I'm supposed to be getting married in a little over three months, we have the date set, and I have the ring. But, I don't know what he wants for a reception theme and what colors he wants for the wedding. Can someone help me?
2007-07-07 11:42:35 · 19 answers · asked by sailorjupiter172003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i will contact you ,forget him.great u have the ring that most important.i am sure of theme ,i know the color.i am ready
2007-07-07 11:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by bulla 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need to go up to him and ask him what he wants and let him know that the wedding is coming up and these things need to be done. Has he been busy or is he scared to get married? There has to be a reason why he won't get back to you on what he wants for the wedding. My fiance is really not making any decisions either on our wedding. I just ask him what he thinks and he just usually tells me he doesn't care. At least I get an answer out of him. So colors and theme is important especially when your wedding is coming around the corner. So you have to step up and ask him what he thinks for the themes and colors that you have picked or was thinking of.
2007-07-07 19:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Has he truly disappeared? Is he showing up at work or school? Have people seen him? If he seems to have disappeared, then contact close friends and family, and if they haven't been in contact, contact the police and file a missing person's report.
*Assuming he's alive and well: How long has he not been contacting you? A few days? Weeks? A month?
Assuming he's not on a long camping trip or the like where there's no cell phone service, and he hasn't been contacting you for a week or more: I would call off the wedding. A. Disappearing shows he does not want to be married. B. You have no guarentee he'd show up at the wedding, and C. Assuming he shows up, you do NOT want a husband who gives you the silent treatment.
2007-07-07 18:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I first read your heading, I thought your fiance went missing!
Well, next time you see him, just ask him! I'm assuming you see him at least a few times a week, right?
Many men don't care about the details of the wedding. But he may have an opinion or a preference, so do him the courtesy of eliciting his input.
2007-07-07 20:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, guys don't care about those sorts of things. Personally, I don't even care about them. Colors are colors, a theme is maybe a little more important...but seriously, these are boring topics. Especially to guys. Just make the decisions yourself, get your bridesmaids' opinions if you want, and be certain that it's not going to affect him in the least. Don't worry, it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you or the wedding. Try to see it from his point of view.
2007-07-07 19:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried to phone him, meet with him? if he is not responding, then I would think about the wedding in total, because if he is not contacting you now, you need to find out why and then think about the reception etc after contact and reasons have been given as to why he is not in contact, ok
2007-07-07 18:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
3 months, and you havent started anything?? good luck to ya..most places to hold these events are booked a year in advance. If it is a church, reception hall..ect..these are typically 6-12 months of planning ahead. Even dresses are about 6-8 weeks to order and get in...even at davids bridal and smaller mom and pop bridal shops...Get yourself in gear girl.
2007-07-07 20:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, your the one that has to talk to him.
If you guy's cant communicate now what makes you think you will when you get married,
and how could you possibly live a happy marrage for the rest of your lifes with no cummunication???
2007-07-07 18:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe overwhelmed, women dream of this day all their lives, Men don't. They want to show up (for the honeymoon) so do what I did, choose two options you love then send them to him just say ' check one send back' that's it. A man only wants two choices a and b. Never ask him to choose something that means a lot to you, he'll pick the wrong one, just the stuff that doesn't rattle your chain if it's wrong! my wedding went smoothly, did the same for the divorce! sent him papers said ' sign this send back' ahhh nostalgia!
2007-07-07 18:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by puddlejumper66 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys really couldn't care less about what colors, flowers, etc. are at the wedding. If he doesn't offer any input then do what you like.
2007-07-07 18:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by DK Julie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If hes not contacting you theres a bigger problem then what colors or kind of reception you will be having. I'd get my priorities straight and quick.
2007-07-07 18:48:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋