Please help I think he dont love me anymore!!?
I been with my boyfriend for 3 years on our second child, we have are ups and downs and well im tired of our downs, i want to just be happy with him, so ill be nice with him and try to rekindle withhim, but no matter what i do its not good enough, he will still find a way to tell me awful words what can i do to save this relationship, what can i do to have him love me once again???
2007-07-10 01:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by flaca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You keep on popping babies out of wedlock and expect love and respect from an uncommited man?
Sorry to tell you but if he did not commit with you in the first place before you two had two children, it's not going to get any better now. No matter how many babies you wanna keep on bringing to the world in the hopes that he will "see the light". It's not going to happen.
Wake up and smell the coffee lady. He's been over you a long time ago and he is resenting you because you are "on his way" and he has no way out.
Have some self respect.
Good luck
2007-07-10 02:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a new boyfriend honestly! If its your second child why has he not married you - does he not want commitment. If he doesnt love you enough it will show - hasn't it already? He should love you now as much as the day he first told you he loved you - if not why are you two together, theres someone out there who can give you a fairytale ending go find em - that might be difficult now you have two kids though, were you trying to prove a point? I could answer this question alot better if you told me how old you are. In a nutshell if your nearer 20 stick with what I have said if your nearer 40 stick with your man!
2007-07-10 02:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to communicate in any relationship.....so ask you may be worry for no reason at all he just might be overwhelmed with things around him now with two kids and everything. Take time and talk, don't point the finger just tell I think we should....I would like for us to...... you know things like that so he doesn't feel you are coming down on him and that he is always the blame. Take maintenance on your relationship every once and awhile even in the happy times it give you an opportunity to become creative and try new things to make it work. good luck.
2007-07-10 01:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by exoticflava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing i have learned is you cant force or bribe a man to love you. Once he falls out, there is a very slim chance that he will fall back in again. Keep trying, but dont do anything that you are going to regret like change everything about who you are. Try talking to him and see what is going on in his mind. Communication is the key, and explain to him that it is destroying your self confidence that he puts you down so often with words.
Good luck
2007-07-10 01:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you might try therapy either just for you...or you might ask him to join you in the therapy as well..but, I think that maybe what you should do, is go to a counselor to get this help, because you might not be able to fix this situation..He may have maturity problems..and or just plain meaness in his heart....and he also sounds like he might be trying to run awat from his responsibilities..but, I would talk to a counselor..to tell them the WHOLE story, from beginning to end...so as to get the help you deserve! YOu go alone!
good luck!
2007-07-10 02:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anne99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Flaca. Well to me it is bad for you to have a boyfriend whom is always awful with words and when this happen it is better for him to sit and talk to you instead of him fighting, although you know deep in his heart he still loves you then it is better for to talk to him and maybe from there he could explain about it and both of you'll guys can come up to a solution and from there it will be good, although he start to throw bad words towards you and in my point of view it is better for you to just be patients towards it and not fighting about it so it is better for you to sit and talk about it. Try this and hope it might help you.......................
ALL THE BEST....................
2007-07-10 11:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not trying it's not gonna work, bcuz no matter what you do - it takes 2 to make it work. Maybe sit him down and let him know how you feel and see where it goes from there.
2007-07-10 01:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's got you over a barrell. Why should he change when he's got you wanting him so bad?
2007-07-10 01:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why and communicate
2007-07-10 01:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by poorgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋