This geeky weird girl from my old school is coming to my new middle school this coming school year. I bet that she will be hanging around me constantly. I don't want her to because she's beyond creepy and thinks that she is a horse. How do I let her know that I don't want to be her friend? I'm pretty sure that she won't make anyother friends but I may be wrong. Nobody liked her at my old school. I know its mean but she's WEIRD!
2007-07-07 12:56:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ummm. Of course I've spent "time" with her, I've known her for 5 years and I am pretty sure I don't like her. And for the people saying stuff like I hate how kids are treating other kids these days, FYI, I haven't treated her like anything. I just don't want to be her friend. SIMPLE!!
2007-07-07 15:39:25 · update #1
How is she "weird"? So sad, the way kids treat others these days...
2007-07-07 12:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by CAT 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should first of all see what happens when she gets to your school, she could make her own friends. If not, it's not your responsibility to take care of her but it would be nice if you introduced her to a few people. She is going to have a much harder time than you if she doesn't have anyone. I had the same problem but as time passed the girl found new friends and even when we are in the same classes we only speak about once a week. People change, you may like her after a while. If not, tell her that you have made your own friends by yourself and it isn't your job to be there for her. She needs to learn how to make new friends, if she can't she will have a slight problem in the future...e.g. work or college. Just take note that she won't necessarily be in the same classes as you anyway so this will get her to talk to other people outside your friend group.
2007-07-07 13:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Francesca C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not much point in worrying about something that hasn't happened and may not happen at all. Unless she's a glutton for being put down, I doubt that she's hanging around you now. So why would she do so at the new school? A new school is always a time to find others like oneself. You will. She will, too. I wonder which group will be less liked. I know which group will be more interesting.
2007-07-07 13:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever even hang out with her for a little while? If not and if you just say she's weird because of the rumors in school then give her a chance. Most people call others weird because they are different, but I have to tell you . . . it's more interesting to be friends with a person who is different than with a person who just blends into the crowd. If you did hang out with her and you just don't have any same interests then once she starts hanging around you tell her . . .
"I know that we know each other, but I'd feel a lot more comfortable if we weren't friends. I'm sorry, but we just don't have anything in common and I don't see you as my friend. But I don't want us to be school enemies. I hope you understand."
If she cries or is really mad at you just ignore it because you have a choice of who you want your friends to be. Good luck! =)
2007-07-07 13:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Cooℓ Smιℓεys :D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a similar problem. Just tell her that it's not that there is something wrong with her just that you really would rather not be her friend anymore. If that doesn't work, try ignoring her. Maybe she will understand. If she still bothers you, make some friends there and ask them if there are any girls there that you could introduce the wierd chick to that she has something in common with. Good Luck and I hope this helps!
2007-07-07 13:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shelby&Zach4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
supply it a week or 2 - each and everything IS loopy whilst college first starts until they get right into a habitual. Have a verbal exchange which incorporate your daughter approximately listening to the whistle and what meaning. i'm curious the way you realize your daughter became forgotten for "10 minutes" & that the janitor extra them in - did the janitor call you or something??? it truly is truly unusual which you knew approximately it before you even picked her up. decrease the instructor somewhat slack - it truly is not an common job.
2016-10-20 05:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, I know a girl who is trying to be my friend and thinks shes a horse...thats odd. Moving on. If she is hanging around with you constantly, the least you can do is give her the cold shoulder and hopes she takes the hint.
2007-07-07 13:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to get to a point where you do not care what people think of you and others. Thats not fair to treat someone like that. How would you feel is someone were to treat you like that? Treat people how you want to be treated!
2007-07-07 12:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her, but try to be nice about it. Tell her that you don't feel you both have enough in common to be friends. Honesty is always best. If you find yourself avoiding her, either you or her, or both, may end up getting hurt in one way or another.
2007-07-07 12:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just say "nayyyy!" If she starts hanging around you, say you're way to busy to have her as a friend. Tell her you already have too many friends, and your days are filled to the brim. Good luck, hon! :) -L
2007-07-07 13:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋