her, be friendly but not over bearing. 2. Tease her alittle, it's part of the game (note I said tease not insult) and 3. GIVE HER SPACE, hang around talk, laugh whatever, but after awhile go talk to another friend, if you have another friend thats a girl go talk to them, and make sure she sees you doing this. Your not trying to make her jealous, your trying to let her know your interested, but your not obsessed.
P.S Do NOT listen to the women and tell her how you feel. Yea later but not right off the bat.
2007-07-10 08:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm going to tell you to do the hardest thing . . . tell her how you feel--well, tone it down some. ;) Let her know you missed her and have been thinking about her. Tell her you like her a lot and want to be more than just friends. Be honest with her, but also realize she may need a little time to get to know you again, if it's been a few months.
Good luck!
2007-07-10 08:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg this is one of the sweetest things ive ever heard. if i were you, just go for it! it also seems like she feels the same way about you. dont let friendship be in a way of a possible start of great love. it might sound ironic but trust me, it'll be all worth it.
2007-07-10 08:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by NYCGIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just approach her again, but not in such a direct way, making small hints along your relationship along the way. This way she may become accustomed to your presence and eventually your relationship would blossom.
2007-07-10 08:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you are most definitely in lust, you mentioned her body too much, and then said it wasn't that!! Just see how things go.
2007-07-10 08:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋