sh*t keeps going the same. One go day out of the week with my spouse is this enough? I say no, we have no sexual relationship and no hopes of one. But instead of being a caring person that is not the case.
2007-07-07 17:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What I'm saying is there is one good day a week in my marriage.
2007-07-07 18:22:53 · update #1
am i the only confused one?
2007-07-07 17:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound frustrated at the fact that you see your spouse once a week and he is to pre-occupied with other things or to tied to sexually preform that one day he has off.
Is it his work....bills need paid.
Jobs in some areas are had to come by and perhaps he feels that obligation and responsibility to your marriage and the family, out weigh sex every week. Sure you might want sex on that one day off...but, he might need to mow the grass, clean the gutters and fix the back fence...do you get my drift....there are only so many hours in a day and the poor man need sleep to recuperate from 6 day a week job, as well as do things around the house, that you can't or wont do.
Love your man for the time you have with him and let him know that you would like to spend his next vacation time with him alone, for the two of you to reconnect your love life.
2007-07-08 01:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by cuch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a marriage, it is a business relationship to cover the expenses of living. Ask if your spouse is ready for an open relationship so you can have someone as a companion for the things your spouse will not do with you. If the answer is no, call a good attorney. You don't have to keep living a lie.
2007-07-08 01:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can only change what you are doing. Doing the same thing over and over expecting different results is insanity. Go to marriage counseling alone if necessary. You could use psychology on him, you will have to find out how. Take classes for it or go on line and learn all you can on actions that cause reactions.
2007-07-08 00:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused, you mean have sex once a week is not enough? i think one or two times a week is the norm for people married for a long time. but if he doesn't care about you, then you should think why you marry him? hope this help.
2007-07-08 01:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling but I'm getting ready to change **** around here at my house I've been putting up with this stuff for 19 long years and know I have had enough and I'm getting my stuff together and I'm moving on
2007-07-08 00:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least your getting it once a week. There may come a day that you don't get that.
2007-07-08 01:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So Baby runnnnnnnnnnnnn cut a path across the blue skies .... Leave DALLAS Now.. ... pac it light pac it heavy ...baby just come back........... Go on and break it !!!!
2007-07-08 01:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on ...go on... you were sayin how a fool can only fool you so long ... Sounds like you need to see how happiness can't be found lookin back... Go on ...even when you see you can't ... What don't kill you will make you strong.... and when ya can't take it ...move on.......
2007-07-08 01:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you crazy freek you dont have sex with your family
2007-07-08 00:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by courtneyr12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋