My bf has started asking me about my sex life with my ex fiance. He wanted to know everything from the worst thing he did to me and the sexiest and vice versa. Then he wanted me to show him what I did to my ex. WTF????For someone who told me he never wanted to hear me mention my ex's name again to this. What the hell is going on, why does he need to know this and then he asks me who I thought was better?
2007-07-10 01:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to know if you have any STD's
2007-07-10 01:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd steer the conversation away from things you did with your ex to things you'd like to do with your boyfriend. Remind him that the ex isn't there now, but he is. Don't indulge jealousy/insecurity. And answering the "who's better" question to a guy is like answering the "do I look fat to you" question to a girl. Give the flattering response and he'll think you're being insincere, give the other and he'll be mad at you. You can't win playing that game!
2007-07-10 01:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 07:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by colmenero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm? is he insecure? Then again, loads of guys get off hearing this stuff. Maybe it's not specifically your ex he wants to hear about, just the words or like a role playing sort of thing? Try making up sexy stories together about yourselves, could be hot? ;)
2007-07-10 01:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by jae k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called espionage and he wants to know where the last guy laid all the landmines. Also he wants to knwo why you are his gf now instead of his, since he knows you are a woman and if you don't like the way he boogies, then you will boogie out of there and leave him a mess liek your Ex. Savy?
2007-07-10 01:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a very insecure person. Also, one who is very indecisive. He's asking these questions because he's not sure of his sexual prowess. Personally, he scares me and if I were you, I'd start looking around for someone a bit more self-secure and trustworthy.
2007-07-10 01:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you ask this question to your bf? i would ask him & see what he comes up with - maybe he s just scared you prefer your ex sexually, so he asks to try & do things your ex used to do with you.. maybe you need to show him you like him MORE than you show him at the moment. good luck!
2007-07-10 01:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by chasey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to make sure that he doesn't do the same
mistakes, and he wants to be better than your ex.
2007-07-10 01:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a sign when a guy talks about sex-and compares. Life can be difficult, I feel sad and aww for what u r going through.
this is what helped me most of all=
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the way to honor is in Marriage-Just like with Jesus, if you truely love someone you commit to them. Marriage is to put it into writing-lots of guys will say they love someone and live in with them yet as someone said to me =
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I agree with "Makemeaspark" "The heart is decietful." Jeremiah, but it is not just the hurting ones that fall for believing a guy when he says he loves you. Sometimes you believe because you believe (in innocence) that truth and lies are obvious. And in your arrogance (or youth) you think you can tell the difference. You trust and are deceived, and there are those who are loyal even after the deception is revealed, out of duty, out of fear, out of a misguided loyalty...wow it still hurts. Sometimes they stay because they feel stupid and worthless and have no where else to turn. They feel like they deserve the punishment of being unloved, because they were untrue to their own moral compass, and unfaithfull to God. So they stay untill they are discarded. 3 Votes 43%
this helped me as raised a Jew to see the deaper truths to believe too=Christian means a follower of the Messiah-who came as a Jew- the believer in Jesus-has power over the mind to control their thoughts, thus when Jesus says to forgive and let Me handle it, or about lust is adultry against God, or hate is murder in the heart, we have the calling to cast down all imaginations that exault themselves against God which brings true peace and joy to our heart in all situations (Philippians 4:4-20).
My Jewish people believe in the comming of a Messiah, and his fulfillment is in Jesus. The laws of Judaism were given specifically to the Jewish people to be kept and to guide them to the promised Messiah.
Isaiah 9:6 the child to be the Son given, the mighty God and the prince of peace..
Isaiah 52:13-53:12 To be the exalted one. To first be marred more than any man, and to lay down his life to make atonement for our sins.
The way I came to know him is by believing what he spoke to us from heaven (Revelation1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to repent of your sins (even one lie) quickly. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock If you hear my word and open the door, I will come in and be your friend."
so I prayed "Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
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Wow that was a great answer :).
Praying for you, David and I am sorry for what u are going through.
2007-07-10 01:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He is beating off to this info when you're not around.
2007-07-10 01:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by sticks 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋