Family & Relationships - 10 July 2007

it has to do with my brother in law and his wife. they met a year ago , got pregnant and married after less than a year of knowing eachother . the problem is that he abuses her physically and emotinally , and i have witnessed , me and my husband , such abuses repeatedly either in the family encounters, or in public when we went out .have decided to put and end to my relationship with them ,because i am anti violance . also, when i heard the news about pregancy , i got very annoyed thinking of the poor baby they will bring to this world. any chance they will stop the violance and have a normal life ? would the new baby help ? pls let me know because i am really worried about them , and do not know what to do.

2007-07-10 02:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by pink-world 1 in Family

Is it possible for a guy and a girl to build a relationship, if one lives a very fast-paced on-the-go life and the other is more laid back and lives a more simple and casual life?

2007-07-10 02:44:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for the first time in over 3 months.. we had gone to different schools... so it was hard to see her... (i love her like i've never loved any1 else... but we both agreed with eachother not to be anything more bcs of our friendship).. but anyways today was the first day of driving school... and she is taking it with me... so... well... today, the meaning beautiful in my world has been redefined... if i loved her before... man i cherish her right now... in my world she stands out as a person of light and life and love... she has changed so much since i saw her last... including her body... it's not lust trust me... man i love her like i've never loved anyone... but now i don't know what to do... we've already been through a tough ordeal with me telling her that i liked her... i just don't know what to do... i feel like i need to have a chance wih her somday... when we were talking... she usually doesn't make eye contact... but man.. there was one point in the conversation when she looked

2007-07-10 02:44:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a guy finds out that a girl is a virgin, some try their best to be different and get into their pants.
is it a crime to be a virgin or wait?

2007-07-10 02:44:07 · 17 answers · asked by JENNY 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, she was hanging out with me a lot even on days I said I needed space. usually something happened and she was upset. I had to take her to the hospital one of those times and another time her daughter. ok no biggie there. She was clingy and now she says I was clingy and taking up too much of her time. I said ok. I will give you more space no problem. Now she is giving him another chance ok. She wants me to be there for her ok, but she wants her space ok. How do I do both? I am confused. I talk to her she says she wants space, I do not talk to her she wonders why I have not talked to her. I do not understand what is going or what to do anymore. Any idea or advice will be appreciated. I do Love her as my best friend and maybe just maybe I would consider more latter after she her life straightened out. I am at a loss what to do because I do not know what she wants anymore. before she was calling me atleast 3 - 5 times a day. I try to see how she is doing every 2 - 3 days.

2007-07-10 02:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In college I was very attracted to a girl in my class, and with some time that passed by we began talking. I asked her out, and we started going out on a few dates. It was nice because everything went so well and smooth. Being friends first it made it kind of difficult to go into a relationship so it was always very much on the surface. BTW, I am 4 years younger than her. When we went out a few time she always mentioned that "she pictures herself married to me" and the like and when I would seem to get closer to her she would say that she wants something casual??!!? She was always very secretive about her life and I never could not understand why. Well, 2 years have past and we hardly speak and get very angry with each other over stupid things. I moved away 1 year ago and the day I left she was in tears asking me not to go. She visited me where I live, but made an effort to piss me off and show that she has no interest and tried to make me jealous, what do I do, keep her? As a friend?

2007-07-10 02:41:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I WANT LOVE WITH ANY FAIR LADY /GRIL IF ANY BODY WANT LOVE CONTECT ME COME FRIST TAKE FRIST

2007-07-10 02:41:23 · 16 answers · asked by SALIM Y 1 in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering

2007-07-10 02:41:01 · 11 answers · asked by anne c 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy was friends but he used to call me a little to much and i started avoiding him. then he popped up at my job once or maybe twice. then he started following me around in school and i kept trying to move away from him. then he must have stopped liking me b/c he stopped bothering for about three months. then when i tried to get with him he rejected me several times. then we had sex. then all of the sudden he started calling me everyday for me to come see him. then if i didnt answer the phone he kept calling back to back. even when i told him i would call him back. he still wants me to c him. i asked on the phone what the hell does he want and he said, "i want you." i dont know what the hell his problem is but i need advice. love ya

2007-07-10 02:39:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 02:38:28 · 8 answers · asked by nano 1 in Friends

So me and my ex broke up about a month ago she was living overseas
and has been back to the states for 2 weeks now
She broke up with me because i lied to her (no cheating tho) but since
she got back to the state she started going out with someone else and she has
been in a relationship with this person for 2 weeks and last nite was the first time we had seen each other since december we were supose to talk and fix our
problems and just plain talk so we could end up being friends...

Well one thing led to another and we ended up making out and just plain cheating on her new relationship we both know its wrong ...and she now says she wants to
be with me but she feels bad for this other person bc this person has fallen for her already and she doesnt wanna hurt em.

Im trying to be fair and i wanna help her understand or help her find out how she could break up with this person she says she loves me ..but doesnt know what she feel about this person..

2007-07-10 02:37:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im a boy i have a mix of friends that are boys and girls. one of my friends is a girl and she likes my other friend, peter. Peter likes a popular girl and my friend who is a girl doesnt have the courage to ask him out. She wants me to do it for her but im afraid i will ruin my friendship with her if i dont and im afraid i will ruin my friendship with peter if i do ask him out for her. What should i do?

2007-07-10 02:36:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my friends arent christian and they listen to songs that probably you guys listen to but ten i fell left cuz they singing those songs and i dont know anything. Help
please and thank-you

2007-07-10 02:36:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it's not like i dress like a guy or anything.
i DO put on makeup and do my hair and crap.
i'm just one of those girls who would rather go work on the truck with you than go to the mall.
is this really a turn off for guys.
that's what i've been told

2007-07-10 02:35:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-10 02:35:42 · 7 answers · asked by cristal b 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm single and I couldn't find Mr. Right Guy out there. I'm sick of tired being lonely. I don't like talk to stranger online it not my style. I don't know what to do?

2007-07-10 02:35:07 · 16 answers · asked by supergirl_powerful 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is my problem my husband owns a business and works for 7am to 2pm goes to the gym and sometimes does not get home until 8 and that is if he stops at the food store to pick up his health food ....he is usually home around 6:45 or 7...now with that being said i am preggo with number 4 boy this is the first time in my life i am not working....he really is no help he does not eat with us, he goes to the gym and i don't get to do anything...i also caught him in lie when i went up to his job last week and i can't shake it....i hate to think so badly of him but i feel taken advantage of and lied to...i also feel like he justifies it with that he works and i am not now...like he deserves all this time...so for the past week between the lie the time he is away and my hormones and selling my house i have been fighting with him non stop and he is won't take in any responsibility...what should i do??

2007-07-10 02:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by blondiebella 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been considering getting a new car for a little while now because mine just needs to be replaced. My boyfriend of about 6 months now suggests that I get a similiar car to what he has. I just thought he was trying to be helpful because his car treats him really well. Then I tell him I am looking into getting a dog. He then tells me all the wonderful traits of his Boston Terrier. Mind you, I really dig the dogs but I thought it'd be kind of strange to have similar dogs. Is he just trying to be helpful or what? I don't want to turn into the guy you know. I want to keep things about myself mine but are dogs and cars things that shouldn't be bothering me? It's not like he is changing my personality. It's just similiar dogs and cars, right?

2007-07-10 02:32:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but I just got my heartbroken so badly.. I fall for someone hard and fast.. thought he was the one and only one.. but all this guy wants to do is to see me unhappy I don't know why cause he is a very nice and sweet guy.. but for some reason when it comes to me.. if I say I am happy I got to spend time with you.. or I am soo glad to have you in my life .. which is how I feel he does or says something soo nasty that I end up crying for weeks.. now all he talks about how he has a new girl everyday of the week and how they do god knows what.. we agreed to be friends at least.. I called him he said he loves me.. I was soo happy to hear those words then later on that day he said please don't ever call me or contact me in anyway! soo it been 3 weeks I haven't spoken to him.. this morning his brother calls me 7:00 am to say he loves me and misses me.. there is no other girl he was only saying all that.. he always talks about me to all his friends.. he even talked to his brother about how nice it would be if we lived together and see each other all the time........... I felt even more heartbroken and sad I told his brother to tell him I don’t want to talk to him the phone was on speaker he could hear me..

And I have spend weeks just locking myself in my room crying my eye balls out.. Everyone thinks I am using drugs or doing something crazy on the web.. Other then my sister no one knows I was seeing him.. And she is out of town. I am not very open and I can be very shy at times.. My parents are worried that I have become lazy and a loser cause I act all death.. It is not an act cause no one knows what is going on with me..

I feel like my parents are right I am going to end up being a loser cause I just don’t see a way out of being heartbroken.. And the worst part is that I always end up going back to him no matter how much he has hurts me
p.s. He is 32 and I am 26

2007-07-10 02:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

MY husband is horrid to me and I desperately want to leave him far far behind! But I m 14 weeks pregnant and cant seem to pull myself to do it! I'm 25, I have no job due to early pregnancy illness, no money, my husband controls my car, I dont want to break my religious mom's heart( I have only been married for 10 mo.), I have no where to go (my parents have no room for me). I dont know what to do! And I m desperately scared to be alone right now, I dont want to have this baby alone. I dont want the child to grow up without its parents being together, but I dont want it to see how my husband treats me either! Does anyone have any words of wisdom?

2007-07-10 02:31:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

hi friends im rahul im new 2 uk and im from india.....my girl friend is livng here 4 2yrs and im seeing her after 2yrs...i love her lot and v have planned 2 have safe sex here...v already hav 1 in india by using condems......and v planned 2 hav a same thing in uk but the problem is v dont no wer 2 get condems in uk....i said 2 my girl frnd 2 ask 2 her frnds abt this but she is vry shy.....and i dont hav enough frnds here....now v dont no wat 2 do.....tis is our problem could anyone pls help me in tis.....thanks a lot

2007-07-10 02:29:19 · 12 answers · asked by rahul m 1 in Singles & Dating

And before you ask---old enough to know better.

2007-07-10 02:27:34 · 6 answers · asked by al 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-10 02:26:52 · 19 answers · asked by Dude 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, some background... I have known this girl since I was little... we ended up being each other's first everything... kiss, bf/gf, sexual partner etc.... ok, well we are still really good friends, and she is always over my house, hanging out, doing the friend thing... we have been this way for about 3 years... I have been in a new relationship for about 3 months and have not told her about my friend and I's history, should I tell my gf, or just leave the past the past???... but, my gf and my friend are starting to become friends, and what if she tells my gf??? then my @$$ is in trouble... what should I do???

2007-07-10 02:26:17 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to give this relationship my all, but I don't know how?

2007-07-10 02:24:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is missing and I am going to make posters and cover the city with them. What info should be on it, and what info should not be on it (like for her safety)?

2007-07-10 02:23:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My neighbor is 25 years old and he was badly injured a a car wreck Friday on his way to work. They were not sure if he was gonna live. Now, he is going into surgery tommorow to see if they can keep him from being paralyzed. They have a 3 year old baby girl and now they are both out of work. How can I help this family? Whats the best way to raise money for them?

2007-07-10 02:23:04 · 13 answers · asked by tonyaniezek 2 in Family

well i ahve this guy friend i like and he likes me aparently and i tryed to make the firt move when i was with him last nite but .. he kina not brushed it of but never acted upon it i dont know wats rong with me or if it was coz his ex was in the room aswell but like we have kissed and stuff but never took it furter i was droping hint like no tomorrow but he still never acted on it do u think i shud give up and stop the feelings i have for him or shud i try agen wen we are alone ???

please help me

x thankz in advance for who ever does

2007-07-10 02:22:12 · 10 answers · asked by eva j 1 in Singles & Dating

I just go into a relationship and I think that I am falling for him.he is so sweet and a real gentleman and I don't want to loose him.our relationship is incredible right now and I want to keep it that way.

2007-07-10 02:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by shymi 2 in Singles & Dating

What can she do to make this easier for him and her. He is fine once she gets him in the car, but it really hurts her and they do nothing to help the situation.

2007-07-10 02:20:31 · 3 answers · asked by tessa.dawn 2 in Family