Family & Relationships - 10 July 2007

I do not trust my wife as she has lied to me. I cannot t live with her neither I cannot live without her. wht shd I do ?
My negative point is I think from heart and I am stop temper. I am having mood swings. I really need help. I am not able to eat and has not sleep more than 3-4 hours on an average for last 6 weeks. I am alone please help me.

2007-07-10 04:45:12 · 7 answers · asked by ADAM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Look at the attention Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie receive. And now we have Tori Spelling and her new husband getting their own reality tv show! He left his wife two weeks after the arrival of a new adopted baby! Is it no wonder that over 50% of marriage fail these days? Sad situation!

2007-07-10 04:44:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son is getting married this coming February and I am clueless as to what to wear. I'm not rich, but I could start to save money now.
Please, serious, helpful answers only.
Thanks so much.

2007-07-10 04:42:35 · 20 answers · asked by Ophelia 4 in Weddings

my husband works 3rd shift so i have the kids {12, 7, twin 2yr.olds, and a 1yr.old}all day i wish he was able to help w/some morning routines so he gets up for a hour and helps then sleeps till3 or 4 then gets up and the kids want all his attention. so after we have dinner it's time for him to go to work at 7 he does get 2 days off, but he wants to hang out w/friends or hisself and play vid/gms. i would like to go out and have "adult"time but he doesn'treally like going to a bar, but i think it's funner to have dinner then go to karoeke or see a band and dance and let off steam. he doesn't have the kids all day so he don't feel as stressed like i do.i spend all day playing,watching nick jr.and reading them books.theyare always on my lap or near me even in the bathroom.don't get me wrongi love my kids, but i miss my hubby alone time. is it wrong to want a night out every once and while w/ him,cuz he tells me to go w/my friends and he stays home with the kids but i want him to come with

2007-07-10 04:40:10 · 12 answers · asked by amber l+5KIDS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so how curvy is too curvy...
I'm seventeen .
I'm about 5'6 to maybe 5'6 1/2
and I'm 124 pounds
usually 122 it depends it goes up and down
but yeah,
do you think thats too curvy
or would i look better to lose weight!
be honest with me!

thanks

2007-07-10 04:40:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf of 3months is at his sisters wedding in USA. Before he left we split up as I felt he wasnt as committed to our relationship. He agreed but said he still had issues about his fiance who he split up with last Christmas.

He has been away for 2 weeks and has not e mailed or rung me. I am thinking this is his way of distancing himself. What do you think. He will be home this week-end and I have really missed him like crazy. How should I be with him. I would rather salvage a friendship than lose him altogether.

2007-07-10 04:38:22 · 17 answers · asked by Suzi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK pretend you are my boyfriend.
-You and I have danced really closely at school dances and other times.
-You have hugged me in public so you arent too shy.
-I was the one who asked you out, so you are a little shy.
-You and I have been going out for 3 1/2 months.
-I don't know if you are ready to kiss or not.

What do you want me to do? Why won't you kiss me? How can I show you I am ready? Should I just kiss you first?

Thanks for the help!!

2007-07-10 04:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm exhausted! I have no idea how to remedy this problem. Is it just us that cant seem to get any sleep when sharing a bed or is this a common thing that happens? I'm about to drop. Any stories, words of wisdom. Thanks a lot :)

2007-07-10 04:33:41 · 21 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister is getting married and we are trying to have a bridal shower for her but there has been to much craziness going on we have not been able to send them until a week from the date should we still have it or push the date back help!

2007-07-10 04:33:36 · 14 answers · asked by stephanie c 1 in Weddings

We have been together a yr. We love eachother and are moving to a new apt. (we have lived together for 6 months). We are not easily mad about stupid things like "the toilet seat being left up" or my panties being left on his bed. But lately one thing annoys me so much!!
HE IS SOOO QUIET.
I love a good convo, about anything really. I will talk and talk and hope he will jump in, but he never does and then playfully teases me about talking so much. I am an actor and so I guess I am used to thinking a lot and sharing complex convos with other artists and thinkers of that nature. I want to be able to have a bf I can stay up till 3 am talking and never get bored. But he is not one to talk much! He is nice, caring, and very sweet and drop dead hot though. Is this enough to move on and leave him, or is it something I will get over? I just hate noticing when guys who are cute at work, flirt and talk to me, they are sooo interesting and talk about a wide range of topics.

2007-07-10 04:31:33 · 15 answers · asked by vada 4 in Singles & Dating

race, looks, assests, personality(intr, extr),age, etc.?

2007-07-10 04:30:37 · 7 answers · asked by jane 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do gays need to be married? Why do people who do not want to have children need to be married?Why do stars who have a busy schedules want to be bogged down with marriage? I'm puzzled.

2007-07-10 04:29:57 · 9 answers · asked by a2zgoblog 3 in Marriage & Divorce

"they are not two different things" idon,t want that anwer please

2007-07-10 04:26:24 · 24 answers · asked by rash0054 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...what would it be?

The "shy" guy-type...?
The "bad-boy" guy-type...?
The "funny" guy-type...?
Etc, etc...?

Please feel free to make-up your own " " guy-type.......

2007-07-10 04:22:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex-hubans molested my 13 year old cousin for a year before I found out and put him in jail. I am now divorcing him and I will not change my mind about it but what does God think about the situation. I read an artical the other day in a church paper that stated that you should try to work out marriage problems such as infedelity. But I belive that this is even worse than just cheating. Does He expectet us to forgive and forget such a thing and stay with the person, b/c I woulod not be able ton do that. What do you think and why.

2007-07-10 04:22:08 · 30 answers · asked by jessiejungle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a hard time with the fact that women are viewed as the ones who cook, clean and do all that kind of stuff. i have no problem cooking bc i love doing it, i just dont like to feel that i am EXPECTED to do it, and everyday. what are your takes on this? does this mean im not ready to get married?

2007-07-10 04:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

basically they both are uk residents and they wish to divorce they would prefer to go back to india to get divorced what would be the procedure they are both nri

if so would the decree absoulte be valid in the uk....

2007-07-10 04:17:15 · 3 answers · asked by Perfectionist 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a crazy situation but here goes. My boyfriends mother is going through an incredibly NASTY divorce. Last week, someone allegedly called social services on her for something with her two little girls (5 & 2). I don't know many of the details with it, but she thinks it was me. This was Monday that I was accused by her. My BF thinks she's completely irrational about the whole situation but she will not even listen to him if he tries to reason with her. Wednesday, she called the police and got an order from them to keep me off the property and from calling the house. If I do either, I will be arrested. I assure you all, I DID NOTHING WRONG, I did nothing to instigate any of this. I guess my question for y'all is, what do I do? My Bf & I are planning to move out by the end of the summer, I'm just afraid what this rift btwn his mom and I will do to us...

2007-07-10 04:14:43 · 10 answers · asked by divarhd 2 in Family

I spent a beautiful July 4th with my boyfriend. Being with him was the greatest! I wanted to just check my emails, so i used his computer to do so. I got a little noisy and checked his search box. I found out that he is on a personal site devoted to fat women. I thought it was odd. I let a few days pass. I confronted him. He said, "oh it is nothing.." But if it is nothing why is he on the site? right? and i know that he is not there just to merely chat??? i am very hurt and upset by this! very truly honestly madly upset. I think i should give him back his 2 carat ring that he gave me. (it is pretty, but maybe marrying him wouldn't be the right thing?) does he have more secrets i don't know about? He says he loves me, and shows me that more than i can imagine. But this personal site thing erks me? Hey, all the yahoo answers out there, what do you think of this? Maybe i am not seeing something clearly? I honestly don't know what to think anymore. We have been through so much. I love him!

2007-07-10 04:14:26 · 22 answers · asked by it@ly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or am i just being stupid\?

2007-07-10 04:12:05 · 25 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Singles & Dating

Yes I like guys that are not my race, I told friends a cousin they back me up on it and I am dating a guy that is white but I want to hopefuly marry a guy that is not my race should I marry outside my race?

2007-07-10 04:12:03 · 57 answers · asked by suga mama 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I had an ex that cheated on me and started acting mean to me, so I dumped him. Not long after, we got into this huge argument & started insulting each other. I made a cheap jab about how he was still a virgin, & he responded with some story about having a 2-yr-old son. In reality the "son" he spoke of is really his girlfriend's nephew(I have a lot more facts/proof about this than he realizes). So he lied about having a kid that he doesn't have, to spite me. What do you think of this? By the way he's 19 yrs old.

2007-07-10 04:11:11 · 1 answers · asked by I Hate my haters 1 in Singles & Dating

So my soon to be sister in law is getting married in sept! I bought her all 8 piece place settings of china of her registry! I want to give her a personal gift as well but i dont know what to get her because we are not very close in fact i made her cry last week about how inconciterate she is of others financials! I guess this is why i want to give her a personal gift any ideas??

2007-07-10 04:09:48 · 12 answers · asked by ih8jocks1692 2 in Weddings

will she's sneeking around and talking to a "guy friend from work" alot or texting him on his phone while she's going to the bath-room or when my step-dad is at work. she invited my brother that a doctor at work has a cabin up in the woods and she invited my brother to go up with her and the doctor for a coenoing trip. and she does so many things thhat make me mad i need help on who i shouold tell or talk to.

2007-07-10 04:09:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, women usually have this crazy intuition. I just wanted to know if married women knew that they were going to marry a guy before hand. Is there some point where women say to themselves this is the guy im going to marry, and then that actually happens.

Or do women have that same feeling in all their relationships?

2007-07-10 04:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-10 04:07:16 · 4 answers · asked by Marry J 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of a year and a half told me about 6 months into our relationship that he would only continue our relationship if we has a threesome. I agreed reluctantly that I would do it down the road. Now that we have moved in together, I have discussed it again with him and told him I was not comfortable doing it. He said that it was ok but I still have doubts about trusting him. Should I be concerned that this will later become an issue..or that he is the cheating type? He has definitely changed for the better so I'm hopefully he was just being stupid in the beginning and now wants to be more mature and settle down. Just want some opinions as it is driving me crazy, thanks!

2007-07-10 04:07:02 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-10 04:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have let a few guys touch my breasts and they always want to go further but I never let them. For me I am very able to handle my urges. since I have so many other outlets for t hose kinds of feelings. I think guys need to touch and even put their mouth and face against breasts for intamacy. so is it ok to let someone you are dating to have that intamacy with you?

I would never have sexual intercourse or oral or manual stimulation with a guy without being married, but kissing and letting him touch my breasts seems to be good enough to him, and something to tide us over until marriage.

I wouldn't advise this for girls who can't control themselves though. I think breasts are a more inocent form of intamacy whereas sexual encounters bring you into a whole other world of issues and that only belongs in marriage.

So what do you other christians out their think about this?

Just curious.

2007-07-10 04:02:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well let just say this...........my mother is starting to get on my nerves.....she thinks just because ima single parent that i can't handle things by myself.......everything i do is wrong to her if i dress my daughter she will undress her and put something else.....i mean i love her but she making me feel like i can't take care of my little girl .....wat should i say to tell my mom that im not a little girl anymore and that i have a life of my own

2007-07-10 04:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by sexyn666 1 in Family