Family & Relationships - 7 July 2007

if a girl has a nice booty or not?

2007-07-07 19:06:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I have been reading a lot of the answers on here pertaining to different sex acts in the bedroom and how it is veiwed by people. Not to go into graphic details, but why is it that some women find certain acts as "disrespectful" or one man said if she does [that] than "she is not marriage material." Another woman said that only wh(O)res give BJ. And if her husband ever gave her a "pearl necklace" she'd leave him because he obviously didn't respect her. My husband and I have a very intense "bedroom experience" always mixing it up and constantly trying new things, products, toys, lingerie. I have never felt anything that we do together has been disrespectful to one another. So what is the problem? Why do some people harbor so many inhibitions? Or Am I just to loose and unreserved with my own sexuality?

2007-07-07 19:05:58 · 9 answers · asked by Uhg....... 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm alone because my almost 30 year old husband is at my 23 year old neighbors drinking it up and having a good time. We were supposed to have a 'date night' tonight and he left me at home with a friend to go watch the UFC match and the babysitter called to have the kids picked up because her husband wanted to watch the fight too. Now it is 2 am and I am still alone. Sounds like great fun huh?

2007-07-07 18:58:07 · 18 answers · asked by jhardinmom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK its Saturday I'm drinking just broke up with girlfriend and I'm on answers somethings wrong

2007-07-07 18:57:43 · 6 answers · asked by triminman 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19, and I've been engaged for over six months. Before I met my fiance, my parents wanted me to live at home until I finish college. Then when I got engaged, they wanted me to stay at home until I got married.

Well, I've been living with my fiance for a month. We had a family barbeque to introduce my family to his family. My fiance's step grandma is outgoing and jokingly said to him, "You're not getting married for a year...Can you go an entire year without sex?"

My mom knows that I'm not a virgin. And she probably assumes that my fiance and I are having sex. But she wasn't a virgin when she got married either.

Well, my mom said, "I don't know why they bother getting married" (I was not in the room). My fiance's parents were in shock and just looked at each other. (His mom told me about it later.)

My fiance thinks that she said more than that, like something along the lines of 'they live together, why bother getting married?' Why would anyone have that point of view?

2007-07-07 18:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok...two times this week this has happened. first let me explain why i started crying this time. my ex and i were talking and he told me that he might start going out with another girl (tomorrow will be one week that we broke up) and he asked my opinion on it. well i honestly told him that it didn't bother me that he moved on..just that he had told me some stuff and is taking it back.
steps:
1. i start to cry and shake
2. i start to hysterically cry...and can't breathe..so i take some short breaths and it doesn't help.
3. i get really dizzy and try to stand up and walk it off...but usually end up sitting back down or falling the floor.
4. my heart starts racing and ends up hurting.
5. then after about 5 minutes i drink some water and it goes away...then for a while after that i continue to take long, slow breaths.

what does it mean? i mean i still love him more than anything..and idc if he dates other people(i think)...so please help!

2007-07-07 18:50:37 · 14 answers · asked by sallyanne 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been in love with this girl, who has been married when she was 20, but that marriage was not successful. i met her 2 years bak and ever since we have been in love.but trouble is we still could not work out the divorce as we lost her father to cancer last december, we spent all what we earned and life was hard and to add to all this my family came to know that she was married once and that the divorce is still not done.i hav been away from her working abroad for a year now and i am a single son to a widow.i lost my father at the age of 3 and my family s very protective about my mum and her needs.i am stuck in life now coz i work for my uncle and even my salary is controlled by the words of my mum.my mum works elsewhere and it is a one hour flight from where i am.when i approach her to talk about this issue, she avoids me and jus says "leave it in god's hands".i do not hav freedom anymore and i am made to work 13 hours a day since i work for my uncle.

2007-07-07 18:50:18 · 12 answers · asked by tonal syndrome 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 4-yr old son in a 10-yr old marriage and recently found out that my wife has been married to another man during our marriage? We have been separated for 1 year now and no chance for reconciliation. What would you do? How is this matter viewed in the legal system? What are my legal options? (of course, I will hire an attorney but want to be prepared when I talk to him/her).

This is so bizarre and can't believe this is happening to me. Thanks.

2007-07-07 18:47:30 · 15 answers · asked by SRH 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are fighting and they will not talk to each other what should i do

2007-07-07 18:46:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

can i be like..
can i be your girlfriend?
would you be my boyfriend?
wanna go out?

which is hardest to say no to.

2007-07-07 18:43:59 · 18 answers · asked by lo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 18:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Little lies that wouldn't normally bother you if in singles, but they're bulked up and over an extended period of time. Your partner seems to be having a chronic liar phase. You've established for sure that he/she is not cheating, but would the lies still bother you?

2007-07-07 18:37:27 · 12 answers · asked by Elphaba 3 in Singles & Dating

I found out that my friend cheated on her BF, who I'm also somewhat friends with, with one of HIS friends. This is after a whole evening of flirting with another guy to the point he asked me to save him several times, and he had to leave to bar so fast to get away from her, he left his debit card behind. She's also well known at work as a big flirt, and lies that she's got something going on with every guy there. She doesn't care how it affects the other person. She even told people that one guy attacked her in her car, when all he did was call her bluff after she spent the whole evening hinting around that she would show him her breasts. She pulled her shirt up before he even finished the sentence.

2007-07-07 18:34:14 · 9 answers · asked by summerlandcollies 2 in Friends

i'm getting married soon and will most likely be changing my name shortly after the wedding. i'm currently out of checks and need to reorder. will my new checks be void if i change my name after i get married? or would i still be able to use them? thanks!

2007-07-07 18:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by yukifrog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-07 18:30:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is no joke. I'm stuck. I'm scared.. one time me and hub were alone and he said if I ever leave him he'd get a hit man instead of a divorce b/c it's cheaper. We don't get along at all. He's psycho, but I'm scared. I'm stuck. It's like those stories you hear in the news. He hit me before while I was pregnant. I told his mom and his mom said I deserved it. I don't know who deserves that. I never left b/c of what he said. My family all lives in the same town as him and he's so irresponsible that I wouldn't want him to have joint custody of our child. What should I do.. seriously...

2007-07-07 18:25:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it ok to have sex with someone else if your relationship hasn't reached the "I love you" stage? At what point in a relationship is it wrong to see someone else?

2007-07-07 18:21:34 · 18 answers · asked by Lotte T 3 in Singles & Dating

hello,
we received a letter today stating that my husband of 3 years had a daughter with the author of the letter. She doesn't know for sure if my husband is the father; she presumed it was another guy, who was paying child support and helping her for 17 years. He did a DNA test and found out he is not the father. this woman thinks my husband could be the father ( they had a brief affair, pretty much a one night stand 17 years ago). My husband is willing to take the DNA test. I am so TORN and hurt, and confused. I feel cheated although I only met him 3 years ago, and God knows I had no way of knowing I will marry him 17 years ago. we didn't even live in the same country. Anyway....I am just trying to cope. I feel like I had a great and happy life with him, and all of a sudden it is being changed for worse. Is there any mature and Christian way to deal with these emotions? I am just hurt and sad...

2007-07-07 18:21:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I separated from my wife in January. I have custody of the kids. She gets them every other weekend. She has 3 warrants for her arrest, got caught selling weed and is not able to hold a job or a home. This is her weekend to have the kids. She did not show up until tonight 7-7-07 at 1030pm to pick up the kids. Here is the hard part. She only picked up my daughter and told my son she will come get him tomorrow. She has to have them back to me for 5pm. My son is so upset. He went into his room after the door closed. He got his stuffed animal he has had for a long time. he calls it carrot. It a small bunny. He wraps Carrot up in a blanket like you would an infant. He is sitting in his bed balling his little eyes out. All i could do was hold him. I reassured him I will always be there for him. I know I should not have let my daughter go with out him as well, but it is her weekend and She could call the police and tell them I am not letting her get the kids. Then I am the bad guy.

2007-07-07 18:16:18 · 27 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Family

i want to get roses delivered to my gf on her bday. and would like to include a cd with a song. what song do you think i should pick? : )

2007-07-07 18:14:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My last ex says she wants to be friends and still talk, she doesn't understand why I'm not being nice to her anymore, why would I want to be friends with someone who dumped me?

2007-07-07 18:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 18:14:02 · 4 answers · asked by sandy 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl and i had been talking for about a month. with a couple dates she seemed really interested and even told me her kid comes first then me. Even though i told her I should be third and she should be second. We talked about 3 or 4 times a week but recently her babys daddy lied to the court and got her kid put in his custody. Ive tried to call since then but no answer and no call back. Im normally a two call guy. Call twice with no answer no reply in two weeks and I just forget about them but I cant get her off my mind what should i do? Out of all the girls Ive ever met this one is the one putting me though hell knowing i cant do a thing or can I do something and not seeing it? sorry bout the rant just have to figure it out

2007-07-07 18:10:13 · 10 answers · asked by johnboy 2 in Singles & Dating

She has no respect for me. She acts like nothing is my business. I can't ask her if she is going to work today. She responses "Why are you in my business". I don't like her very much. She's back for the summer. She goes to college out of state. While there she didn't have to answer to anyone. Now she doesn't think she has to answer to me. She has forgotten all the common courtesies of sharing a home with someone else. My brother is in the hospital in critical condition, He's been in a coma for a week. She doesn't seem to care. She spent last week at a girlfriend's apartment with her boyfriend who was in town. Every day she called me and said she would be home tomorrow. That literally went on for a week. I finally yelled at her and told her I didn't want to her that anymore. Responsible adults do what they say or call and say their plan has changed. I hung up on her, I subsequently apologized for hanging up.

2007-07-07 18:01:12 · 15 answers · asked by WAW 1 in Family

we've been on two dates and it was great, i couldn't stop laughing, we had such a great time and i really like this guy. but he hasn't grabbed my hand or kissed me or shown any signs of affection except when we stare directly into each others eyes i can tell he really cares for me. and i know for a fact he likes me, (cause im friends with his best friend who tells me) but he doesn't think i like him. he has tried to tell me he likes me but he just gets so nervous. but we get along great, but im starting to feel like im dating a hot best friend since he is showing no affection or even one sign of flirting. should i make the move or give up. cause my mind is starting to think of him as a best friend. what do i do? nothing?

2007-07-07 17:59:46 · 15 answers · asked by <3 strawberry smoothies<3 2 in Singles & Dating

like any adult..

2007-07-07 17:58:30 · 6 answers · asked by Doodle Bug 2 in Family

Whenever I go to a family event some of the older people in my family comment on my appearence like they are looking at a car or something.

Like when my Aunt saw me she started telling my mom how I look like her cousin when she was younger because I have a "round face" and I'm "still pigeon toed". And I was standing right there! Why do old people do this? It happens to me all the time...

2007-07-07 17:57:13 · 8 answers · asked by Eva L 2 in Family

is coming over to take a nap with me because he knows i like them and hes laid back. we dated a couple of times and recently we had a serious talk. i talk to him non stop.were probably going to hook up again. he said he just wanted to sleep. should i trust him i'm not going to have sex with him but do you think he will try to have sex? please help.

2007-07-07 17:55:37 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 17:55:27 · 21 answers · asked by hardybody111 1 in Singles & Dating

sh*t keeps going the same. One go day out of the week with my spouse is this enough? I say no, we have no sexual relationship and no hopes of one. But instead of being a caring person that is not the case.

2007-07-07 17:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce