My BIL, back at Christmas, made a sexual comment to me. I was leaving the inlaws house because my back was hurting, and I wanted to lie down and rest in my OWN bed. So as I was exiting, huby was upset and I told him..in private or so I thought...that if he wanted to have sex later, I needed to rest. BIL says, "I'm glad someone is doing it, my wife thinks it is only for procreation." Then he leans over & asks, "How many times do you?" I was like,"WHAT?"
Well, hubby & I was in bed having a little fun tonight ..when he calls & says, "I guess all that F*****G at Christmas paid off, but I am still not getting any. BTW, are you and hubby still..you know."
I guess I got mad, & told him "Yeah, like 10- 50 times a month...like it is any of your damned business!"
Yes, I am 28 weeks pregnant and he says." Can I have some T & A ?"
And I hung up...did I do the right thing? I have to face him
over the next 2 weeks!
Help me!
2007-07-10 14:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
MNWolf,Oh my goodness you definetly did the right thing ! Bil was way out of line. Tell your hubby hon.Husbands are to protect their wives from stuff like that !
2007-07-11 03:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would refuse to go to any place where he's at until my hubby talked to him very seriously. If he says anything after that, never go to the same place and if your in-laws ask, tell them the truth. This is verbal abuse and how sick can this guy get saying this to you! YOU ARE HIS BROTHER'S WIFE FOR PETE'S SAKE. HE HAS NO RESPECT FOR EITHER OF YOU OR YOUR MARRIAGE. Very wrong indeed. You did the right thing and next time he calls, tell him your hubby isn't home and you'll have him call back and then hang up again. That is unless you have caller ID. He can leave a message!
2007-07-10 22:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let hubby know that he needs to put that man in his place. He has no business talking to you like that.
2007-07-10 21:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Karen K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should be the one handling this. Don't hang out where he has access to speaking to you. I suggest you let the other in-laws know how uncomfortable it is making you if they question why. If your husband doesn't deal with it, he is not taking care of what is his. You will need some serious counseling sessions if your marriage is going to work.
2007-07-10 22:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jane M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what does your husband say he think its a joke to if so tell hubby that its not funny and if you haven't told him you should he may solve the problem and no more worries
2007-07-10 21:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by been there and know now 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick his rotten ***.
2007-07-11 10:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by devasish s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋