I have been experiencing a total lack of desire for sex lately and it is coming between me and my boyfriend. We have been together for 14 years and have 3 kids, ages 11, 8 and 1. He has been under a lot of stress and so have I. Its hard for me to "want it" when all he does is complain about the house not being clean enough (mind you we also have 2 apartments that I have to clean, paint and get rented out, which are done now, 2 of the kids are in baseball and the oldest on 2 teams), it seems like he finds stuff to yell about, nothing is good enough. Then really gets mad at me when I dont want to have sex. In fact, he woke me up from a dead sleep (which I have not had in awhile) and wanted it and got mad when I told him I was too tired ( I couldn't hardly keep my eyes open), this morning before he left for work, I tried talking to him and he said he wants nothing to do with me. What can I do to make him happy? I could care less about having sex, in fact I don't even want it. Help
2007-07-10
04:53:34
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Marriage & Divorce