will she's sneeking around and talking to a "guy friend from work" alot or texting him on his phone while she's going to the bath-room or when my step-dad is at work. she invited my brother that a doctor at work has a cabin up in the woods and she invited my brother to go up with her and the doctor for a coenoing trip. and she does so many things thhat make me mad i need help on who i shouold tell or talk to.
2007-07-10 04:09:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
darling, you don't need help, your mother might though.
i can see you're scared and very concerned, but your mother's life and problems are adult matters, and there is nothing you can do, short of taking care of YOU and doing what is right for yourself.
i'm sure your step dad will figure it out eventually, if he hasn't already. sorry to hear your mom might be cheating, but that is her choice. it's NOT your fault, or your business.
everyone makes their own choices, and yes, some are not so great. we have to let others make their choices, regardless if they are good or bad... they will have to face the consequences.....
sadly, if your mom's marriage breaks up, it will affect you negatively, but just remember you didn't do anything wrong.
if you want to talk with someone, if there is an adult you trust and respect (a relative or neighbor) get it off your chest, and see what they think you could do.
to me, the most important thing is to take care of yourself, do the things you're supposed to do, be responsible and treat others as you'd like to be treated.
sending hugs.
2007-07-10 04:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know one thing dont stress your self over the decisions your mother makes. no disrespect but if your mom is cheating on your stepdad and if she is a real woman she would have confronted your stepdad about their relationship before moving on when she know she has a husband. but before you make a judgement make sure she is cheating because you never know what could be going on and if she is tell her shes wrong for that and how you feel but dont stress yourself out over your mom decisions
2007-07-10 11:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by nisha10mabry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mothers are people with feelings..needs and desires..shes obviously not happy bored and tired of her daily routine ..she probably on cloud nine right now...the thing is...95% percent of men cannot be trusted and they can swear black and blue they dont..but at my age ive seen quite enough...so its about time..the women had some fun too.lifes too short to live in a miserable relationship..good on her i say
2007-07-10 11:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by sheru 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just confront her about it when it's just you and her. None of us are going to be able to tell you if your mom is really cheating. She's the only one that knows. It does sound weird that she's doing that though.
2007-07-10 11:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I os not your business, let them work out their own issues and yo live and enjoy your life.
2007-07-10 11:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by JayJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mum and if she wont listen, talk to her close friend
or pastor.
2007-07-10 11:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Franked 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋