Help! Plz answer!!!!!!!!!!!!! FRIEND HELP?

Question

ok this is a big 1, i hav a best friend lets call her A see me and A always hav fun together, the problem she kinda dorky like she fars loudly out loud(gross) she wheres the same thing everyday and her hairs a mess ever since i started to hang out with people make fun of me and insult me this never happened b4 and did i mention she said i luv like a sister once but she said it randomly in class! people got the wrong idea, she asked if at orentation we will change our shedules to match this year i need to kno should i stick with her or find another friend?(she treats me like a best best friend like always picking me wen she can invite some1 even though she has other friends) plz help

I tried to tell her but she says she can care less and she is kinda stubborn and won't listen

Its not that i want to popular its just wen i try to make new friends no one gives me a chance cus i hang out wit her i wanta to make other friends too she never lets me hang with them

Answer 1

I know how you feel! I had the same problem, what I say is if she treats you like a great friend keep her. But if you really want her to be great on the outside(looks) then go to the mall w/ her and buy some new chlothes. And try to do all that stuff she doesn't. If she doesn't want to, than don't do it. You can't change her personality!

Answer 2

In a sense, your friend is a great example. Not that you should go around acting like her, but she isn't letting other people change the way che acts and the things she does. You should definately remain her friend. It sounds like you have a lot of fun with her alone, but in public you just get annoyed with her. Try following her example. Don't worry about what everyone thinks about you. Just be yourself. I know that sounds a little cheesy, but its what you should do. You can't always do whats considered cool or else you will end up smoking and drinking. That is a much bigger extent of this, but it's still the same problem: you changing what you do to please others. Just stay her friend. If everyone makes fun of you, you could just tell them that you don't care what they think. You are good friends with "A" and you won't stop being her friend just because everyone else thinks you should. It sounds like you have a really good friendship with "A", so you shouldn't throw that away just to please others.

Answer 3

She sounds like a truly devoted friend, stick with her. Believe me they're hard to find. If you have issues with her appearance you could confront her about it. I don't mean go up to her and tell her she looks bad or whatever, invite her over to your house and do make overs. You never know, she might have an underlying problem at home that is the reason for her appearance. You will learn over time that other people's opinions don't really matter as long as you're happy.

Answer 4

I think you should talk to her about it. Something like, "You have to know that farting out loud is like, really disgusting, right?" Then you can make suggestions about helping her fix her hair and things like that, but ultimately you're going to have to decide for yourself whether you think she's been a good friend to you, and if you want to be a good friend to her too. Part of being a good friend is being able to frankly talk about what's on your mind in a civil discussion, as well as sticking up for them when no one else is around to defend them in a conversation behind their back. I hate to answer a question with a question, but: Can you be a good friend to her?

Answer 5

Well just dont be mean to her, but dont be extra nice, like dont invite her for stuff, and only come somtimes to things that she invites you to, dont start conversations, only talk to her if SHE starts talking, you will slowly drift away, and you will never have to worry about it! That way if you regret it, yo ucan go back into the friendship and she cant blame you for being mean!

Answer 6

tsuki, Sweety she may be a mess but you love each other so people are jelous !