Ok, she was hanging out with me a lot even on days I said I needed space. usually something happened and she was upset. I had to take her to the hospital one of those times and another time her daughter. ok no biggie there. She was clingy and now she says I was clingy and taking up too much of her time. I said ok. I will give you more space no problem. Now she is giving him another chance ok. She wants me to be there for her ok, but she wants her space ok. How do I do both? I am confused. I talk to her she says she wants space, I do not talk to her she wonders why I have not talked to her. I do not understand what is going or what to do anymore. Any idea or advice will be appreciated. I do Love her as my best friend and maybe just maybe I would consider more latter after she her life straightened out. I am at a loss what to do because I do not know what she wants anymore. before she was calling me atleast 3 - 5 times a day. I try to see how she is doing every 2 - 3 days.
2007-07-10 02:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
give up on her, she is a lost cause
2007-07-10 02:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is experiencing emotional and psychological issues relating to the divorce. Either abandon the relationship or lay the ground rules, "You call me when you want to talk." If she's giving her spouse another chance, you should probably back away from the relationship completely so that she can work on fixing her marriage. Her spouse is the one who should be her best friend and confidante. Your involvement may be causing some of her emotional confusion.
2007-07-10 09:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chris H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants her cake and eat it. Don't let her use you emotionally like this. She has no respect for your feelings. Tell her you don't want anything to do with her anymore and find someone who will be there for you. Look after numero-uno. You only get one life, don't let someone else mess it up for you because theres is a mess.
2007-07-10 10:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to learn to lead her own life. Be polite but make it clear you are not her crying post.
2007-07-10 09:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋