Ive been dating this guy for about 4 days. I think its too early for us to get physical..What do u think?
2007-07-10 01:45:21 · 24 answers · asked by livelaughluv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone's different. I usually start with pecks on the cheek. If she accepts them and seems interested in more, I start lip pecks. Then, after a while, if she seems ready, I go for the big one...haha. Of course, this all occurs over multiple dates.
First date: A peck on the cheek.
2007-07-10 01:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're still in high school it's probably too early to 'get physical'.
If we don't kiss on the first date, I usually take it as a sign that the relationship won't work, although I don't usually take it much further than that for 2-3 weeks.
Basically go as far as both of you feel comfortable, and don't feel that you 'should' be doing any particular thing at any particular time.
2007-07-10 08:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by tgypoi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont kiss on the first date. i think its too quick. and youre right, its too early for you to get physical with your guy. its only been 4 days. but its up to you and it also depends on the guy. ask yourself these question; 1. Is he a good guy? 2. Do you see yourself being in a serious relationship with him? and 3. As of now, how do you feel about him?
2007-07-10 08:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by NYCGIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time has nothing to do with it it is all about what do you think. If you are asking us you are not ready for that or this is not the right guy for you. Four days is not a very long time,did you know him for longer before starting to date? that would be a factor.
Sounds like you are being pressured into something you do not want. Tell the guy to cool it and then think about finding someone who is more on the same page as you, and you do not sound ready at all.
2007-07-10 08:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer this question in as-a-matter-of-fact-way because I believe in individual differences. No two persons, including identical twins, are so completely alike.
In dating, the rules are laid down by you and/or your partner.
If YOU think it's too early at your current stage to get physical with each other... then IT IS too early. Never be pressured by other people in making decisions which will affect YOU in the long run.
Goodluck!
2007-07-10 08:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Legionnaire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's too early to get physical. In my younger days, I got physical way too early....and now I'm living with an incurable STD. Just be careful.
2007-07-10 08:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always depends on the situation you both create.
I've kissed on my 1st date, then with another date I kissed after 5 months of dating. It just depends on how you both feel.
If you feel like kissing just do it, if you don't then wait till you think you want it!
Good luck
2007-07-10 08:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kiss him if you want to and it feels like the right time, also depends what kind of kiss. maybe just start with a lil kiss on the lips and take it from there if your worried about giving too much too soon?
2007-07-10 08:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I feel a connection with him, I will kiss him on the first date.
2007-07-10 08:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by tifanie o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its way too early. Dont do it. In fact I would discourage getting physical.
2007-07-10 08:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by Ngeli C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋