I get a text at 5 in the morning saying we need to talk I said about what he said about my lies! I said what lies? Well he made it clear I lied about not telling him about Some dude that I spoke to once while we broke up over the phone and only over the phone nothing else happened- well he showed up and beat me- I lost conciseness three times that I can remember- in between those times he brutally beat my head, face, arms thighs, my private parts, and mostly my back and stomach... God the pain... I don’t understand y someone would think it fair to hit someone that can’t hurt the person that’s hurting them or defend them selves back? I mean I can hold my own but not against him he is really strong u know.... It’s not like his blows were soft!!!!!! What should I do?
2007-07-07 13:12:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please leave this guy, he doesn't love you. please understand that there is a man out there that will kiss the ground you walk on and will never even try to hurt you, he will not make you cry. leave this waste of time and find the real man of your life. its gonna be hard but worth it when you find the right man that will work very hard to make you happy!
2007-07-07 13:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
What is love for you?
To be beaten?
If you stay with him you should know that this is not going to be last time he hit you. You were unconsciousness 3 times. Well, next time you may not wake up any more.
Sorry, this are hard words, but this is the truth.
It is not the point if he loves you. I believe that he do. But, man, who can hit women, first can't ever be a man for me. And second this type of man - they have some psychical problems.
You have not been born for this, or you I am wrong?
Think. How did you imagine your relationship with a guy?
Ask yourself what is respect, what is love, what is friendship, what is life. Put everything on paper and than compare it with what you have now.
2007-07-07 20:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by njanja 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's pretty obvious what you need to do..... LEAVE HIM! It may be hard and it may be scary being single for a while but physical abuse is absolutely unacceptable! You do not need to be with someone who doesn't treat you with love and respect, and what he's doing to you is neither of those things. I would suggest getting a protection order out against him as well, keep away from him. If he tries to contact you.... and he will.... DO NOT talk to him. People like this know how to use people and they are very good at telling you what you want to her. I'm really sorry if this sounds harsh but staying with him will put your life in danger. Make sure your friends and family know about whats happening and they can help keep him away from you and give you support through this.
I really hope you do whats right for you because this is a serious situation.
2007-07-07 20:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was raised and raised my family to believe that there is no reason, NOne for a man to ever hit a woman, in fact if you hit a woman you are not a man, not even close. Call the police, the shelter for battered women anything and get out of that relationship. Someone made the mistake of hitting my daughter. Once!!!!! Will not be happening again
2007-07-07 20:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to me very carefully: HE WILL NOT STOP. This kind of thing will continue until he does some real damage. Not just physical damage, but look at what he's doing to the real man that will eventually be very good to you in the future. The trauma that this @$$hat is inflicting now will become Mr. Right's burden to bear as well. You know that you need to leave him, and never look back. You don't deserve this no matter what you've done. If you don't do it for yourself, then do it for Mr. Right - I promise you, he's out there looking for a good woman like you right now.
P.S. A man that truly loves you would NEVER do this kind of thing.
2007-07-07 20:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by timmy2kegs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Report him to the police and get a restraining order against him.
This is not love, this is brutal control over you! And you better dig deep and find the part of you that you find worthwhile and concentrate on it- NO ONE deserves to get beat, not for any reason. Your police department should also have free info on groups to join to help you get past the emotional battering you have taken, as well as the physical.
This will only get worse if you do nothing.
2007-07-07 20:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's an *** & so are you if you stay w/ this guy. Get out before he kills you. Because he will if he beat you that bad this time. And call the police on him for assaulting you. The police take domestic abuse seriously! And if you leave and he continues to harass you, GET an order of restraint against him and do not give in. I wish you good luck!!!
2007-07-07 20:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by number9fan 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get the heck OUT of the relationship. Nobody deserves to be hit and if it happens one time it is going to happen again. Find a good family member or friend who can help you through this and get rid of him.
2007-07-07 20:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to call the police && leave him
as soon as possible hun this is a very toxic relationship
He's not going to stop....how can you love someone that hits you?! call the police asap..good luck!
Keep your chin held up high it will be okay :D
2007-07-07 20:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by manda102285 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you're asking what you should do, you're not too intelligent. obviously you shouldn't be with this guy. maybe you think you love him, but you're probably attached to him due to low self esteem. get the hell out of there as fast as possible. if he's going to snap and beat the crap out of you over something small and stupid like that, what would he do if he ever had a real reason to be mad? honestly, if he truely loved you he would never consider laying a hand on you. get the hell out before it's too late! you deserve better!
2007-07-07 20:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋