i have the looks and the hipes(@$$) but no more belly. i feel so good im geting a lot of attinention too. but from everyone my family (sis) is hateing at me. is this right, what should i do?
2007-07-07 13:05:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Love yourself!! Definitely!! Who ever is hating? you gotta to know it is the new U. She'll come around, if not, it is her lose, just be yourself and love her and know that she is family, whatever happens, happens...
2007-07-07 13:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by SuasGirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, when a person who was overweight starts to take care of themselves, the people around them start to get jealous, envious and threatened. They were OK when you were not a threat, but now that you are hot, you are competition, so they feel threatened. Just try to remain who you were, don't get big headed and just remain confident. You did a great thing for yourself!
2007-07-07 20:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, it isnt right, they should be happy that you feel better about yourself. perhaps they are only jealous that you have been able to gain confidence, while they are still the same as they have been. you may want to try to help your family feel better about themselves any way you can without giving up your new-found esteem, or just try to ignore their petty behaviour. they'll eventually get over it.
2007-07-07 20:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy Celt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm dont let other people bother you. If you are the way that you want to look then you keep it like that. Dont change for someone else, not even your family!! Jelousy should change ur happiness
2007-07-07 20:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this happen don't leave her hate u try to show her your attention and try to help her to lose weight too put don't do that directly...thin u will be perfect sisters
2007-07-07 20:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by nice one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the attention, and tell your sister to stop being jealous.
2007-07-07 20:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should just get over it because what they think doesn't matter.....it's what you think matters. Oh, and perhaps talk to someone who actually deals with this kind of stuff...the kind of hatred.
2007-07-07 20:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your sis is like how you were then she probaly is jelous. and if she is like how you are now then she is probaly jelous of the attention
2007-07-07 20:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you let it all go to your head "i look soo hot"
2007-07-07 20:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋