I just go into a relationship and I think that I am falling for him.he is so sweet and a real gentleman and I don't want to loose him.our relationship is incredible right now and I want to keep it that way.
2007-07-10 02:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by shymi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Three things:
1. Accept that NO relationship stays exactly the same as when it first began. People change. Feelings change. It is just a fact of life. If you try to maintain the same feeling and "spark" from when you first got together then you are probably setting up yourself for disappointment. That is not what love is about. That said, it doesn't mean that you will fall out of love! It means that your love will evolve and change. Expect it, and deal with it when necessary.
2. Think of all the nice things you do for one another early in your relationship, and keep doing them! Don't stop surprising your loved one, and make sure he doesn't stop surprising you. Buy each other cards and gifts at random moments. Surprise him in your sexiest outfit from time to time when he comes home. Take one another out for no reason. Say "I love you" every day like you're saying it for the first time. That said, it only works if BOTH of you keep it up.
3. Maintain your sex life. Again, BOTH partners have to buy into it, but it makes a difference in keeping the "spark" alive. Make time for one another. Make time for a quickie. Make time for a long, romantic night. Make time to try new things. If one or both of you are having problems in this area, then seek treatment. It makes a big difference, and you don't have to grow out of it or anything of the sort. The day the sex life starts to sag, though, is the day that your relationship begins to become tedious and dull. That doesn't mean you won't stay in love, but the "spark" will not be there.
2007-07-10 02:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if everything is going so well just make sure you don't do anything to confuse the spark between each other. I'm sure all good things eventually have a downfall but if your both working towards the relationship things should always go well
2007-07-10 02:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have unconditional love for each other the sparks will fly forever no matter what -if its not the fire making the sparks will go out and the sparks will stop - time will tell!
2007-07-10 02:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular, He does not sound very attracted to you anymore. often a guy could be chasing you, in spite of the undeniable fact that it form of feels as in the journey that your chasing him. i think of the final technique is war of words, purely refer to him and ask him questions like: the place is our relationship going? Do you nonetheless pick to be with me? this way he can a minimum of inform you what your doing incorrect (if any) and if hes lost pastime.
2016-10-01 07:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by prindle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and keep talking to him. Don't rush things and enjoy the time you have now getting to know each other.
2007-07-10 02:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by fionaghal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know him the best, we don't know him at all. Keep on doing what you're doing, it must be working!
2007-07-10 02:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of the Ladies Man...
Do it in the *utt
2007-07-10 02:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by wadacious 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
then continue to be your self don't pay any attention to these answer just do Wat u have done this far
2007-07-10 02:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sha2293 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋