I saw my best girl friend...?

Question

for the first time in over 3 months.. we had gone to different schools... so it was hard to see her... (i love her like i've never loved any1 else... but we both agreed with eachother not to be anything more bcs of our friendship).. but anyways today was the first day of driving school... and she is taking it with me... so... well... today, the meaning beautiful in my world has been redefined... if i loved her before... man i cherish her right now... in my world she stands out as a person of light and life and love... she has changed so much since i saw her last... including her body... it's not lust trust me... man i love her like i've never loved anyone... but now i don't know what to do... we've already been through a tough ordeal with me telling her that i liked her... i just don't know what to do... i feel like i need to have a chance wih her somday... when we were talking... she usually doesn't make eye contact... but man.. there was one point in the conversation when she looked

right into my eyes and i looked right into hers... and what i saw in her eyes just made me love her.. she sat there looking into them for 5 seconds that seemed to mean an eternity... her pupils got so big that i could see her world inside her eyes as she looked at me.. that moment was wonderful... but idk what to do now! I mean, im ganna see her again tomorrow and at least 8 more times this summer.. plus we are going to the same school next fall... what should i do please?!? I am in love with her... (and i am one of the most mature guys you will find.. trust me.. when i say her body changed.. i mean that out of respect.. not pervertedness...) thank you everyone..

Answer 1

You just asked this 2 hours ago, then an hour ago, then again 45 minutes ago. You received 35 answers so far.

Why don't you try giving people some time to answer, until you get 40 or so, if 35 is not enough, and not get reported?

Answer 2

Question, have you every seen Family Matters, where Steve chased Laura all through the show and nothing happened, until he found another girlfriend (Myra), its the same set up. I don't know why but women liked to be liked, but we love when a man plays a little, and pretend he is not as interested anymore. We love the attention of being crushed upon, but we know we will never let you be in a relationship with us because we believe the romance will end. But as soon as you stop paying her so much attention, then you will get the attention from her. If she is used to hearing you everyday, for some reason she might miss you if she dont see are hear you. Good Luck on Love. You sound sincer, and I hope this girl realize that you are a rare dime.

Answer 3

Dude, the best relationships must have a base of friendship. You to already have that base. With your ability to throw the words out there you should talk to her. If she is not making eye contact gently lift her face to make eye contact. Hold that contact for a few seconds and bask the feeling then lea in and KISS DE GIRL! Then back off and let her process. I think she will return the kiss when you kiss her. Move slow and know that you 2 will be friends forever - no matter how the romance works out.

Answer 4

If you already explained to her how you feel and she was not interested, then I hate to say it but the best thing you can do right now is wait. Let her know that she's worth waiting for, so that she knows you haven't lost interest, but don't try to force a relationship- if she isn't interested or ready, then you will just lose your friendship, which I think would be worse right? Anyway, if you are as mature as you say you are, then you know that waiting for the right time (if that comes) will make being with her all the sweeter.

Answer 5

Wow, well if she really means that much to you, you should ask her over for a study night. You 2 can talk and do homework and maybe she'll stay the night with you. The next day start to make small talk then ask her out to coffee or out to eat. Buy her gifts and flowers on her birthdays and holidays. You should never give up on love, because I really do think if you follow my advice, you'll win her over. Best of luck.

Answer 6

Don romantico, anyway, well, since you made a promise about never taking your relationship to the next level...I think you have to keep that, that's a promise, it shouldn't be broken....don't blame anyone if it is broke, cause' this is the most common situation where promises are made to be broken, if you really love her, you can wait, patience is the key here, you're very lucky that you easily talk to each other.....

I myself have to do something noticeable just for her to talk to me.....anyway, goodluck on that....looks like you two might have a future....not a future future....maybe a possible relationship, perhaps????

Answer 7

aww how adorable!!!

well, youre in love with her. you HAVE to tell her. ask her to catch a dinner with you as "friends".. who knows, you could catch up so much that you guys realise how much you have REALY missed eachother.. and myabe it could lead onto something more...

just make sure that eventaully you tell her exactly how you feel. man ANY girl would love to hear all of that... but dont scare her and tell her all of this straight away. nooo way! wait a long while, catch up HEAPS... call occassionally, etc.

just remember that one day you must tell her how you feel.. you never know what it could lead to.. the last thing you want is for you to be a miserable married 50-year-old sitting down thinking how your life would be like right now if you told that beautiful girl back in the day how you really felt.

Answer 8

hi
I know how you feel---one moment they're your friend and the next you're like "wow, where'd you come from"? do you know what I mean? Maybe she has the same feelings for you, you just try and give her some signs, she may feel the same way but since you guys made a pact about staying friends, maybe she still thinks you feel that way, just try and talk to her

hope I helped
♥

Answer 9

If shes a true Friend you cant ask her out, tell her you love, without ruining your friendship. But it will make everything awkward if she says no... But it ma be possible she likes you but is hiding it. Anything is possible. You should at least ask her out. Best of luck man.

Answer 10

does she know you like her??? if she does than you should ask her out, and if she doesnt know you like her you could either tell her (maybe she'll like you to, or maybe that would risk your friendship) or you could just not tell her anything and just wait to see if maybe she feels the same way about you or she doesnt.

sorry my advice on this topic isnt that great, but i really hope she likes you too and you guys can go out