Family & Relationships - 10 July 2007

im13 and i have views but whenever im in trouble they wont hear my side i mean we have arguments about it but they dont listen because they dont want to i write letters to them its easier but i dont want them to only listen when i write it down i want them to listen to me and my point of views,well at least hear them out i want them to c where im coming from

2007-07-10 07:13:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiancé wants to invite her ex to our wedding. I have made it very clear that I am not comfortable with this. Anytime I bring it up it ends up being a fight and I end up giving in and saying that I will get over it. The problem is that I don't get over it. It really bothers me that him being there is more important to her than me being uncomfortable on my wedding day. She says that she can’t be friends with him and his wife and not ask them to our wedding. That by asking her not to invite him I am asking her to cut all ties with him and anyone that knows him. That is not what I am asking. I just don’t want him at my wedding. I am fine with them being friends I just don’t want to be reminded on that day that she was ever in love with someone else. I want to be thinking only of her and how lucky I am to be marrying her.

2007-07-10 07:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by John 5 in Weddings

just asked me whats one thing you'd want to do with your new boyfriend??... and we live like really far apart.. what should i say??? please help ME!!!... where both 17

2007-07-10 07:10:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what does that include?

2007-07-10 07:10:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So far all I can find seems overpriced at about $50.00

2007-07-10 07:08:57 · 4 answers · asked by whymewhynow 5 in Weddings

2007-07-10 07:06:45 · 1 answers · asked by Traci M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-10 07:06:19 · 33 answers · asked by sandy02 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 07:05:50 · 22 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Friends

Married three kids , husband using porn instead of me for years i.e when i go out or am tired ect (alot of the time
without even asking for sex first )Personally I think porn is fine used together but not used like this i.e behind my back . I Keep catching him out which is causing murder PLUS NOW I DON'T TRUST HIM!

I'm v jealous of the porn and getting a bit insecure now ,speaking with a counselor though nothing is helping .Is this me? Do all men do this? Am i overreacting ? I don’t want to leave if the next guy is going to do the same thing …. We've talked about it lots and I'm up for anything sexually/ slim / attractive so what’s wrong ? It's v near the end and the kids are heartbroken but I can’t handle the mistrust. Sorry means nothing anymore it’s said so much Any advice appreciated

2007-07-10 07:00:19 · 38 answers · asked by chloe 31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ugh I have a cute guy problem.
He flirts feels me up and always tells me how hott i look
He is a jerk but hott. I dont get why hes such a pig and get this....HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND....why would you feel up soeone who isnt your gf???? HELP WANTED

2007-07-10 06:58:40 · 19 answers · asked by Claire 4 in Singles & Dating

I love him, and he loves me, but everything is not as, well, bright as before. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can get him to realize how much I mean to him, and he means to me? And that we still have something good going on?

Thanks in advance.

2007-07-10 06:55:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 18 years young and the last boyfriend i had was not too long ago. we broke up because of a bad habbit of mine that i want to dissapear for GOOD! Okay the thing is I'm kind of afriad of men. Im not a lesbian and I am seeing someone and he and I have a 17 yr. age difference. And i love him but im terrified! lol. For someone whos dated alot of guys I never kissed a boy nor have I had sex. I dont know what it is about men but they scare my black *** lol. I love them but I've witnessed girls give their "all" to men only to be rejected soon after and Im afraid of that. So becaus eof my fear of being hurt by a guy I'm a scared virgin who's never kissed a guy...am I the only one? I need some advice b/c Im tired of the constant uncomfort around men.

2007-07-10 06:54:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He continuously makes fake facts up and tells my mom untrue diet tips should I stop him! He tells me he feels as though he's under a lie detector! But if he would just stop I wouldn't have a problem!


What do I do?

2007-07-10 06:52:54 · 7 answers · asked by ME® 5 in Family

ok, may be what i m looking for is strange but i want it really, i want to know if there is an alternative expression of " I LOVE YOU " , i said it to one whom i expected that he ll be my man but due to some circumstances it did not happen , so i want to say to my future husband other stuffs and expressions that never been said to anyone else " JUST HIM " . i have my own love creative words ,but this expression , i did not find its equivalent . can you help?

2007-07-10 06:51:42 · 5 answers · asked by white rose. 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I need to go about marring an illegal immigrant without having him sent back to his country? We have been together for 2 years so it's not like it's for his green card but what is the actual process? Would it be easier for us both to go back to his country, get married, apply for Visa there then come back? I am so confused and can't plan a wedding until I find out all this information. I really, really need urgent HELP!!!

2007-07-10 06:51:19 · 7 answers · asked by Misery 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day my wife told me it turns her on when other women flirt with me. She then told me that if I cheated on her she would not be mad as long as I took pictures and told her about the "session" while she & I were making love. This just blew my mind. I have never cheated on my wife, nor have I wanted to, in the 18 years we have been married. My question is should I find someone or not? If so, she said she does't want to know who it is.

2007-07-10 06:50:31 · 38 answers · asked by chrisrbradshaw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a relationship with my fiance (now my ex) for over 5 years. We were supposed to be getting married in 2 months. 6 weeks ago, he called off our wedding due to the fact that he has been seeing a married woman for the past 2 months and "is in love with her". I have cancelled everything (caterer, reception hall, dj, etc), however many of these places will not return my deposits. Also, the cost of my bridal gown and the bridesmaid dresses which I had to pay for because they were ordered months ago. I paid for the majority of the items myself, although he did pay a few hundred dollars. My question is, is there a way that I can make him pay me back for the money that I have lost due to his cancelling the wedding?

2007-07-10 06:46:47 · 18 answers · asked by Ann 2 in Weddings

my parents-(who i dont really get on with)...
....or my beloved sister -(who i CANNOT live without)???

2007-07-10 06:46:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

for the chidrens sake ?

2007-07-10 06:44:43 · 28 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Still treat me like a child even though I am 28. They asked me to postpone my wedding so I could have it in the country where I was born and when we did. They are not doing anything to help in the preparations. I don't want to hurt them but how long do I wait when it is my life being put on hold

2007-07-10 06:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by SweetV 2 in Family

In their 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's, 70's, 80's, 90's

2007-07-10 06:40:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've never gone down on my girl before. Any tips to make it amazing for both me and her would be appreciated! Also, any tips on how to initiate it would be great too! Feel free to share your secrets! I'm big on enjoying sex and not just doing it to do it like lots of people seem to be. Please be honest and serious in your answer! Thanks!

2007-07-10 06:39:08 · 8 answers · asked by nutz2203 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's what I think is a great article about the "nice guy":

http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html

What do you think? At what age do girls finally start dating these guys? I am a 20-year-old nice guy and have been single for a longgg time...

2007-07-10 06:37:40 · 11 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 06:37:08 · 5 answers · asked by shaun s 1 in Family

My future husband to be and I want to have a wedding away from it all and just the two of us. And it has to be on the beach. We found out about Sandals and have looked into it. They are expensive, but all inclusive. However we don't drink...so all the liqour included thing really is costing us money. Is there another hotel in the caribbean that does destination wedding/honeymoons that someone can recommend? Maybe even one that is all inclusive but has the option not to have liquor included? Thank you :)

2007-07-10 06:35:44 · 5 answers · asked by shrekmaddox 1 in Weddings

my mom is being a ******. she wants me to do all the house work everyday and its the summer!!!! the only time i get to sleep in and she wakes me up at like 9:30. and she wants me to do SAT work, math, and read. and she says that if i do that for 2 hours ill have the rest of the 22 hours for myself but all that doesnt take 2 hours, more like 6. also, she like hates me but loves my brother. the other day she said she didnt under stand how I came out of her body, and she didnt even want or need a child like me. and she said when she went on vacation she was thinking about staying there because she didnt want to come back to me..also her and my dad always fight. and its always because of the past and how her mother in law was mean to her. i wanna tell her to shut the hell up and deal with it.
shes a fuc*ing bi*ch. what do i do? she doesnt tolerate any backtalking or plain talking.

2007-07-10 06:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wedding ceremony was delayed by 2 hours. I feel so bad for my guests who were gracious enough to wait around for me. Everything just went completely wrong that day. I had no music, no cake and the hairdress double booked my appointment. Most of our family showed up late as well. Some were even responsible for bringing items for and/or coordinating certain parts of the reception and did not show up. Those who did though were very understanding and helped out when the time became necessary.
I would like to send each guest a personalized magnet with our wedding picture and have considered sending an apology letter for the delay in the event and so on. I am not sure if this is appropriate.
Should I send them a simple thank you note and not mention anything about the disaster that occured on my wedding day or should I send an apology letter also thanking the guest for their attendance at the ceremony and reception?

2007-07-10 06:29:19 · 8 answers · asked by mom2omar 1 in Weddings

something he remembers thru his entire life

2007-07-10 06:28:03 · 34 answers · asked by shefali b 1 in Family

ok toms exwife is a wonderfull/involved mom to thier only child who is 8 yrs old.She is still single and relies on my hus for advice/support regarding thier son who is her life.I know she is not happy about me being the "new wife" as she sees me in "her place".My question is i don't want to make trouble with her so what can i do or don't do to avoid conflict with her?What does your exhusbands new wife do that pisses you off regarding your kids?

2007-07-10 06:26:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-10 06:26:29 · 45 answers · asked by sinbad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships