My ex lied about having a kid that isn't really is?

Question

I had an ex that cheated on me and started acting mean to me, so I dumped him. Not long after, we got into this huge argument & started insulting each other. I made a cheap jab about how he was still a virgin, & he responded with some story about having a 2-yr-old son. In reality the "son" he spoke of is really his girlfriend's nephew(I have a lot more facts/proof about this than he realizes). So he lied about having a kid that he doesn't have, to spite me. What do you think of this? By the way he's 19 yrs old.

To xbrutalxhonestyx: HELLO, DIDN'T YOU READ THE PART WHERE I SAID THAT I DUMPED HIM AFTER THE CHEATING??? I did NOT stay with that loser. I never even "loved" him, he was just someone I dated. The only reason I even met him is because he is the younger brother of a friend of mine(who has since hated me ever since I broke up with my ex; friend won't listen to my good reason for breaking him with him).

I understand that it was "stupid" of me to date someone so retarded, but didn't you get ANY of the part where I said that I dumped him? Our argument was POST BREAK-UP. He made fun of my big nose, so I made fun of his virginity, so he backlashed by claiming that he wasn't a virgin because he had a kid that doesn't exist.

Answer 1

I think you made a horriable pick for a boyfriend. I mean you got the "boy" part but next time also make sure you got the "friend" part to. No compassion with a relationship like that, not sure from your side. But with him lieing about cheating, then to think he can stand as your equal and jab you like that shows a pride survivors mentaility. Which is to say all he cares about is looking good to him, now if that means breaking your heart, screwing you over, or not giving a sh!t, well he'll do it. Of course he really isn't the problem, theres plenty of kiddos like that in the world, the real problem is YOU, taking this guy on in your heart. Don't you feel you deserve more? Do you really think love was met to be like this? You can't debate how much, to what extent, or weather he does or not, as far as love goes, but do you think that even if he does love you, that he even knows what to do with it? Realize if your a mammal you have a heart, you feel, but it takes a human brain to keep it from controlling us, or to treat it with the justice it deserves. Think of it as you two making a sand castle together (I know cute, but a good analogy) and that sand castle is the love you share. No don't you feel like evertime you try to build it up, he knocks it down? Is that the type of partner you need on the beach making casltes? Or do you think when you guys are actually clicking together, its because you make it that way? Learn from this, o and don't throw that age number up there, its immature, trust me his age comes out in his actions. Which is to say it doesn't matter how old he is, he isn't mature, and neither are you for loving him. Your only as good as the company you keep, so maybe think about that next time you give your heart up like this? Because in the end you pick up the tab for not loving yourself, and from looking at this, glad theres no kiddo... there is no kiddo right? please god no kiddos!