ok i went on a date whith this hot guy and everything gouse fine untill he walks me home.cause when we get to my door
he just starts drooling all over me!! then when i say no he
calls me a tease!!! grrrr
2007-07-07 11:32:00 · 28 answers · asked by katie c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, if he's trying to get you in bed on the first date...Look, that only happens in movies. In real life, it never ends well. Kudos to you for not giving in. He's not respecting your space, and if he can't then think about finding a new guy who CAN respect you. You're not just there for the sex, I hope, because at the very least he could pay you.
2007-07-07 11:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a general rule of thumb, you should never have sex on the first date. The first date should leave them wanting more and any guy that really likes you or is worth pursuing would not mind waiting.
If you thought he was really hot and just wanted to hook up, then its a different story, but it sounds like this guy was only after one thing and it was not a relationship.
He probably is used to seducing women and probably would not respect you the next day. If he calls you a tease, then you definitely did the right thing. Don't hate yourself for that. You still have your respect.
2007-07-07 18:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by PrinceWilliam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok honestly, no disrespect to some girls but having sex on the first date is kinda bad because you don't really know the guy that well. Forget that he called you a tease because you aren't. You are a respectable well mannered person and you should feel bad for that.
2007-07-07 18:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think not having sex on a first date is good because if you do have sex on the first date and you don't know much about that person things can get out of hand and if you are not over 20 at least, that can be a real problem.
2007-07-07 18:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was being pretty ignorant, just trying to bully you into doing the deed with him. Typical response from a guy girls consider hot, he's probably going to succeed 9 times out of 10.
Maybe next time you'll get to know a guy before you date.
2007-07-07 18:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please. (That's for him, not you.) Sweetie, get used to guys wanting sex. That's just guys. It does NOT mean you have to or should give it to them. He is just pissed cuz he didn't score. So what! He's in the wrong, not you. He is so immature that he can't handle rejection so he lashes out at you. You are growing and learning from your experiences, all kinds of them so You will be the better person. Yes, you even learn from the jerks. You will find someone who deserves you. :) Stay strong in yourself and know that you are wonderful and deserve the best. :)
2007-07-07 18:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ladytigercat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have sex until your wedding night. If he is asking for sex on your first date, he is totally disrespecting you and obviously only interested in sex and not you. Find a man who has the integrity to wait until the wedding night to have the privilege of sex with you.
2007-07-07 18:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol calling you a tease is a good thing. (for me anyway) also sex on the first date means you are doing it for the sake of it not for love.
2007-07-07 18:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by UnP0ssible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a tease. If you had put out on the first date he would have no respect for you. Good girls wait.
2007-07-07 18:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, it seems like you had sex on the first date. I would only consider it as bad if you didn't really want to do it, but just went along with what your date wanted.
2007-07-07 18:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Logicalchaos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋