Family & Relationships - 7 July 2007

What I really mean is if you were single and just met your spouse today, based on looks alone would you find them attractive enough to start a relationship with them again?

2007-07-07 09:01:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok this is a big 1, i hav a best friend lets call her A see me and A always hav fun together, the problem she kinda dorky like she fars loudly out loud(gross) she wheres the same thing everyday and her hairs a mess ever since i started to hang out with people make fun of me and insult me this never happened b4 and did i mention she said i luv like a sister once but she said it randomly in class! people got the wrong idea, she asked if at orentation we will change our shedules to match this year i need to kno should i stick with her or find another friend?(she treats me like a best best friend like always picking me wen she can invite some1 even though she has other friends) plz help

2007-07-07 09:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by Mini 1 in Friends

This guy in my Gym and I started to talk. I hardly know him and at one point of our conversations, I said to him that he is uncertain what he wants to do (career) and minutes later, he came to me and said that one thing he is certain, is that he wants to get marry. What is your input on this matter?

2007-07-07 08:59:54 · 23 answers · asked by tacojrlazydays2006 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 08:58:15 · 21 answers · asked by 1st lady 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-07 08:57:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-07 08:57:16 · 3 answers · asked by Jacob W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My father he adopted me when I was 8 mo old and my sister when she was 1 day old and gave us the best life

2007-07-07 08:56:51 · 11 answers · asked by 1st lady 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I NOT LOVE SOMEONE WHEN I DO , I can like this girl from school and she ask me out and I think she liked me to cause she used to look at me cross the class room till this boy went out with her then I got too over Jealous and I did alot of bad things to them because they use to stand outside my house waiting for me to come home from school so i can watch them kiss which hurted me alot and turn me abit ill and went under dispress, then everthing went to court and I won then 7 years later we both walk each others way and both of us just stop looking at each other in the eyes as her new bf got hold of her hand and walked past me which i'm still Jealous but we never gived each other a bad look like before . why am I still so Jealous and why do I cry for her and think of her, how can I make it up to her and to win her heart I don't want to hurt her no more I want to make her better what can I do I care so much about her . I missing her like crazy I can't stop thinking about her

2007-07-07 08:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by diet_television_pop 1 in Singles & Dating

oning and how long. What if the other person considers you a friend?

2007-07-07 08:56:03 · 1 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 08:55:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We were both drunk...so we barely remember
Well, he is pretty good looking, so green , like a tree.
What should i do?

2007-07-07 08:55:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just want to know why

2007-07-07 08:53:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am wondering
Yes I am
Whether people fulfilled with comfort of life
fulfilled with comfort of sex

Forget what is love..?

What is the reason, I want to research and find from as many people as possible and I hope you people give your answer heartily

What is the mystery behind Love and sex
Do Sex overtake love...?

Everybody know which is good one and everybody know sex is not love, yes of course there are some people who think that Love=Sex, but they are wrong

Here my question is not what is love or whether love=sex
but I want to know what people from US and other countries like Germany, France, AU, Russia and every one from every country thinks of this question

What are your views, your personally comments on the issue

Everybody know what is sex, but everybody don't know what is love

What if people started just concentrating on sex

This world proceed as usual..?

Time changing at their level but technology and people are changing at unusual level, its the time to think

2007-07-07 08:51:01 · 8 answers · asked by Vision4heart 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone offered you $1,000,000 in cash, tax free. Would you take it? But.. you had to leave the love of your life & never see or talk to them again. Would You?

2007-07-07 08:48:00 · 25 answers · asked by the_kikione 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friends crush likes me, what do i do?

i dont really like him but he's ok.

2007-07-07 08:46:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband works with this girl and they are really friendly with each other. No problem there. Here's where it gets weird... I will be working for the same company, during a different shift than my husband but this girl will be my supervisor. It wouldn't seem so troubling if she hadn't told me, during my interview with her, that he and she are "right there" with each other. She went on to say that he's just so easy to talk to and started going on about him. We just moved here from out of state and we really need the money that would come with me working for this company. How can I bring this all up to my husband without seeming like the jealous-over-bearing wife? He tends to be clueless when it comes to when a women is hitting on him. He doesn't understand that his personality is what is so attractive about him. So whenever I have brought it up, in the past, he just says it's all in my head. What can I say? Any SENSIBLE suggestions?

2007-07-07 08:42:50 · 4 answers · asked by ionwheels03 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well, i think that's important to him, and when he had an affair, i think that's what he got. good sex. so, i feel insecure about that and that bothers me.so, i think he could be inlove with this person. i have a different view of things, but that doesn't mean i'm right. anyways, how can i move on from this, i don't need to be part of that. i don't need that in my life. i'm going to go in a different direction! that's why she's so sure of herself, and all i have is insecurity. so, that says it all. i'm ready to move on and forget this business. i'm better off being by myself. i don't want to be with anyone that was happy being with someone else. the only reason he may consider being with me its because she's with someone else. i don't want to be with this person anymore. i'm over this. the person is brilliant. and he should leave me alone now. cause there's nothing that can change my mind. i just want to move on now. and lead a normal life. what's done is done. i don't care anymore .

2007-07-07 08:41:50 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 25 year old male, still a virgin, and abstaining from sex till marriage. The thing I worry about is that I am slowly losing interested in sex. When I was younger I found it really difficult abstaining from sex till marriage because the hormones were so intense. But, somehow I managed it. Now, however, the longer I live without sex in my life, the longer I feel I don’t need it. This really worry’s me for when I do have a girlfriend. I don’t even masturbate or watch porn.

2007-07-07 08:32:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to buy someone something kool, not musik, he as all the musik he likes. Seeings he LOVES musik, and he has all his fave bands, im not quite sure what to get him. I can't really afford something thats A LOT of money, something around £10 - £20 , if its jewellery, i don't know what kinda jewellrey to get, plz help!

P.s i've sent him jewellrey b4, so something diff..

2007-07-07 08:32:53 · 9 answers · asked by Lacadema (Role-player) 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend/fiancee (because I'm not really sure anymore!) just proposed to me. So I run over to my house (which is next door) to tell my Mom, because we're about to go to the movies. And when I get back, he's all like "Oh- it's you. Just- just go home right now, and, and, I'll call you."
"But we're going to the movies!" I say, hopelessly confused.
"No-no, no we're not!"
"Why not?"
"Something's come up. Just run home."
"I'm not running home until you tell me what's going on!" And then he just threw me out of the house! Almost literally! And no one else in the house seemed to be bothered about anything! In fact, they were all excited because we're getting married.... but I don't even know what's going on anymore! I came later, and tried to get him to explain, but he was incredibly distracted and all he said was "I love you very much, but you need to go home right now!"
"Have you gone crazy!?"
"Not yet, but I might soon! Just go!" And then he said he was too crazy to marry me

2007-07-07 08:32:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what if a guy has one and its not huge or anything, just a little hair

2007-07-07 08:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by Realist 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10yrs and have 2 amazing kids. My husband is an ok bloke but although i love him its in a brother type way. He is a miserable **** to live with and he does nothing for me sexually. There are only 2 reasons I am still with him. 1) he is an amazing dad, 2) He hasnt done anything so terribly awful that i feel i could hurt him by divorcing him.
Now the real problem. I have a male friend whom I have known for 15yrs, he keeps in touch by email and txt but he came to visit this weekend and we ended up kissing and fondling each other and ive gotta say it was great. Its a known fact to me that he loves me, but he has kept his distance cos im married. I think im really falling for him and dont know what to do, he is willing to give up everything for me to be together and I have no idea where to turn. Any good advice please? And yes i know what im doing is wrong but it feels so right and at 29yrs old its the first time a man has really made me tingle.
Please help.

2007-07-07 08:24:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this place has high volume... i wonder, as i read responces.... seems like alot of girls here/ women feel and see things like me. if it is possible, i would like to meet some of you gals...i am 43 but look 35. if you are at least 29 to 50 and you see this, if you are inspired. write me.

2007-07-07 08:18:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never went through marriage counseling, my husband and I just went twice in our 9 yrs together, and we've had problems for about 9 yrs. I know, we should never have gotten married,
we're suffering for that mistake now. Has anyone reached the point in their marriage where they've had enough, felt completely turned off and pretty much disgust for the other person and it actually turned around? I feel that way now. We are actually separated as of today, I asked him to leave and honestly the only thing I feel bad about is that we have 2 children, 5 yrs old and 18 mos. old. I know I should of known better he's always been a problem from the beginning, but we
can't stop fighting and I don't want the children to grow up like that. But I'm curious about counselling, everyone always recommends it. It seems that everyone thinks a marriage can be saved as long as there's no cheating or hitting, but that's not the only way that someone can hurt you or the only thing that can make you sick.

2007-07-07 08:14:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This may be confusing but I'll try to get it out as best as I can..

I was with a man over a duration of 4+ years. During that time he cheated. I haven't seen him for a few months - he's going to be in jail for a while and I'm upset because I'm not sure if I'm going to see him again.. When he and I split up in 2005 for about a year I dated another man for about 3 months.. I started to see this other man again as friends and hanging out together.. Well we were going to hook up last night but I couldn't do it.. I pushed him off of me and said "I can't do this.." I felt like I hurt his feelings or something.. I don't know what's wrong with me.. He just got up and left after that.. I don't know what to do! I can't get over the man I was with for 4 years.. Has this happened to any of you guys or girls before? Not being able to get intimate with someone because you were still in love?

2007-07-07 08:08:24 · 10 answers · asked by ☆Bombastic☆ 5 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 and matture for my age and i am with a man who is 27. i love him very much and he loves me. we talk for hours every day and never run out of things to say to each other when ever we are together its like there is no one else in the world i feel completly safe with him and know he will never hurt me and i will never hurt him. i have recently found engagment ring brouchers at his house but he doesnt know i have seen them. do you think the age difference matters?

2007-07-07 08:08:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my grandma had died few months ago and my uncle and his wife (we're not happy with her at all) We went through photos that they gave us. Needle to say, they gave us photos that we don't even know who they were. They mostly gave us junk and they kept the great stuff. That's how she is.

Anyway, what should my parents do with old family photos that they don't even know who they are?

2007-07-07 08:06:30 · 14 answers · asked by Kat 3 in Family

I have 20 year old daughter who has a 20 year old bf. They both attend the same college a few hours away. We live 15 minutes away from his home (he lives with parents). They wanted to go to California for a few days on spring break to visit my parents (staying at their home). No problem. I purchased 2 tickets to Cali for them. My parents were preparing for their visit when my daughter’s bf told her his momma said he couldn’t go. She was upset that I purchased her son a ticket without asking her first. Was I wrong for purchasing a ticket for a 20 year old college student who just so happens to live with his parents?

2007-07-07 08:05:50 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa E 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 99% sure i can win my girlfriend back if i could just talk to her alone. Every time I call a nosy relative of hers always butts in. She tells me she loves me but I cant get her alone with me. Any Ideas

2007-07-07 08:03:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i stopped by my best friends house to pick her up with a group of girls to go mini golfing...her brother came outside and started mowing the lawn...the other girls were screaming and waving to him...he waved politely to them but then went back to what he was doing...then my best friend came out and asked me to get out of the car to go talk to him because he needed to talk to me...i got out but then got back in because he couldn't hear us and i was to shy to go over...anyways she gets his attention and he walks over and says hi to just me and made it very clear it was for just me...then he looked at me with a huge smile on his face...then we left and he kept waving to me till we were out of sight...he also said he was only going to wave to me...then at the golf course she tries to get me to write down my phone number to give it to him or to just go back home with her to talk to him.. things didnt work out for me to be able to do that...why would he ask to talk to me does he like me???

2007-07-07 08:01:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating