Is it possible for a guy and a girl to build a relationship, if one lives a very fast-paced on-the-go life and the other is more laid back and lives a more simple and casual life?
2007-07-10 02:44:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tried it. Didn't work for me, but you never know. The fast-paced on-the-go girl I was interested in didn't seem to make me, whom she SAID she was really interested in, a top priority. She never had time to see me, and when she did, we had a time limit. Bad experience.
2007-07-10 02:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on what relationship you intend to have. If it is the LOVE relationship, then I don't see the problem. The reason I am saying so is based on the concept of love itself. Love is the acceptance of your partner as he or she is. Love does not look at the kind of life my partner is leading, it accepts the partner as he or she is. Love is a language that is understood by two people: the lover and the loved one. So, it is very possible for you to live with someone who is the direct opposite of you. This mainly because of the scientific cliche OPPOSITES ATTRACT. Also, two elements that are totally different usually depend on each other to be complete. Take for example day and night. These two must merge to make a complete day. Imagine what would happen if these two antagonistic ends did not co-relate, would we ever have a complete day?
However, if the relationship is just to be friends, then the better. this is because you have the chance to find out what it is like to be close to someone who is totally different from you.
Life is a risk........... take it.
2007-07-10 10:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by sircrunchie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time I've seen that work out is when kids are involved, and the simple-life person takes care of the kids. Even in that situation, there are problems. Some people can't stand to sit too long, and others won't enjoy constantly running. The difference could make it an unhappy relationship.
2007-07-10 09:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure as long as both can deal with the difference in how the other lives their life and they still make time for each other. Opposites attract.
2007-07-10 09:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of corse ! thats how me and my bf are like that ! Im very on the go i have 3 jobs and i like to just go out. while he has one job and is more laid back. But it works as long as yall spend time together everything will work out !
2007-07-10 09:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Koral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the song "Opposites Attract" by Paula Abdul...She seems to think so...But in a way...the "relationship"..in the end, is an accumalation of your time spent TOGETHER
2007-07-10 09:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Recital Vinyliste 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract in science
but in life they may not.
its hard to relate to someone whos life is so different from yours
2007-07-10 09:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible? Sure. Is it much harder to manage.. for sure! Over time one of you will grow tired of the other because it's not the lifestyle you want to lead.
2007-07-10 09:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not likely
2007-07-10 09:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract
2007-07-10 09:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by xtina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋