Family & Relationships - 7 July 2007

I live in georgia. My cousins live in Jersey.
They treat me and my brother like dirt!
My mom and dad helped their mom and dad come to the U.S. in 2000. They haven't thanked my parents YET!

2007-07-07 13:13:11 · 4 answers · asked by Magnificent Bliss Rocks! 2 in Family

I get a text at 5 in the morning saying we need to talk I said about what he said about my lies! I said what lies? Well he made it clear I lied about not telling him about Some dude that I spoke to once while we broke up over the phone and only over the phone nothing else happened- well he showed up and beat me- I lost conciseness three times that I can remember- in between those times he brutally beat my head, face, arms thighs, my private parts, and mostly my back and stomach... God the pain... I don’t understand y someone would think it fair to hit someone that can’t hurt the person that’s hurting them or defend them selves back? I mean I can hold my own but not against him he is really strong u know.... It’s not like his blows were soft!!!!!! What should I do?

2007-07-07 13:12:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have caused nothing but dissapointment and heartache. I don't deserve them.

2007-07-07 13:11:22 · 20 answers · asked by MustLetGo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What can I do to help meet my mans need for the touchy feely?

2007-07-07 13:09:43 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatelovely2002 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He works. He makes enough money to make payments. He's asked to marry me, but I still don't have a ring.

2007-07-07 13:08:59 · 34 answers · asked by Holly Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-07 13:07:44 · 2 answers · asked by aurora546 1 in Singles & Dating

my exgirlfriend, who dumped me a couple months ago, called me drunk last night. She called seven times, hung up each time. She then texted me saying "I am drunk and need you". All I said was "You okay?". She never texted back. She then called couple hours later but I was in bed and didn't answer. My question is; was this a booty call? Or was this her messing with my head, hoping i would go there and then mess leave me hanging? I didn't think it was a booty call since she didn't talk. Who knows, maybe her friend was messing with her phone? I didn't want to leave myself out there and say something I may regret. I don't think it was a booty call, do you?

2007-07-07 13:05:21 · 15 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

i have the looks and the hipes(@$$) but no more belly. i feel so good im geting a lot of attinention too. but from everyone my family (sis) is hateing at me. is this right, what should i do?

2007-07-07 13:05:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Keep it 100 ladies

2007-07-07 13:03:59 · 1 answers · asked by d52ave 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend of 4 years and the father of my 17 month old son is still married but seperated for 7 years to a pman in australia(we have no clue where she is).....It is getting to me really bad and i have told him that and he says he will when he gets the $ together and i believe him but things keep coming up like him owing back taxes, etc that prevent him from saving the $ for it and it is really driving me crazy. My son is now 17 months old and i want to have him at least get the divorce before my son realizes he is stillmarried and not to his mommy. i, also have a 9 yr old daughter and i do not want her to think it is right to live with a man and not get married....i have been in a fight with him for 2 days and he has no idea what am mad at but i bring it up constanly and i am sick of doing it...what would you do in my situation? if i had the means to leave him, i would to show him this is crap...

2007-07-07 12:58:51 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Sexy Mama of 2 cuties♥ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend is too close to my girlfriend. They text message a lot and chat on line a lot. seems like everywhere we go, he ends up going too. He's my best friend and he likes to goof around a lot, but it seems that he's getting too close to my girlfriend and it bothers me deep inside, but I don't want to say anything, my GF will think I'm insecure.

2007-07-07 12:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by Greg D 1 in Singles & Dating

This geeky weird girl from my old school is coming to my new middle school this coming school year. I bet that she will be hanging around me constantly. I don't want her to because she's beyond creepy and thinks that she is a horse. How do I let her know that I don't want to be her friend? I'm pretty sure that she won't make anyother friends but I may be wrong. Nobody liked her at my old school. I know its mean but she's WEIRD!

2007-07-07 12:56:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He copies EVERY thing ANYONE does. And It's real freaking annoying, what do I do.

2007-07-07 12:56:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

love this boy but am 2 scary 2 tell causer he might don't love back and hard 2 deal with between people that might bring me down what should i do tell or keep down in heart wish that he understand the pain he bring 2 me. So day he be right beside act he love in with but other can hate so back that don't what 2 do i feel it me but something live my side and other day he just dont said a word to me. he can command to stuff and do it then treat me like dirt. Sould i let him keep treat me so wrong or just stand my feet tell what i feel?

2007-07-07 12:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by day day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, women "test drive" 20 "cars" give or take before "buying" one.

But if for some reason somebody "tests drives" another "car" while he's still "committed" to the first "car" then that’s when women decide that punishment is appropriate.

What gives women?

2007-07-07 12:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex insisted on joint custody. He has them 15 days each month but he is NEVER there. His girlfriend is the only person the kids spend time with. Should I have to deal with the "girlfriend"? I share visitation with their father, not her. Honestly she does it all and says I can do nothing about it. If they can't be with their dad then why should they not stay with me, their mom? Would I have a chance in taking him back to court to modify the visitation or even custody since he isn't interested in seeing them. It's always been a power struggle to say he has joint custody and I didn't "win". It has nothing to do with the children's best interest; only his ego!

2007-07-07 12:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by paisley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What if all parties consent...both spouses and third party.

Is this still considered adultery?

2007-07-07 12:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He just came home from work..and hes a truckdriver...i imagine hed be happy to come home..but all he did was gripe about how the house isnt clean..i clean it up..but it gets dirtied up again and that we dont have any thing to eat..but hes the one not working!the whole week he had problems with his check..one time..he only made a 45$ check! ..he makes me so mad...sometimes i hate staying here because hes here..and hes really inmateur..and he gets drunk everynight..all he does is gripe....i wish my mom would get a divorce with him but she wont..i know this is pretty wrong and mean for a daughter to be saying..but i meen..cmon guys...how would u like it if ur dad was like that and made my mom do all the work?.....and he didnt just do it this time..he does it ALL THE TIME..and he always thinks hes right..he thinks he knows everything..i just hate it! i dont know what to do..i dont wanna get out of the house cuz its the summer and i wanna have fun and stay at home for a while...wat do i d

2007-07-07 12:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 12:33:48 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

I was sure I wanted to get married, but a lot of people say I shouldn't yet... Is marriage really that great (how long have you been married?).

2007-07-07 12:33:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this question earlier and typed it wrong, I hope I didn't offend anyone. My apologies to all it offended.

2007-07-07 12:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-07 12:30:41 · 1 answers · asked by angelgrl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I met my wife through a family friend 3 years ago. It was kind of arrange marriage. She was beautiful when I met her. After dating for 6 months, we got married. She put on 90 pounds weight and now she is not beautiful anymore. I still do not want to leave her, but when I tell her to do something about it , she fights with me like anything. She thinks I am an asshole thinking about looks and does not really love her.

we are married for over 2 years now and we hardly had sex for 15 times since we have got married. She does not want it. Last time we had sex was 4 months ago, she does not want to do it. I think she does not love me at all. I tried to get divorce once and left house but because of her family pressure we decided to give another chance to our relationship. but still its the same. Now she does not want to leave me because of her family and not because she wants me. I do not know what to do now.

2007-07-07 12:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Nothing religious at all....nope chucked all that propaganda out of my life a long time ago.

2007-07-07 12:30:23 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-07 12:28:15 · 5 answers · asked by sazie w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy a few months ago, and I know he likes me. But he says he just wants to be friends. I think he's quite lonely and doesn't have many friends back home, and we really got on at first. But now he calls me, texts me and emails me almost every day, sometimes several times a day. He is actually being nice which is the problem - he's not at all threataning. But I want him to stop - I've tried ignoring calls etc but he just calls again. I don't wanna do anything too drastic cos he isn't actually being horrible, but I don't even really want to talk to/see him again. What can I do??? Please help.

2007-07-07 12:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, this girl broke up with her b/f like two weeks ago because he was treating her bad, they have been going out for two years, and ever since i saw her i liked her, and now she is free i want her to be my g/f, we talked about her relationship over myspace and she was very open, and she even told me i was nice,(idk if that means anything) and two days ago i asked her to meet me at the park and she said she is hanging out with her best friend and yestrday i asked her to meet me at the park and she said she was hanging out with her best friend and then i said so when r u free? and then she said well im leaving for vegas soon so i dont have a lot of time so yea and then i said well when r u goin? and im waiting for her reply now, and this is what i dont get, is she avoiding me or something?plz help, i really like this girl, there is no word to describe her, so plz help, i need u guys to give me ideas of what to say over myspace, and ideas of wat to say if i meet her at the park

2007-07-07 12:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 12:19:06 · 3 answers · asked by fa2 H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not being a smart @ss on this folks. Just trying to find out what married people do after the sex and other adrenaline type activities are gone.

Just a curious. I'm a single guy, and I'm happy being single. No drama here. But, I do see older couples, and I know that there's a lot of them out ther, who are happy being with each other. What do they do to keep their relationship going?

Please help. I'm not looking for a Holywood type answer, but reality from people who've been there.

2007-07-07 12:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-07 12:17:05 · 13 answers · asked by Job seeker 2 in Marriage & Divorce