2007-07-10 01:26:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well how kinky are you?
2007-07-10 01:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not sleazy, he's probably just curios. I know when I was young I was curious too, but then so was my girlfriend, she wanted to watch me pee also, even wanted to hold it one time. Now if you do it once and he starts wanting to watch all the time he may have a fetish, I got a buddy like that.
2007-07-10 08:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well does he mean 'watch you pee' WHEN you have to pee, meaning feel comfortable about leaving the bathroom door opened when he's over/your at his place...OR does he deliberately wish to watch you urinate for sexual gratification? Decide how you feel about it. I once knew a guy who wanted to watch me pee. I would face him while speaking, and slowly back away from him towards the bathroom so that I could run in and lock the door to pee. I could never get into it. However, that was in my 20's and this would no longer bother me. Men are strange animals; I gather that women could never understand most of what excites them unless/until we are able to benefit from testosterone.
Only go with what you are comfortable with. If you submit against your will/higher nature and allow him to freely observe your flowing stream, no doubt he will sense your discomfort and it will not be pleasing for him either. Have fun and ask him what he likes about it, then be honest about how you feel and how far you are willing to go. You may consider this a learning experience...what else is he into? You may learn a lot, but most about yourself and your present boundaries and limitations. This is what relationships are for: mirrors to ourselves. Perhaps you have some "kinky" (for lack of a better word) desires you are afraid to explore. Best of luck to you both, and be safe at all times. Urine is not really for hands or mouths.
2007-07-10 08:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Notallowedtobeurdownasbch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about sleazy, but kinky, yeah. Its a fetish for some folks. Google "Water sports" and you'll see what I mean. Just watching someone pee is very innocent compared to what some folks get into.
2007-07-10 08:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys? Tell him - "All this would be an everyday affair once we get married". Don't get him into such habits or else you will find yourself having threesome in sometime. Only and Only if you think there is nothing wrong in doing and thinking in such a manner, DO go ahead!!! On the other hand, I give 10/10 to your guy who actually had the decency to tell you what his heart wants!!! Good Luck!
2007-07-10 08:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has never been something that terribly excites me but it wouldn't make me sick either.
It is good that you can talk about your fantasies and not become too judgemental about them.
Really, what ever the two of you find interesting and can enjoy together is good. Why not try it? It may end up a non-event for both of you or it may be the start of a whole adventure. I would bet more on the non-event but unless you try you will never know.
2007-07-10 09:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between a married couple, no. But if you're dating and that's what you both agree on, then I think you're into fornication also. Now fornication isn't bad in itself if it wasn't for AIDS, unless you both are checked out thoroughly without either of you getting angry by questioning each other on this. Also, if you do decide to get married to someone else later, you'll have flashbacks to all the people you had intercourse or sexual experiences with. This could interfere with what you have with your married partner. But you do your own thing, knowing the consequences.
2007-07-10 08:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by rorambo7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how well you know this guy deep down. What are your boundaries. Are they in check with your rules of life and dignity. This kind of thing will turn into a common thing eventually and will just be a part of the mechanics of living. How many guys do you want to do this for?
2007-07-10 08:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by samedi48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL NOT UNLESS HE PEES ON YOU.......and even then thats not sleazy thats a freak and men love freaks.
2007-07-10 08:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by $martA$$.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your feeling....if you are dating this guy and you aren't comfortable then you should tell him and if you are then you should let him know but if that's someone that you trust and you are going to be with....one day or another you are going to see him and he will see you....now if he gets crazy and wants to see it all then I would def have some issues but right now I wouldnt let it bother me...
2007-07-10 09:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by danxtsupamodel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems there are some guys who are excited by the sight of a woman sitting on the toilet - whatever she is doing
2007-07-10 08:30:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋