OMG!! I can't believe this HAHAHAHAAAAA I just had a look on husbands laptop I was there for other reasons BUT discovered that he HAS 10 PARIS HILTON PORN VIDS!!!! most of the VIDS ITS OF HER WALKING AROUND NAKED OR HE BF TOUCHING HER ALL OVER ETC. he's got to be JOKING come on!!!!!!!!!! NOT PARIS HILTON LOL im pissed off of course I NEVER knew he watches S**T like that!! he's at work now but he comes back I want to ask him about it. What would you do honestly?? I thought he was an ANGEL! but turns out im so WRONG! HAHAHAAA
2007-07-10 01:34:05 · 20 answers · asked by Tina 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh people I m NOT going to smash things in hes head lol I'm not that crazy BUT the ONLY thing that botheres me here is that HE LIED to me when I asked if he had dirty vids hidden and thats ONE thing in life that I CAN"T ACCEPT its LIES! he can go ahead and watch hes porn whatever hes a man and he has hes fantacys etc I ACCEPT that but Im just UPSET that he LIED thats all :( I thout I knew all about him! we will work it out and I will forgive him.
2007-07-10 01:57:31 · update #1
Ha funny thing, my husband did the same thing to me. I was looking for a site I went to a few days ago in the history and came across girls dancing naked or with like a shirt on. (from youtube) Plus Paris Hilton also! I got so pi***d at him. He said it was cause I was 9 m pregnant and he could not do anything with me. So i'm like oh so you look at that instead? I can now never trust him when it comes to the computer or even talking to other girls! Then he said he would never look at that! What a liar! MEN
2007-07-11 08:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by september_night_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the Internet there are always links to Paris Hilton doing something indecent. Your husband probably followed them out of curiosity.
It isn't exactly infidelity any more than looking at Victoria's Secret advertisements or Playboy magazine. In my mind pornography is anything which debases people and Paris Hilton certainly isn't shy about showing her body and looking doesn't debase anyone.
My attitude is probably wrong but naked bodies have been around for a long time, any beach in Europe is full of them. Both men and women will look out of curiosity. If he were spending significant amounts of time and money collecting material or if he were actively engaged in extra-marital sex it would be a different thing but free downloads from the Internet and looking at naked women does not strike me as serious.
2007-07-10 08:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you found something that most men have PORN....and honestly I think it's okay. If it was something that was sick and twisted then I would def have an issue with it but in my opinion men have to have something to dream and think about in good and bad times....As long as he isn't on there watching 24/7 and missing time with you and the family I wouldn't worry....He's a man...and men will be men....My hubby has some also and it's okay with me....I sometimes watch it with him and he's cool with that....I think you should let him know you found it and then ask him whatever your questions are and then leave it at that.....Paris in some guys eyes is hott....she really skinny to me....but I'm not a guy so....don't trip discuss it with him and then let it go.....
2007-07-10 08:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by danxtsupamodel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man is an angel and shall never be.Don't Jump on him but be calm and tactful.What is more important to you?To score over him and risk your relationship or overlook a minor slip and work to strengthen your relation.Take it from me that 9 out of 10 men would like to watch Porn,given a free hand.Now it is for you to act like a common wife or as a wise person.
2007-07-10 08:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on! Paris Hilton?... with all the quality porn out there why would anyone want to watch her?
Don't be too hard on him. Tell him that you have made better porn.
That will fix him.
2007-07-10 08:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't be pissed about the porn its very common and natural for people to enjoy visual stimulation...what would worry me is that its paris hilton....she looks like a young boy in drag
2007-07-10 08:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really normal for men to fantasize, look at dirty magazines, or even some watch videos of someone they might find attractive in the celebritity world. In fact, I think its healthy for them and your relationship. Women do it all the time! Does'nt mean we want to leave our husbands, just means we like to try new things without actually leaving home. I think you have nothing to worry about, but if it bothers you that much, dont let it fester inside.
Honestly now, you thought he was an angel? Well, then maybe his new bad boy persona will gives you something to fantisize about.
2007-07-10 08:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Keira27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is looking at Paris Hilton at least you don't have to worry about him getting addicted to porn. It should have the opposite effect on him!
2007-07-10 09:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes home, be dressed up like Paris Hilton!! Tell his since he can't get enough of her, you thought he might like to see what it feels to be with her!! I'd love to be a fly on the wall!!!!
2007-07-10 08:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, but at the same time cut him a little slack, he's a guy and he likes porn. Most guys do. If this is a work laptap then you could use that as a reason to be upset with him.
2007-07-10 08:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by betmexxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋