I've known this guy for 7 months now. We started out as friends. At first we flirted with each other and would talk about our past relationships and what we were looking for in a partner. Anyhow, as the months went by and the more time we spent together we establised feeling for each other. And yes we slept together. He knows that I care very much for him and I have expressed to him that I would love to be more than just friends. His response to that was positive at first. However, he now feels that my actions say differently. I do feel that we don't flirt as much anymore. The funny thing is,we only show affectionate for one another when we are alone. We act like friends when we go out in public. What is our/my problem? I don't want to lose this guy.
2007-07-07 11:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by pisceslove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the problem is he doesn't feel the same passion coming from you now that he did when you two were just friends. Guys worry about these things because if they plan for this relationship to be long term it doesn't seem that there will be much passion down the road. you're no longer just a friend to him, you're also his girlfriend now so you have to give him something he wouldn't get from every other woman that he's friends with. Talk to him and make an effort to be more passionate.
2007-07-07 12:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by bubbliebub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys are just nervous about the fact that your relationship has moved beyond the friend stage. Because of this, sometimes relationships tend to pause or stall for a moment as a re-group. Both of you need to discuss how you feel about 1 another and where you want this relationship to go. If you truly feel that deeply for 1 another and want your feelings to grow, then you should move forward with the ties that bind you.
2007-07-07 12:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Diva777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him more, be there for him when he needs someone to talk to. Stop by and see him for no reason than because you wanted to se him. When in public you do not have to like kiss or show PDA. You can just sit close to him, put your hand on his arm or leg. You can hold his hand. Little things make the world of difference.
2007-07-07 12:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to be shown and hear the words as well.. I believe they both go hand in hand.... A person can say anything and it be just empty words unless they shown action as well... I have also known people who showed love but never said the words because they really didn't love the person they just showed them to make them think they did...
2016-05-21 00:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 2 of you need to talk about what you want, tell him your concerns and let him voice his, you might find that you are overreacting and that the 2 of you just needed a jolt in the right direction
2007-07-07 12:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you have put yourself in the "friends with benefits" category. He doesn't have to explain himself to you or tolerate your jealousy nor does he even have to show the slightest inkling of commitment in public, but reap the rewards of a sexual relationship. Sorry to be so harsh, but you did this to yourself when you put him in a position to take advantage of the circumstances.
2007-07-07 12:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by timmy2kegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him why he feels this way about you?
Listen to his answer carefully. it is important that the anwser makes sense to you. You dont want to get into a guessing game. I hate that in any relationships.
2007-07-07 12:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him . thats the only way u will ever no wat hes thinkin
2007-07-07 11:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋