Family & Relationships - 7 July 2007

Ok lets say my bestfriend is a total ***** like will kill somebody .. and then i have this other bestfriend who is the chillest person ever but i cant hang out with them because my ***** bestfriend hates her .. i wanna just leave my ***** bestfriend because shes always yelling and fighting and i dont wanna deal with it but if i do leave her alll hell breaks out and i see her every where in school we even have the same homeroom together what do i do?

2007-07-07 12:15:56 · 19 answers · asked by sh3rry14 1 in Friends

My Ex and have been broken up for a year. Within that time she's meet someone else. But a month ago they broke up and we were intimate with each other. They got back together a week ago. But my ex still wants to be friends with me and wants to see when she's in town. She left me a message on my phone saying that she dosent want to lose me out of her life she wants to be able to talk to me every now and then. I told her I need cut to her loose she got mad. I told her Im not playing back up because I still love her and want her back. Why would she get mad if I said you got a boyfriend so lets go our seperate ways. I want her back but this is confusing she always saying I need you as my friend right now. Ladies I still love her what should I do? I tried to put my foot down but I gave in.

2007-07-07 12:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its a boy named robert after his dad which he in iraq right now for the war of course

2007-07-07 12:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what do you think of red headed girls?
and
would you date one if she had a great body

2007-07-07 12:13:11 · 12 answers · asked by Ash! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 12:12:13 · 5 answers · asked by LAKESHA L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend and i like the same guy and he asked me out. i love my friend and would never want to hurt her but i really really like this guy. should i say yes to him? should i first talk to my friend about it and risk losing a friendship with her? or should i just forget about him entirely?

btw im posting this question for my friend i have a bf :-)

2007-07-07 12:08:38 · 3 answers · asked by juicyfruit02938 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is10 years old and now that her no good a** father is trying to come around her whole attitude is changing. He have not been around since she was 1 year of age and now he tries to come get her on the weekend to make his self look good for his weak a** girlfriends. When she comes home from staying with him she is mad and say thing like I hate this house and I want to live with my father, who just started see her. She acts as if I was not the one with her every day of her life. She also tells me that him and his girlfriend talks bad about all five of his babies-mothers and yes, he have five baby-mothers. My daughter is the first. I never really had a father so I know how it feels to want to be around your father for a chance. However, ever since she was 10 months old her stepfather has always treated her as if she was his child, so I really do not understand what is going on. Please help!

2007-07-07 12:08:15 · 12 answers · asked by Lovechild 2 in Family

ok see the problem is I'm not a very outgoing person, most of it has to do with God and all and I always try to put him first even if I'm not the best person in the world and I also don't want to hurt my mom.But see the thing is my bestfriend is thinking about losing her virginity and don't get me wrong I've been thinking the same thing as well.See the big deal of it all is she's younger than me and she always does everything before me which sucks.She always gets the boys as for me I've never had a boyfriend,which I've never told her but I know she knows.Never really had any friends either to tell you the truth she's my first real friend which makes things worst.B/c no one has ever loved me and I've never really loved anyone.I'm so confused could someone help me.........please?

2007-07-07 12:07:28 · 19 answers · asked by DIAMOND 1 in Singles & Dating

i left the state with my kids fleeing abuse from x husband.i had been ordered not to leave without the courts or fathers permission.can he get full custody without me being there because of that?

2007-07-07 12:02:06 · 10 answers · asked by healthnut05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Nothing sexual cuz it ain't happening.

2007-07-07 12:01:46 · 3 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 12:01:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with this guy for about two weeks already. I get these bad cringing feelings when he comments me on myspace, or when I see a picture of him. But when it actually comes to him in real life, he makes me SOO happy. We are just together holding hands, everything. Im confused basically. Yesterday we were kissing alot [not really making out, just kiss after kiss on the lips] and I was happy. Then after a while I started to feel nothing in our kiss. Like I was still happy, but it was concerning me how I started to feel hollow in my chest and no feeling in the kiss.
It just makes no sense how I can be happy, then all of a sudden no feelin in the kiss? As well as the cringing feelings. Those arent right. There must be something wrong. I got those bad feelings as I described how I felt happy and we kissed. It was true though!! I was delighted.

What can it be....

2007-07-07 11:59:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay. So my friend's father beats her and sexually melested her when she wuz 8, 9, 10, 11 and12. She's really depressed and is VVVVVEEEEEERRRRRYYYYY suicidal!!! I've talked to her a lot and she's really open. She knows i'll always be there for her, yet she's still suicidal!!! she's hates being the center of attention, so i kno she isn't doing it for that reason. but im very worried. Her parents already kno, she's in counciling and everything! how should i help her?!?!

2007-07-07 11:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've known this guy for 7 months now. We started out as friends. At first we flirted with each other and would talk about our past relationships and what we were looking for in a partner. Anyhow, as the months went by and the more time we spent together we establised feeling for each other. And yes we slept together. He knows that I care very much for him and I have expressed to him that I would love to be more than just friends. His response to that was positive at first. However, he now feels that my actions say differently. I do feel that we don't flirt as much anymore. The funny thing is,we only show affectionate for one another when we are alone. We act like friends when we go out in public. What is our/my problem? I don't want to lose this guy.

2007-07-07 11:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by pisceslove 1 in Singles & Dating

i left my 2 kids father 3 years ago who was very abusive verbally and physicaly in front of my kids.i've remarried then and i left the state because he had been fighting me in court since i got married to be with the kids.whenever he would get the kids on weekends they would call me and say they were alone,and he would be having a party in the livingroom while they had to stay in the room.i could not take it anymore and left out of fear for my kids wellbeing.with that being said its been a few years.when i first left he went back to court to get a kidnapping charge put on me but he was told that i had physical custody so they could not charge me with kidnapping since i was the custodial parent.but the problem now is i spoke to my mother who lives around the corner from him,and she told me that he was awarded full custody without me even being there,can this happen just by him going to court saying he has not seen his kids? will they do that? how can i find this out?

2007-07-07 11:52:41 · 7 answers · asked by healthnut05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok deirs dis guy well hs my best friend i talk to him every day
his awsome but da thing is i might lyk him more dan a freind
and i dk how he feels cuz his lyk kinda quite bout his feelings
wat should i do ???
should i telll him how i feel
or wat

2007-07-07 11:50:15 · 14 answers · asked by baby_t 1 in Singles & Dating

In the past, my friend has asked me three different times to go to the beach with her, and my parents rejected her every single time! I really need to get some time away from my parents for a little bit, but for some reason they just don't like the idea of me going with my friend's family to other places! My younger brother gets to do it, but why not me? I am 16, by the way. Do you think that is too young to be away from my parents for a couple of days?! I think not! Anyways the same friend asked me to go to Disney World with her, and I haven't asked my parents yet. What should I say if they say no again? Thanks I really want to go!

And btw, they think that DIsney WOrld is for little kids, which I totally disagree on!

2007-07-07 11:49:08 · 11 answers · asked by inlovewithlife08 5 in Family

when you say..."I'm sorry, but it has nothing to do with you.."...she loves to INTERFERE....DO YOU THINK most people knows she is like that???...the ones that know her...anyway??? i would think so..

2007-07-07 11:48:48 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant find a boyfriend I dont know what is wrong with me. Im not bragging but just telling it like it is. Im smart, id say pretty good looking, fun and happy. I pick up boys easy without trying but they only want sex, and if I dont give it to them then its the last time I will see them. Why doesnt anyone want a relationship with me. The ones that do I am not physically attracted to them. I dont think I put my standards too high but every guy I like doesnt go for me and I like them more when they are not interested.

2007-07-07 11:48:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why have you cheated in the past, and how far did it go?
i'm wondering if there is a connection between the reason that pushes someone to cheat and what they do because of it... also in which way you got involved, how did you feel about it and how did you feel about it after your partner found out.

2007-07-07 11:45:24 · 19 answers · asked by depressedandlost 1 in Singles & Dating

Today we went to shop for bags and purses. So it's like my first time looking for brand name stuff. I'm pretty poor compare to my bf. So this seller kept talking to me ...a lot. Something unrelated to the bags and it was really annoying. But I just went along with her. I didn't know what to say much. English is my second language and sometimes I still don't express the right words at the right time.

I acted nervous because they asked where I go to school and I go to city college. They asked if I liked the brand name stuff and I don't even care about it...Sometimes they ask something I don't understand I just said "What?" "Huh?"

After we got a bag, my bf complained that I'm weak and I can't handle them on my own. He said if I didn't like them bugging me, I could have told them like this like that.

I hate when people told me I'm weak. My mom, my aunt told me this before. Now my bf? What should I do to act "strong"? I'm shy with new people especially when they talk a lot...

2007-07-07 11:43:28 · 12 answers · asked by (^_^) 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm supposed to be getting married in a little over three months, we have the date set, and I have the ring. But, I don't know what he wants for a reception theme and what colors he wants for the wedding. Can someone help me?

2007-07-07 11:42:35 · 19 answers · asked by sailorjupiter172003 2 in Weddings

ladies.. i am getting married dec. 1st of this year. the colors are red and white.. my fiancee is shorter than i am.. i am 5'10 and heis 5'7.. any ideas on shoes or something.. remember that he has to take the garter off so people will see my feet.. help me out on this one.

2007-07-07 11:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by blueberry 3 in Weddings

My ex-b'f has a baby boy and we've been going out since August,2006 and he was not even gonna tell me that he had a baby boy and he's 17 now and i'm 16. SO WHAT Should I do??

Y'all might say 4-get about him but I loved him and it's hard to let go after along time 2-gether...so what should I do??

2007-07-07 11:41:44 · 17 answers · asked by Mercedes16_90!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was there, in the USA, my ex would always allow his other wife, the mother of his son, to enter the house. He told me that as a Christian, that was the right thing to do. She would enter and walk in the house, as if I was not there. Then, she would come with her boy friend. I told my husband that one of those days they would find me naked, after a shower, because the bathroom was near to the kitchen, where they would always enter the house. My husband would always argue with me because of her. FInally, I got him to tell her that that was not the right thing to do. But the tone of their talk did not please me. He took them both outside the house and never invited me to be part of their talking........I felt humiliated because I was the current wife and should be respected. She is not a bad person. My husband's son is a nice boy as well. The problem is how my husband deals with the situation, always putting me in the last place. That's the reason I came back to my country.

2007-07-07 11:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i went on a date whith this hot guy and everything gouse fine untill he walks me home.cause when we get to my door
he just starts drooling all over me!! then when i say no he
calls me a tease!!! grrrr

2007-07-07 11:32:00 · 28 answers · asked by katie c 2 in Singles & Dating

He left his email opened and this was sent a few months back to an ex he hasn't been with for years or seen. We've been married for only a year. One more thing, he also send a similar email to another ex. Should I worried? Why is he contacting them?

2007-07-07 11:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by luvbaseball 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad has been abusing my mom this past week. What should i do about it. He has been always been a drunk and he is skipping his job also. His is physicly abusing her and cussing at her. i really need help for the whole story click on this link.


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2007-07-07 11:29:48 · 1 answers · asked by Aycilla 3 in Family

my husband and i have been married for 10 years.we have children together.a year in a half ago i cheated on him.he was never there for me mentaly.he cant except that what all i told him is the truth he thinks there is more. we sat down and were talking and he told me he had some things to tell me but he wasnt going to be 100% honest with me unless i told him everything in my past.once again he wouldnt except the truth so i made things up to here what he had to say. he told me that he has cheated on me multipule times since i had to him. he says the reason this is ok is he was trying to see how i could do it to him. i think he enjoys being with other people but he is in love with me. i told him maybe we should have a open relationship(sexually) and he seemed to like that idea. after our conversation was over i told him i lied about every thing i had said as far as being with other people and now he took everything he said to me back and wont even sleep with me.please tell me what to do

2007-07-07 11:26:21 · 9 answers · asked by lol 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband always says he's never in the mood, and if I leave it up to him, we could go for months without sex. Whenever we do have sex, it lasts ten minutes and I get nothing out of it. He puts in no effort, as if he just wants to get it overwith. I've tried everything to get him in the mood, and I know I'm very attractive. Most men would kill to have a wife with a sex drive like mine. It seems like he doesn't care. Can I just divorce him for that reason?

2007-07-07 11:23:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce