but I just got my heartbroken so badly.. I fall for someone hard and fast.. thought he was the one and only one.. but all this guy wants to do is to see me unhappy I don't know why cause he is a very nice and sweet guy.. but for some reason when it comes to me.. if I say I am happy I got to spend time with you.. or I am soo glad to have you in my life .. which is how I feel he does or says something soo nasty that I end up crying for weeks.. now all he talks about how he has a new girl everyday of the week and how they do god knows what.. we agreed to be friends at least.. I called him he said he loves me.. I was soo happy to hear those words then later on that day he said please don't ever call me or contact me in anyway! soo it been 3 weeks I haven't spoken to him.. this morning his brother calls me 7:00 am to say he loves me and misses me.. there is no other girl he was only saying all that.. he always talks about me to all his friends.. he even talked to his brother about how nice it would be if we lived together and see each other all the time........... I felt even more heartbroken and sad I told his brother to tell him I don’t want to talk to him the phone was on speaker he could hear me..
And I have spend weeks just locking myself in my room crying my eye balls out.. Everyone thinks I am using drugs or doing something crazy on the web.. Other then my sister no one knows I was seeing him.. And she is out of town. I am not very open and I can be very shy at times.. My parents are worried that I have become lazy and a loser cause I act all death.. It is not an act cause no one knows what is going on with me..
I feel like my parents are right I am going to end up being a loser cause I just don’t see a way out of being heartbroken.. And the worst part is that I always end up going back to him no matter how much he has hurts me
p.s. He is 32 and I am 26
2007-07-10 02:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He sounds extremely unstable and emotionally immature.
Run away, NOW!
It will not be easy to break it off, but for your own sanity, you need to get away from him. Give yourself time to heal. It won't be overnight, but you can get over him. You deserve a healthy relationship, not one caught up in craziness and drama.
You have to take care of yourself -- you're not a loser, you're just in love with the wrong guy.
2007-07-10 02:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by leysarob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you were going to say you were 12 and he was 14.....grow up. Getting his brother to call? How old are you people?
Regardless, This guy is F*d up. And continuing a relationship with someone so wishywashy isn't healthy. Change your way and the way you feel about others, as this could be the type of relationships you have for the rest of your life.
2007-07-10 02:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont crawl out of your hole soon, they are going to put you in a home. What you need to do is stop thinking of him all the time. There are men out there that aren't going to play games with your head/heart. You need to get up, go out and find a job or go back to school, join the gym or an aerobics class, find some hobbies. Get your mind off of him and start self improving yourself. Set goals and force yourself to meet them, there is no man or woman in this world that is worth self destructing over. We have all had our hearts broken from time to time, but moving forward is the best thing you can do to heal that.
Good luck to you
2007-07-10 02:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that you don't deserve somebody better?
Because if you believed that, you wouldn't keep going back to him.
He doesn't truly love you because if he did , he wouldn't ever want to see you upset.
You're 26 yrs old and spending weeks in your room crying?
You need to move on.
You need to find somebody that will love you for the person that you are.
You need to go out with friends.
You need to get out of that room.
People only treat us the way we let them treat us ;)
And I'm not buying the ages.
You both are way too immature in order to be of those ages.
2007-07-10 02:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It turns out as even though he feels burdened approximately you proper now. Let him take a while to style his possess emotions out. You already realize your possess; and I are aware of it perhaps sort of tough to steer clear of him for a whilst, however it is the high-quality factor to do. When you men are aside from each and every different, he'll become aware of matters, and he'll both become aware of he loves you, or anything else. Listen to the songs "The Getaway" and "Stranger" via Hilary Duff. They strike a cord in me of your main issue just a little! Sometimes guys could make us do the craziest matters, and feature us run again to them even after they have got performed the meanest matters to us. He ought to have a few well in him someplace, and probably in a facet of his middle he real loves you.
2016-09-05 22:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he has mental issues and is immature. You need to move on, he's a loser.
2007-07-10 03:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by true_heart_true_love_true_friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over that damn bastered and move on
2007-07-10 03:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by bandtime35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋