Do women really still enjoy making love even if they don't have the Big "O"? Trying to think about it from the male perspective... if we didn't, well, it wouldn't be nearly as enjoyable, so why do women say it doesn't matter if they do or not? Can somebody be honest with me? :-)
2007-07-10 01:39:47 · 19 answers · asked by Joe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it does matter, even though a lot of women still enjoy love making, without orgasm. Those women can probably orgasm thru masturbation, so their partners need a bit of coaching on technique. Each woman is different, and you should really ask your partner exactly how to make them orgasm.
2007-07-10 01:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 05:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a woman, but I think you answered your own question. You said that for men, it wouldn't be nearly as enjoyable implying that you would still have sex. I think women would feel the same way. There may be other reasons why they want to have sex. Could be to please their partner. Could be just to have that affection. I don't think sex is always about orgasms, although they do make it that much better.
2007-07-10 01:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tedo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us women need to have the big O . I can have the big o many time when having sex some guys just tell me by just looking at it am having the bis O its true I get really turn on fast its just me I loving having sex I always have.
2007-07-10 01:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amber R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes it matters ! If she's walking away not having an "o" then she's probley walking away disappointed and will not be eager to be disappointed again. If you find that your having a hard time with her having a "o" then my suggestion is make sure your getting her there before you have yours. It's not just about her having it that matters , it's about how she's left in thought ... you dont' wanna seem uncaring and that it's all about you. Find her buttons and push em , she will respect you more as her man and she'll be more anxious for the next time around . Hope this helps and Good Luck !
2007-07-10 01:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they don't really be into it and just want to hurry and get it over with ( ha-ha) or don't want to hurt the other person feelings, or maybe they have never had a real good one or they might just be young and inexperienced. It could be a different variety of things, but I tell you - I think it makes a whole lot of a difference.
2007-07-10 01:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not mind if "it" did not happen every time, but I surely would not want to go my whole life without it. It does not matter EVERY time, but surely it matters some of the time. That is my honesty. I cannot speak for every woman. If you are concerned about a current wife/girlfriend, I would try my best to speak open and honestly with her. Maybe she is not in touch with her own body enough. Maybe she is inhibited and has not learned how to relax enough. Maybe she is not getting the proper stimulation. Talk, talk, and talk some more! It needs to be figured out, for both of you.
2007-07-10 01:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by basbleu37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women have a hard time having an orgasm. put the added pressure of her partner making it a big deal and the poor girl is never going to relax enough to let it happen.
2007-07-10 01:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's safe to assume that men and women are different, when it comes to sexuality. Men are more physical, women are more emotional. Some may disagree, but think about it - how many men do you know who read romance novels? Or, women who are addicted to porn? Women fantasize about the romance, and men fantasize about the act.
As a woman, I need love, intimacy, trust and respect. At the end of the day, it is more important than an orgasm.
2007-07-10 02:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by Suzi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it doesn't matter. Although giving a woman oral sex and bringing her to climax makes sex so much more intense and enjoyable.
2007-07-10 01:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they do but it isn't as satisfying overall. just like for guys, i mean, it's not like the only good bit is when we "go". if anything, i'm pissed when i go cos i wanna last longer! (and no, i'm not a 1 minute man)
2007-07-10 01:45:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋